saintdennis:
Hmm baba 3rd class doesn't just mean she doesn't know book o.

It means she was loose or focusing on one boy (school husband n wife thingslol)

Sir b4 I conclude...pls which school did she grad from? That's what will determine errthing.

Also go and investigate her FB. Olosho love posting pics n updating status (go and check her posts during school)

Anyway personally I can't marry a 3rd class/ pass babe

Presh900:
what could mk sm1 have 3rd class?? Did she have a live-in boyfriend in schoo? Is she a runs girl?? Does she have low IQ??

S2kluv:
so frm ur own assessment my broda, only dis factor make sum1 get 3rd class?

just my opinion, what do you think could mk her get a 3rd class

Swissheart:
Hmmmn
I'll answer you in the best way I can. Your gf has graduated with a 3rd class and you think she must have spent the better part of her time for leisure hence her unbefitting grade abi? Nop,it doesn't work that way. We have instances of people who were crazily involved in Unionism, Beauty Pageants Contest, Student Fellowship and what have you yet they graduated with good grades. Some are just wired that way. That her grade has made you disappointed doesn't mean she played away her good time in school maybe she hasn't bn academically sound. Shit happens. It doesn't make her less a good wifey abi Marriage is one important aspect of our lives that our educational qualification isn't a criteria for.
I sense you are embarrassed about her grade.....it is nothing. Take your mind off it if you truly want her.

ozodigboo:

She attended FUTO Owerri

Presh900:
just my opinion, what do you think could mk her get a 3rd class

Presh900:
just my opinion, what do you think could mk her get a 3rd class

saintdennis:
Hmm baba 3rd class doesn't just mean she doesn't know book o.

It means she was loose or focusing on one boy (school husband n wife thingslol)

Sir b4 I conclude...pls which school did she grad from? That's what will determine errthing.

Also go and investigate her FB. Olosho love posting pics n updating status (go and check her posts during school)

Anyway personally I can't marry a 3rd class/ pass babe

ozodigboo:
What I'm about to say is the truth...i need honest answers pls.
I'm not bothered with criticisms, just let your opinions be HONEST and am satisfied.

I'm in a dilemma....I'm a lawyer practising in anambra, been in a long distance relationship with a corper practising in Kwara.
She will complete nysc next month.
She knows that if things go well, marriage could be on the cards, but we're still getting to know each other.
The last time she visited 2 weeks ago, we were discussing career prospects, i asked, she said she had 3rd class...later she said '' ordinary pass ''.
But she was smiling while saying this.
I didn't wanna push further in order not to give the impression that i'm more concerned about degree than finding a good person.
She looks and sounds reasonably decent......or is she not ? I'm i mistaken ?
3rd class [ or ordinary pass ]for a lawyer......does it matter in marriage ?

OTHER QUESTIONS
1. If she really had that type of degree, could she still be a good girl ? The course she studied isn't that competitive.....3rd class means she may not have been going to class..so where has she been going to ?
2. last time she visited, she saw a pic of an old Flame of mine...i was calm. she asked nothing, i said nothing. [ quite unusual, maybe she didn't wanna ask because she didn't want me to ask back ].
3. i jokingly told her i will come and visit her in ilorin, she wasn't really keen....is she hiding something ? or not ? she lives in a private catholic family house, but knows i can easily afford a hotel, so why the hesitance ?

** i found out from someone that she had a carryover...that alone doesn't mean 3rd class. And that '' someone'' couldn't give me additional info. i know i will eventually know [ she wants to give me her CV and results at the end of nysc for job search etc] but i want to make up my mind asap....that's why i came here.
THANK YOU ALL

Kgdavid:


That seems to be the very thing the OP is afraid of!!

Berbierklaus:
This thread is fxcking irritating,

Is this the way normal people reason?
Are these the everyday people I interact with?
Do my friends and family have this kind of outdated stereotype mentality?
Are you all demented?

I can't even make a reasonable contribution,so I will jump and pass and pray never to come across people like the OP and those spewing trash here

Laveda come chinchumchin

saintdennis:


Owerri?!!!!!!!!!!!!


Bros PLEASE jump the babe pass... an Owerri babe with 3rdiel? She be hustler na.


The ones I met while @ uniben?

