Mindfulness:


As long as a woman who is old enough gets married to someone without being bullied into this marriage or forced into it, I couldn't care less.

And I don't care what objects people use to satisfy themselves.

Let people be free.

SalomonKane:
And if it's her family that is bullying her? How is it your concern? You're not a family member, are you?

It's no bodies what people use to please themselves. But there's the law. If the law says it's wrong for a woman and a woman to Bleep. Then it's wrong.

The reason why Nigeria mu country is in shambles it because of our lack of adhering to the rule of law.


The law is ineffective, like it's used to tame and control the masses.

Mindfulness:


If she wants help and I can help, I will be glad to help. Have you got a problem with it?

The law said that it was right to persecute Jews in Nazi Germany, so?

No, it's because people suffer from misguided moralism. They will freak out when two women love each other but turn a blind eye to the corpse on the street and the people looting the country AS LONG AS it serves them.

SalomonKane:
Not at all. But I'm sure you there's something call locus standi, in law?

Just like the law said it's right to enslave, segregate and hang blacks in South Africa and The West, so?

Morality has nothing to do with it. Cos a sane mind that is truly educated will look past all these mundane things.

Never forget, the people you so criticise for freaking out when they see two women fucking are the same people who will burn a person alive for stealing 10 Naira.

Mindfulness:

So?

Idiot.ic laws again.

I have seen the so called 'educated' folks here making cruel and disgusting comments too. And in the same breath, they will talk about Jesus and the merciful God.

SalomonKane:
The law doesn't recognise you. Simple.

I'm glad we agree on this.

I believe you don't really or fully understand the meaning of what it mean for one to be truly 'educated'.

Going to school and getting a degree doesn't mean one is educated. Neither does one having a PhD mean one is educated.

The ones you see here talking about God are the ones who are the bane of this society we live in.

Mindfulness:


I don't need the law to recognize me.

Cool.

I agree here too.

Many not all. Only a few can reconcile reason with religion.

2dugged:
same way commercial sex workers are adults too,and it's their body, if we are to look at it that way then some things that society frowns at should be over looked and we should be liberal towards it.I want to know if it's this same it's her body would have applied if it were to be guys in that video?, that is why I will insist that it's only hypocritical that just because she a beauty queen, we should be liberal, anyway i have made my point, and that's it, judgment isn't mine to pronounce but I do have an entitlement to my opinion, and no one can change that,I condemn wrong when I see it,I don't defend based on tribe or hide behind the bible,simple

kodded:
she broke the law



Use your God given sense for once

kk4kiss:
God punish that Dr. We re African and Nigerian to say in Africa is an abomination he can be at UK and practice homosexual while his wife practice woman to woman we don't care we can only care wen they bring it down here in 9ja then 14yrs await them both. No to same sex

reminiscing:
Did your God given sense not tell u that telling lies,fornicating,lusting,cheating and commiting malpractice is a sin??

If u Dont do any of these then condemn her

hyperflex:
All of you attacking the doc have no sense. You guys shld be living in those communities yet to discover electricity and clothes. Person drop sound argument you're just abusing him without any reason. Hypocrisy go kill una. If ur sons n daughters turn gay will you kill them?!

CandyDiamond:
Those shouting arrest her,prosecute her,which evidence will they use to do that,a video that is photoshoped or videoshoped with the image of the accused person and if you claim you watch the video and saw her in the porn video,you are also under arrest for watching pornographic film.

2dugged:
we are talking about laws your are talking about your moral laxity,smh,if laws were to be made based on the way you just described your own, then why will I condemn abortion, since it has not affected me adversely, afterall its not my pregnancy, why will I condemn rape,since its not me that was affected adversely, why should I even frown at someone that commits suicide after all it doesn't affect me adversely, Abeg you lots should come up with a better argument, the bible line of he who has no sin didn't work, come up with something else, oh yea liberal minded

franugo:


I don't defend based on tribe or religion either love, in fact I wouldn't call myself a religious someborri. Its like u missed d part about sex workers, I already told u dt I don't really give a flying Bleep about them. Dt wasn't said in a negative light trust me, I don't judge a person's character based on His/her job.
If it were guys in d video, I wouldn't have watched it but my stand would've been d same. I try to distance myself from double standards,,,, easier said than done though.....like I said in d previous post, u have your opinion n I'm not trying to force mine on you, I probably wouldn't have quoted u at all in d first place except it seemed to me like u were pretty much calling out everyone dt has an opposing view to yours

