This was a very interesting topic that came up in a recent retreat I went for.

A certain guy said he dated his girlfriend for 5 years before getting married to her and they never had sex until marriage. This means they never had sex all through the 5 years and it's not like he is this born again pastorlike kind of guy. He is actually a grooving kinda guy and he drinks socially.

When asked how he was able to cope throughout the 5years being that he wasn't a virgin and he usually moved with friends that womanized to a level he clearly opened up that he always had to mastubate on code once in a while so as not to cheat on his girlfriend because he so much loved her and wanted to respect her personality of no sex before marriage.

Now I know masturbation is regarded as bad or evil whatsoever, the question here is "would you ladies prefer your boyfriend to mastubate instead of cheating on you?

masturbatory activities destroys the strength and resilience of your penis... and a precursor to acute erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculations as the focus is on self pleasing...


cheating on your partner is all shades of disgusting and not cool at all..... not to mention the risks associated with having multiple sex partners...

Nice question

Ladies, over to You

*packs my "long john" ..... then puts it on stand*

Obviously, I might even give him a hand

Dimples999:
Obviously, I might even give him a hand

A hand that will make him unhappy all his life

Davidlein:
A hand that will make him unhappy all his life

Why

Op u already knw d ans,no sane lady will choose a cheating bf.

Dimples999:

Why

Cos its a thing that makes one regret and unhappy

Dimples999:

Why

Cos its a thing that makes one regret and unhappy

lol

why would I keep a girlfriend if I have to masturbate when I have urges? nonsense!!!!!

I don't really care

So you're saying i'm insane?

prettythicksme:
Op u already knw d ans,no sane lady will choose a cheating bf.

Dimples999:

Why

Masturbators are unhappy dudes
I know a few

ItsQuinn:
So you're saying i'm insane?

U did not choose,u only said u dont care.

Op seems ladies don't want to open up.
let's do it this way, click like if you prefer your bf masturbate or share if you prefer him cheat. .
let's see

Yea i don't care whether he's a cheating boyfriend or a masturbator

prettythicksme:
U did not choose,u only said u dont care.

KissChrix:


Masturbators are unhappy dudes

I know a few

watcha expect when they can't get it up at all to open the pussy lips or when they do it is not long enough to pleasure the lady of concern..like prettythicksme

Let my guy masturbate...am OK wit DT Dan cheatin

ItsQuinn:
Yea i don't care whether he's a cheating boyfriend or a masturbator

as a lesbian you wouldn't. it's no surprise

kestolove95:
Let my guy masturbate...am OK wit DT Dan cheatin

bae it's not that simple

vicstar:


who needs a Hand when he can get a Head?

Virgins don't give head

Excuse you, how do you know i'm a lesbian?
Fyi....I'm not a lesbian

NgcoboP:

as a lesbian you wouldn't. it's no surprise

ItsQuinn:
Yea i don't care whether he's a cheating boyfriend or a masturbator

I dont think u have a good bf cos i dont understand y u dont care!Are u team cucumber?

KissChrix:


Masturbators are unhappy dudes

I know a few

Yeah... I'm not keen on wankerz but a cheater is worse in this scenario

Davidlein:
Cos its a thing that makes one regret and unhappy

To cheat would make him feel that too... so we're at a standstill then