Which sex should be the adorer or the adored in a relationship? Adorers, work hard to please their other half, on the understanding that, if they don’t, they might be traded in, whereas it is the role of the adored to be pampered and indulged, safe in the knowledge that they are holding all the cards.
The unequal balance of power in every relationship is no big secret, but actually admitting which one of you does the lion’s share of the caring is something we are a bit squeamish about — especially if it happens to be the woman. Seeing it presented in this picture is interesting indeed.

If it's one person doing the adoring, he or she is likely to become resentful some time, not so?

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@retired mumu, that's why you will always be the adorer. That is, if you're Lucky enough to have the skills necessary to form human relationships.

JuanDeDios:
If it's one person doing the adoring, he or she is likely to become resentful some time, not so?

Yes indeed and especially if the adorer is female. Men have more tolerance than the opposite sex

LadyAnn:


Yes indeed and especially if the adorer is female. Men have more tolerance than the opposite sex

Don't get it twisted, men these days don't have such tolerance. Lord knows I don't. Relationship is a two-way street, it shouldn't be heavily skewed in one direction, that's unhealthy. Any man who would play the role of an adorer almost forever has no sense of self-esteem (please don't mistake this for misogyny)