kodded:
funny enough the same Bible frown at homosexuality

Kingsley1000:
Supporting homosexuals doesn't make you a
homosexual. People should be allowed to live their life
as long as they harm nobody. Let their conscience be
their judge. We are free moral agents, we have human
rights, right to life, right to be free, right to express
ourselves. If we are denied these rights, we lose our
sense of being humans. Even God our creator gave us
freedom to choose, He said in His book that He has
placed life n death before us but we should choose
life. He didn't make it mandatory for everyone to
choose life. Only demons force their way into humans,
only demons forces one to live the life they choose for
them n not the life they choose for themselves. Are
we now becoming demons by forcing others to live
the life we want them to live and not the ones they
choose for themselves? If God didn't take our rights
to choose from us, We should take it from anybody.
Jesus came into this life to die for sinners
(homosexuals inclusive). We can only win this people
(homosexuals) through love. The more we express
our hatred and push them away, the more they
distant themselves from us and the more they distant
themselves from us, the more they go deep in the act.
The worst part is Christians are the people
castigating homosexuals. If we do that, we are no
different from Muslims n we shouldn't call ourselves
Christians because Christ will never do such. Some of
you that criticize this Lady do terrible stuffs ten times
what she did behind close doors, just that you hvnt
been unfortunate to be caught on camera and go viral
on social media like her. Stop the hate game. If we
must stop this act, we must approach them with
love. I am not a Catholic but Pope Francis is one of
the greatest men of God I respect because his loving
nature to homosexual, muslims, etc. Christ died for
everyone sinners, adulterers, fornicators and
homosexuals inclusive. Why are we exempting them?
Chidinma I believe have learnt her lessons, she has
suffered a lot and deserves a second chance just like
we all. After all she didn't kill or mame anyone. The
more we keep condenming her, the more we push her
to committing suicide #IStandWithChidimmaOkeke
is her crime more heinous than that of our politicians
who always loots our common wealth?

Romans 13:1-5



Let every person be subject to the governing authorities.
For there is no authority except from God, and those that
exist have been instituted by God. Therefore whoever
resists the authorities resists what God has appointed, and
those who resist will incur judgment. For rulers are not a
terror to good conduct, but to bad. Would you have no fear
of the one who is in authority? Then do what is good, and
you will receive his approval, for he is God's servant for
your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for he does not
bear the sword in vain. For he is the servant of God, an
avenger who carries out God's wrath on the wrongdoer.
Therefore one must be in subjection, not only to avoid
God's wrath but also for the sake of conscience.

Kolababe:
UK based Nigerian medical doctor and humanist Ijabla Raymond, is really angry with Nigerians over their reactions to the recent leaked sextape of Miss Anambra, Chidinma Okeke's sextape. Read the eye-opening write up...

one of those moments I feel ashamed to be a Nigerian. I don't understand why there is so much hysteria about the leaked sex video of a private citizen. In my opinion, this should not make the news. There are far too many sanctimonious and judgmental people who take it upon themselves to be morality police in this country. They pontificate on how sinful sex is yet they seek out the leaked sex video and all forms of porn on the internet.

The morality police turn a blind eye when prepubescent girls are given out in marriage to men old enough to be their grandfathers but as soon as consenting adults engage in premarital or gay sex they start twitching. How is it anybody's business what two or more consenting adults choose to do with their bodies if they are not hurting a third party or forcing you to have sex with them? WELL, THIS IS REALLY UNBELIEVABLE! I couldn't believe the story told about miss Anambra 2015, that is to say, in the person of Miss Chidimma Okeke, until yesterday when I was able to extract the firm from one of the hidden sites and feed my eyes with the LEAKED VIDEO.
I cant say exactly what could be wrong with the girl in question, she has such a beautiful body shape, that no man after sexing her will ever look outside for another to sex. I 've kept asking myself the question of what could lead such a beautiful girl in LESBIANISM. Well, her action was a deliberate act and not forced. I said this because she started masturbating herself with the CUCUMBER before her lesbian friend joined her. She also moaned to the enjoyment of the did. What I couldn't explain is the reason why it was videoed. Could she justify her action for being proud of refusing her unclothedness from been seen by his male friend, fiance or for the reason of not letting any one know that she do have premarital sex, now look at were it has landed her finally. WHAT AN EMOTIONAL TRUMMA she will be going through now. I know she must have belong to one denominational Religious group, that she will always brag of to people. People don't think before taking some actions they always take. Main! Babes if you cant hold yourself, calmly pant yourself down for your man, than having the whole world see you PANT DOWN. ANAMBRA LADY'S NO GO GET RESPECT AGAIN OOO. CUCUMBER DONE Bleep ANAMBRA BEAUTY PAGEANT.

Do you want something really worthwhile to talk about? Do you want to talk about something that every decent person should be angry about? I will give you it. Only this month, the Emir of Katsina reportedly married a fourteen-year-old girl, assaulting her dignity and innocence in the process but our society hardly took notice. Child-bride marriage is so common in northern Nigeria that it is considered a normal way of life.