The ones I met while @ nysc ?

The ones I met while @ my old job?

If she truly made a 3rdie/pass then bro I think u should have a honest heart-to-heart convo let her confess her sins.

Especially if she read a social, business, management or arts course.

ozodigboo:

With all due respect, this is 2016...
People get into marriage these days with their eyes OPEN.
And that means asking the relevant questions....
To avoid stories that touch the heart.

In 2016 you still think been promiscuous equals poor grades in school? are you kidding me?
Who made you a lawyer? have you ever traveled from your town and neighboring villages?

In 2016 your criteria for a life partner involves looking down on them because you are a lawyer? can you handle a woman who is more educated and into a better profession than you? No you can't,you come across as an insecure individual.

In 2016 you believe people on the internet will give you answers to person questions about the person you are seeing one on one?
What is your background like?

In 2016 you intentionally engage in a long distance relationship and you have trust issues?
Do you just love stressing yourself or you are a difficult person?

I really have emphaty for the young lady involved with you.

I'm trying real hard not to be offensive, so I will just leave this thread. phewww


BTW please check my signature and help like my SIS's pic

ozodigboo:

I was told IMSU and ALVAN are bad....but FUTO girls face their books [ not sure sha ]
She's not from owerri ....she's an anambra girl.

Berbierklaus:

In 2016 you still think been promiscuous equals poor grades in school? are you kidding me?
Who made you a lawyer? have you ever traveled from your town and neighboring villages?

In 2016 your criteria for a life partner involves looking down on them because you are a lawyer? can you handle a woman who is more educated and into a better profession than you? No you can't,you come across as an insecure individual.

In 2016 you believe people on the internet will give you answers to person questions about the person you are seeing one on one?
What is your background like?

In 2016 you intentionally engage in a long distance relationship and you have trust issues?
Do you just love stressing yourself or you are a difficult person?


I really have emphaty for the young lady involved with you.

I'm trying real hard not to be offensive, so I will just leave this thread. phewww


BTW please check my signature and help like my SIS's pic

Berbierklaus:
This thread is fxcking irritating,

Is this the way normal people reason?
Are these the everyday people I interact with?
Do my friends and family have this kind of outdated stereotype mentality?
Are you all demented?

I can't even make a reasonable contribution,so I will jump and pass and pray never to come across people like the OP and those spewing trash here

Laveda come chinchumchin

Mille:
Some people can be really funny.

There was a girl I was trying to date then, back in the university. We both liked each other. On the day she was to accept, she asked for my CGPA. I just hissed and left her.

Bros Ozodigboo , after reading your comment above me, I have to also ask.

Who made you a Lawyer?

ozodigboo:

You're in no position to lecture me on education. You should have read it in full.
Nothing in my post, warrants insults from you.
i can accept constructive criticisms, but u haven't said anything....you just insulted me and closed your post.

If you attended a university at all, you should at least agree that my concerns/questions are valid.

what do u mean by '' i see her one-on-one but i sought advice from internet ''? which one-on-one ? Do i stay in kwara ? Did i attend FUTO ? we see only on holidays.

what do you mean by '' i intentionally engaged in long distance relationship''.....should i have dumped her because nysc posted her to a far place ? what are you even ranting about ?

I'm not concerned about 3rd class....i'm worried as to why an ARTICULATE, WELL SPOKEN girl like her should have 3rd class ?

We all have choices...most of you ladies have other ridiculous, funny reasons to reject a guy for marriage....like being broke, short etc

So why is my post getting under ur skin ?

I hope with these few words of mine I have been able to convince and not confuse you about my stand on the issue Mr Lawyerman .

can you now epp me like the pinshure

montezz:

EPP me ask him o.
Dyt coman see

Mille:
Some people can be really funny.

There was a girl I was trying to date then, back in the university. We both liked each other. On the day she was to accept, she asked for my CGPA. I just hissed and left her.

Bros Ozodigboo , after reading your comment above me, I have to also ask.

Who made you a Lawyer?

Buhahahahahahaha



I hope the OP is not offended by this
PS: epp me check my signature

Laveda:


Go easy on him mami.

But thie mentality of the lady being promiscuous is rather annoying.

I mean do we still have educated folks thinking like this?