Justycxx:
only a few people discard items they bought first hand that easily. It must be a fifth hand toy.

Hahaha abeg free dat guy

Estharfabian:

Back to sender!

I usually don't respond, but this topic is of interest to me. Although I never thought to bleach my skin, being African American, my grandmother and other relatives used bleaching creams on their skins. Grandmother had dark skin, and the society in her era and now still value light skin--she married my grandfather because of his light skin and wavy hair. My grandmother would use it so much that she had white spots on her face. Some black folks here are still more critical of dark skin color more than some white here. Anyway, in any relationship, if the partner is engaging in what you deemed is an unhealthy practice, and is not willing to change, then it is time to leave the relationship. Good luck to both of you!

She's using carotene sef..When some girls will squeeze 100k from their boyfriends to buy bobrisky's kit.You probably didn't do enough to show how much you appreciated her skin color or maybe she has self esteem issues or she's under the influence of peer pressure

alexistaiwo:

So cannibalism is your stock in trade?

Lmao. Can't u c dat ur fighting with an ambassador in bleaching.

alexistaiwo:
Lalasticlala what do you stay about us creating awareness about this new bleaching craze among Nigerian ladies.

I really have some genuine questions to ask you.
Your hatred for bleaching, is it because it causes skin cancer?
Some bleaching products don't contain cancer causing agents. Are you quite OK with someone using those ones? Some even believed to be beneficial to the health, cos they contain antioxidants.
If however you're still not happy with the safe products, then you don't hate bleaching because it causes cancer or kidney problems. I would rather create awareness on the ones containing dangerous chemicals like kidney toxic ones and ask people to avoid those.

ElsonMorali:
I despise ladies who bleach. They tell you they aren't bleaching, they are only toning their skin.
You don't even love yourself, how do you expect me to love you.

Bleaching, plastic surgery et all are all about self, mostly done by people who are vain, and appearance is everything. No pain, no gain.
Some are even ready to risk purportedly harmful side effects to achieve their goals. You can't love self more than that IMHO.
However, if you're talking of low self esteem some people that bleach may have that, but so also do people who don't bleach. I feel most people that bleach, have all forms of plastic surgeries like tummy tuck, bweast augmentations, use Brazilian weaves and perm their hair just have their preferences, and perception of what beauty is. If it makes them feel good within themselves, I personally don't see anything wrong in that.

alexistaiwo:

Before you criticise me for not getting her a good cream. I remember asking her what type of cream she uses and she answered "Pearls". So she intentionally lied to me to hide something. I make sure she is provided for so the money to buy it is not an issue. She told me once that she is getting darker from work stress and I cautioned her against using lightening cream or whatever. She wants to bleach simple.

She may see you as being a judgemental person, and maybe she's not far from the truth.

Estharfabian:

So, I think this is A big lie.



Who quits a relationship because of Some stupiid cream? It's her Skin. and you don't own her.

Natural beauty my round, Black Ass! tell her to go nüde, stop adding fake hair and makeUps.. then, We'd talk.

Don't be too sure to say that.


I can,

I mean, I can quit a relationship with a dark skinned girl, that started to bleach in the course of the relationship.

the other day it ws about ur girlfriend being lazy in bed after disvirgining her. now u noticed she is bleaching..i wont b surprised to know you are jobless and a sec school dropout. i only pity the poor girl u r sampling

the other day it ws about ur girlfriend being lazy in bed after disvirgining her. now u noticed she is bleaching..i wont b surprised to know you are jobless and a sec school dropout. i only pity the poor girl u r sampling.

Vikky014:
the other day it ws about ur girlfriend being lazy in bed after disvirgining her. now u noticed she is bleaching..i wont b surprised to know you are jobless and a sec school dropout. i only pity the poor girl u r sampling

I will let the insult pass but I think it might interest you to know that I am the only nairalander in my locality so I sometimes post issues affecting my guys here to get opinions from a wider audience. Most of my posts in romamceland is about garnering experience from other people for issues affecting my friends. My own mission here is to read front page articles and leave.

Vikky014:
the other day it ws about ur girlfriend being lazy in bed after disvirgining her. now u noticed she is bleaching..i wont b surprised to know you are jobless and a sec school dropout. i only pity the poor girl u r sampling.

.
And next time try as much as possible to get your point across without insults. You don't know me yet you called me jobless and a sec school dropout. And this is how you graduates are taught to make a first impression. Permit me to call you a hypocrite

alexistaiwo:
.
And next time try as much as possible to get your point across without insults. You don't know me yet you called me jobless and a sec school dropout. And this is how you graduates are taught to make a first impression. Permit me to call you a hypocrite

alright. i'm sorry you hear?.i ws upset wt d way u r tlkn abt ur girlfriend. u r jst managing her judging from ur threads

alexistaiwo:
Lalasticlala what do you stay about us creating awareness about this new bleaching craze among Nigerian ladies.

brother, dump her bleaching ass still dont know what some men see in bleachers

alexistaiwo:

That is no biggie. I was taught to give my used toys to the less fortunate. :>

This is what happen when you use small hand to collect big one

Bleaching is a big turnoff for me but I don't believe you should call it quits. This relationship is a big investment of yours. Your spent about 17500 hours of your time on it. Try talking it out between yourselves cos we ain't there when the lights go out (lol). Peace

kingphoenix10:
Bleaching is a big turnoff for me but I don't believe you should call it quits. This relationship is a big investment of yours. Your spent about 17500 hours of your time on it. Try talking it out between yourselves cos we ain't there when the lights go out (lol). Peace

Lol