This is a matter that has serious consequences for the lives of young people. It should concern every citizen because it destroys the lives of our children. It stops girls from going to school to get an education, which in turn affects their prospects of getting good jobs and becoming financially independent later in life. These girls are more likely to develop abnormal connections between their vagina, bladder, and rectum during childbirth, which then causes them to become incontinent of feces and urine. The resultant malodor very often leads to isolation and social ostracism or even divorce by their husbands who simply marry the next child-bride. It is a lot of psychological trauma for anybody to deal with let alone a teenage mother. These young mothers end up begging on the streets when their elderly husbands divorce them. Sadly, their children are left to the mercies of hostile step-mothers and may end up as street beggars just like their unfortunate mothers.

The evidence shows that children born to educated mothers have better outcomes than those born to teenage mothers with no education or job. When you educate a woman you empower the whole family and by extension the society. Look around, and you will notice that the most progressive and affluent societies in the world are the ones that have educated and empowered their women. It seems to me that the Nigerian society is confused and has its priorities the wrong way round. Why are we angry when adults (married or not, gay or straight) engage in consensual sex but turn a blind eye when children are raped by adults in the name of tradition?

As a secular humanist, I do not look to any religious book or gods for morals. I apply reason, common sense, judgment, and empathy in decision-making. If two or more adults engage in consensual sex and this does not harm anybody then it is none of my business. Period! I think our self-righteousness and propensity to be judgemental come from religion. Islam and Christianity condemn homosexuality and consensual sex between unmarried adults but are silent on the matter of pedophilia. Catholic priests have gained an ugly notoriety for sexually molesting young boys all over the world. The prophet of Islam married a prepubescent girl when he was in his fifties and many Muslims cannot be persuaded to abandon this practice. Despite unparalleled religiosity, our society is one of the most decadent in the world - we are almost always near the top of the list of the most corrupt countries in the world. Many Nigerian children endure years of sexual abuse by close relatives such as uncles, aunties, cousins, house-boys, house-girls or family friends. To think some of these perverts are now sitting in judgment over Miss Anambra and her friend is nauseating and outrightly hypocritical.

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/10/miss-anambra-sex-video-medical-doctor.html

LuvU2:
If he has an opinion; he should shut up already cos Nigerians have theirs too.

Liberal world aint it?

QueenthDee:
I don't like this one bit


Chidinma has given voice to the voiceless, let this die already.

Leriebloom:
Rly have nothing to say. Just minding my own business

nubian999:
He spoke the absolute truth.

Laveda:
Just the truth, the country is _fucked up!
Its funny how people are comparing a case of rape and this one, shows how delusional some people can be, smh!

Aswear the matter don tire me.

AmarachiOnuoha:
WELL, THIS IS REALLY UNBELIEVABLE! I couldn't believe the story told about miss Anambra 2015, that is to say, in the person of Miss Chidimma Okeke, until yesterday when I was able to extract the firm from one of the hidden sites and feed my eyes with the LEAKED VIDEO.
I cant say exactly what could be wrong with the girl in question, she has such a beautiful body shape, that no man after sexing her will ever look outside for another to sex. I 've kept asking myself the question of what could lead such a beautiful girl in LESBIANISM. Well, her action was a deliberate act and not forced. I said this because she started masturbating herself with the CUCUMBER before her lesbian friend joined her. She also moaned to the enjoyment of the did. What I couldn't explain is the reason why it was videoed. Could she justify her action for being proud of refusing her unclothedness from been seen by his male friend, fiance or for the reason of not letting any one know that she do have premarital sex, now look at were it has landed her finally. WHAT AN EMOTIONAL TRUMMA she will be going through now. I know she must have belong to one denominational Religious group, that she will always brag of to people. People don't think before taking some actions they always take. Main! Babes if you cant hold yourself, calmly pant yourself down for your man, than having the whole world see you PANT DOWN. ANAMBRA LADY'S NO GO GET RESPECT AGAIN OOO. CUCUMBER DONE Bleep ANAMBRA BEAUTY PAGEANT.

adesewa4uyahoo:
Ori boda Raymond o pe ni.... Like seriously? Everybody just dey put mouth for this matter dem wan shine by force..

Teespice:
I agree with this doctor one hundred percent.

awon judginus be judging yet their closets be filled with poo.

let him without sin be the first to throw stones.

DollyParton1:

And of all the things he wrote, this is the best line of argument you can come up with?
The Doctor is right afterall.
Or do us one better by being the police and the judge and just go arrest and sentence her to prison already.

fourthworld:


Fool with a transfused brain of lizard. Is lesbianism the problem affecting your God forsaken Country? Why not push for laws that will place death sentence on your stupid politicians for looting which will improve your life eventually than to focus on this petty thing? Cursed be to you zombies

fourthworld:


Leave the hypocrites. If they can face their useless leaders with 10% energy they've used to condemn the girl, Nigeria will be paradise. Fools. They should just ask their beasts to provide common electricity for them than to waste their meagre income purchasing bytes to criticize another person. Zombies

LuvU2:
If he has an opinion; he should shut up already cos Nigerians have theirs too.

Liberal world aint it?

afanide:
That Doctor should be investigated