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Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by OLAJADON: 12:47pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
Dezolo:Uwc |
Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by TheArchangel(f): 1:48pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
thorpido:It's afternoon now. Jerking off is a good thing when you are working in an overstressed environment like mine. So I am extending a hand in fellowship to you..... |
Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by crackhaus: 2:02pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
Dezolo:Next time you will not burn the only cooked food in the house, and to make it worse, you still let your husband go to bed hungry...after a long day out. If it were me, you for get up go cook something that night 3 Likes |
Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Diplomaticbeing(m): 2:34pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
Obviously you're a troller. 4 Likes |
Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by kayzat: 2:57pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
Dezolo: I don't think it is the fact that you burnt the food but it might be because the finances is not going to the plan and him having to sleep alone trigger to think deeper than necessary on the situation of things. And please next time always try your best to make sure your hubby take something before going to bed. its very important. 2 Likes |
Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Raina80(f): 4:26pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
The lady brought this to this forum because she needs advice not to be judged. How is cooking a meal going to address the issue? Madam I don't know you but this is what I will have to say. There is more to just burning food here. Have you asked him if everything is fine at work? The early days of marriage can be stressful he is getting used to being a husband and it's not easy on new wives. All the expectations of that role weighs heavily on our shoulders. Is everything alright at work? Marriage comes with a lot financial responsibilities. Talk to him don't accuse him or blame him as he will become defensive. Marriage does not come with a manual, you learn as you go. Wish you luck. 1 Like |
Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by napa: 6:02pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
He might be going through some form of stress. Try to calmly find out what the issue is in a loving way. That is marriage for you, you have the good and bad days. 1 Like |
Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by ElsonMorali: 6:19pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
Dezolo: Cook his favorite meal and apologize again. If he's still angry then you married an immature human being. Let him be. When his eye clear he will borrow himself some brain. 1 Like |
Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Nobody: 7:07pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
Dezolo: Simples! That thing called "talking". Will do wonders. You need a good heart to heart honest conversation. Once open communication is gone, it's free fall from there. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Nobody: 10:56am On Oct 29, 2016 |
thorpido: So you are kinda luring said "spinsters" into the trap....and then snap! Door shuts, prison/life begins ba? Some spinsters know sha....many men are good, many marriages are good.....but for some women, the compromises and strategising and responsibilities inherent in becoming a Nigerian, or indeed any wife is too much for their "emotionally stunted", "self centred", "irresponsible", "man's brain", just plain and classic old "ogbanje" selves ....and that is not a bad thing too I think the person you quoted was being contextual and nothing else, considering that in marriages in our society, the woman bears a loot....no matter how we may coat it..... I could be wrong about her intent though (this is doubtful, but is still possible) |
Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Datsme: 11:11am On Oct 29, 2016 |
OLAJADON: I concur with your view. This is exactly what I have been thinking |
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