She happens to be my ex best friend and we started dating after I broke up which went off on a good start and went fine but all my past relationship has never been serious the way she's taking it which is making me scare cos I'm not ready and don't want her to hate me for life.
I noticed she's getting to obsessed about me, calling me almost 20 times per day which prompts me to switch my phone off sometimes, please note am not harsh or something. She claims it to be Love which I don't think it is probably because am not that used to it(You know the way ordinary 9jagirls are) But hers is different as she's ready to get pregnant for me!

Of recent. I read a news on NL about a girl that took poison and even made attempt to kill the guy cos she saw him with another girl and I can't imagine my scenario should look like that cos I tend to mix with lots of girls all the time cos of my nature.
So I thought I should call it quit with her even if I've never broken up with any girl before, am not used to it cos it just happens naturally. I have showed this girl every trick I know but she just wouldn't bulge so I told her my mind.. I don't want to talk about everything that happened through out cos I'd just write a story.

Ok, I got back to school and started thinking about her again cos I feel bad about my actions and her state of mind cos she vowed to hate other guys for life and I don't want to be the cause of that. We have broken up and gotten back almost 10 times cos I notice she just can't do without me-Not that am feeling myself or anything.

She even says am the second person that will sleep with her and make her a woman fully even if she made mistake in the past which she pleaded and I accepted and she's happy am the one to reach there all the time

Please don't think this otherwise as I love her and I really do but I just don't see a future of we both together cos it just wouldn't work out picture perfect but making her go finally and lose contact is hard as she always finds a way to get back to me.

I feel I may not be able to get her kind again( a naija girl that's 110% loyal and ready to do anything for her man but I don't even want that kind of girl yet until I've accomplished what I want it life and ready to settle and I know If I continue with her and mayb hurt her unwillingly; She may do the unknown which am trying to avoid cos I still like myself.

Please advice me and I'll really appreciate. No mock comments pls. Thanks as you do so and God bless u

Rest of chats.. it's still much but this is just the main focus

sorry, couldn't read all. she loves u more than u love her. you started this. finish it. All d best bro

chomytex:
sorry, couldn't read all.
she loves u more than u love her.
you started this.
finish it.
All d best bro

I know she does but it's just too overrated

supersonic1:


I know she does but it's just too overrated

The truth is u ain't ready for a serious relationship yet.
why then did u ask her out?

i didnt read that .sorry

Bro abeg na that kind of girl I dey find o... Please just give me her number if you don't want her again... I will help take her attention away from you.

Bro what on earth do you mean by you're not ready? Are you a player?

chomytex:
The truth is u ain't ready for a serious relationship yet.
why then did u ask her out?

Never knew the consequences would look like this

ikp120:
Bro abeg na that kind of girl I dey find o... Please just give me her number if you don't want her again... I will help take her attention away from you.

Bro what on earth do you mean by you're not ready? Are you a player?

Kinda bro.. But I'm tryna change now. You know the way we guys are

supersonic1:

Never knew the consequences would look like this

well I suggest a hrt to hrt talk. just look for a way to break up with her amicably. With time, she will get over u and move on. And u, next time don't ask a lady out if u ain't ready for commitment.




Dating is nt for premature minds. #my2cents.

supersonic1:

Kinda bro.. But I'm tryna change now. You know the way we guys are

Bro but this girl is not looking for your money na. Why not just make her your one and only? Just look at the way she call you like she wan craze without you. Abi you wan catch STD before you rest? That kind of girl hard to find o

She's no longer a girlfriend but a pest. 20missed calls maka gini kwanu? She needs to get busy! Only an idle person will behave like she's doing.

She's obviously obsessed with you. You can put up with the clingy attitude or leave now when you still can. BTW I couldn't read the chat. Seemed boring to me

If I Read This Thing, Call Me Bastard

I just hope your case won't later be "you don't know the value of what you have until you lose it"... But seriously we all say we're looking for someone who will love us to totally now you have one and you are scared. .

OP! You need TB JOshua...my2cent

supersonic1:


I know she does but it's just too overrated

Girls of such etiquettes hardly comeby...my advice, never lose her.

Op u mst b a very damn gud playboy . Truth b told u dnt luv her lyk u claim. U've jst had ur fun n u think it's tym to luk elsewhere

Stop playing dah u r not ready card. It's jst a charade u use to avoid committment. D issue now here is dah u should av known dah she's going all in on u at d beginning stage, thereby ending it immediately to avoid what's currently happening now.

dat cudnt b iphone7 mehn

chomytex:
well I suggest a hrt to hrt talk.
just look for a way to break up with her amicably.
With time, she will get over u and move on.
And u, next time don't ask a lady out if u ain't ready for commitment.





Dating is nt for premature minds.
#my2cents.

Who says am not ready for commitment
I said she's too[b]OBSESSIVE AND OVER POSSESSIVE[/b]

ikp120:


Bro but this girl is not looking for your money na. Why not just make her your one and only? Just look at the way she call you like she wan craze without you. Abi you wan catch STD before you rest? That kind of girl hard to find o

lol bro.. I just don't want a tragedy to happen

Yuneehk:
She's no longer a girlfriend but a pest. 20missed calls maka gini kwanu? She needs to get busy! Only an idle person will behave like she's doing.

She's obviously obsessed with you. You can put up with the clingy attitude or leave now when you still can. BTW I couldn't read the chat. Seemed boring to me

Lol, thanks for stopping by

eitsei:
I just hope your case won't later be "you don't know the value of what you have until you lose it"... But seriously we all say we're looking for someone who will love us to totally now you have one and you are scared. .

Am not scared about anything, an just scared of what she'll do to the extreme for me and I don't want bad

firstking01:
Girls of such etiquettes hardly comeby...my advice, never lose her.

Are u referring to the ones that act normal or the one that are too obsessive and tend to frustrate you each day

kinggogo:
Op u mst b a very damn gud playboy . Truth b told u dnt luv her lyk u claim. U've jst had ur fun n u think it's tym to luk elsewhere

Stop playing dah u r not ready card. It's jst a charade u use to avoid committment. D issue now here is dah u should av known dah she's going all in on u at d beginning stage, thereby ending it immediately to avoid what's currently happening now.

Honestly I could love her forever if she'd just act normal and not scary, I've tried stalking to her about it but she says she just can't do without me and would do anything to please me.. I'm thinking mayb this can curb it before it goes outta hand

NemzySeries:
dat cudnt b iphone7 mehn

No iPhone 8

supersonic1:


lol bro.. I just don't want a tragedy to happen

I understand sha... But I love it when me gf is all over me with love... Please pm me her phone number na, let me take over from you

ikp120:


I understand sha... But I love it when me gf is all over me with love... Please pm me her phone number na, let me take over from you

LOL I Know una type.

supersonic1:

LOL I Know una type.

Lol

supersonic1:


LOL I Know una type.

Nigga y continue to suffer ds lady? Ikp120 has asked for her numba twice, u stl dnt wanna gv. Nawa 4u ohh... I pray she gets a better guy

supersonic1:


Am not scared about anything, an just scared of what she'll do to the extreme for me and I don't want bad

I think if you remain in her life you may just be able to put her under control

Op, na only you get Shade, Oyinda, Halimat?