Mindfulness:

I am not his biggest fan but I see the value in his writing and I have enjoyed it.

So true!
I love this guy!

Ujoan:
I really feel bad for this woman, but I hope this story serves as a lesson to women all around. No amount of money you spend on a man and his family will make him love you. Love is not for sale.

This woman was childless , not by any fault of hers. But because she choose to exist in a toxic environment. How will she even conceive under that condition? Now she has transferred her wealth to the man and his family and he has gone to buy a whole new family with her money. And she's jobless, peniless, childless and husbandless. . . . . All because she chose to demean herself and sell her pride for 'love'.

My husband and I have an understanding, my property is my property, his is his. . . Maybe if circumstances were different and his family were different we would do the whole combined husband and wife thing. But the reality is that things are different. Nobody is sure of the next day. God fobid something happens to him tomorrow, I won't want my kids and I to be at the mercy of his family after having contributed to his estate. So I work hard, save my money and invest for my children's future. I've been accused of not being loyal to my husband but I don't care. My children's future is more important to me than being seen as a 'good wife'.

You can't put your happiness in the hands of another human being. . . . Love no reach that one a beg.

DarkRebel101:


I am not a babe. That I condemned the evils of men does not mean I have to be a woman.

sisisioge:

Sorry dude...my bad.

Dyt:


Why you always suspecting me?


You will be shocked half of NL knows you are single and ready to mingle

sisisioge:


Hmmm, I better go and choose aso ebi sharpsharp...I'm still thinking white and peach Amy green and white...

Funjosh:

Oya na

Dyt:


You didn't tell me there's a lucky somebori na




Where we dey go?

julimartins:
Cc:Royalroy

julimartins:
Please the mods should help us move this to the front page,tanx.

sisisioge:


Babes, nobody yet o. I was just being proactive ni. As e be say the word is out...the date is set niyen ke? Just the other day, cute Amelia was helping me extend the search to her bobo's extended family

Ginaz:
I almost wept for her, it's appalling how something as good as love could turn bad, how love could turn to hatred.

My advise to ladies it that, you really need to know the man you're marrying, you really need to forget about money, status, facial looks and concentrate on the man he is inside.

Bring topics that brings out the kind of person he is, you are a woman you should be 90% be able to say, "I know what my man can do under any situation ".

Marry a man that blends with your thinking, don't categorized a man base on looks, height, money, or whatever. Marry a man with sense, a man with confidence, a man that can stand on his decision and nobody pushes him around. A man with substances.

It's hard, but when you concentrate on the inside, what's outside becomes secondary.

I hope she recovers, and build her life around. And one more point to take home, don't suffer for anybody, don't allow nobody to treat you less worthy like an animal. Quit when enough is enough!