My most frequent sex partner

When I first saw Paul, he was in the best shape of his life. His pecs, abs and biceps were rock hard and in high def. I could see them clearly through his thin, and entirely insufficient wifebeater. I felt something smack its lips; perhaps it was my labia.

I had never had such an instant, visceral reaction to a man before. It was lust at first sight. I didn’t expect to see him again, but I thought and talked about him constantly afterward. Then, the universe provided -- or perhaps it was my friends, who were tired of hearing me talk about my intense attraction to this man. He came into my life.

He was smart, funny, cute, and you really could bounce a quarter off those buns. The universe had given me exactly what I asked for, but I should have also requested a whopping triple dose of raw, male virility.

The magnificent Paul turned out to have a low, low sex drive.

Of course, the only person I had to compare him to was my ex-boyfriend, a 19-year-old whose sexual appetite was insatiable, who sucked on my tits as if they were a dessert he would never taste again and who came 10 times in one memorable night. Paul was only four years older, but he didn’t want to have sex more than once a night, had absolutely no desire to wake me up in the middle of the night to do it again, and woke up the next morning and got dressed without showing any signs of wanting a quickie before work. Still, I was falling in love.

We moved in together, and our once-a-week bedtime tango dwindled quickly to once a month, two months, three. I started to hyperventilate, wondering what was wrong. Was I too fat? Was there someone else? What was wrong with me -- with us?

He gave me all sorts of reasons for his lack of desire. He wasn’t in the mood, he had a long day at work, his parents were stressing him out and he was sore after working out at the gym. He worked so hard for that beautiful body that I never got to see or touch.


From Palmchat Gist

Caveat: It is not my story, I am unmarried and I will find alternative to any man that sex starve me.

which kind wahala bi dis....

Talk to him about it or perhaps his close friends or relatives.

For me the bet solution is to talk to him. Hadn't seen any man that shy away from sex. Specifically in my family.

okay we have heard.

next!!!

Hmmm and your telling us,. Wetin we go now

Hmm! She should learn how to cope or divorce him, we all have deficiencies. A woman with high libido needs her match but then the man might lack other qualities expected...

I had this neigbour/coursemate back then in school, whenever his gf comes around, we would not leave his room or tell the gurl to start going home once it's past 10PM because we don't want the dude to fall sick. I guess the gf was too "strong" and been a man he will want to impress, before you know my "machi" will be down for some days or weeks. The babe dey suck the poor boy dry...lol.

NB: Before you say the guy should had gone for check-up bla bla, he had a gf before this one and every was going well and he's married now. Bottomline, he's not the too sex person...know your partner and choose wisely.

Till death do u part.

Deal with it.

ibibiofirstlady:
Caveat: It is not my story, I am unmarried and I will find alternative to any man that sex starve me.

Considering your tribe,I don't think it will be a breaking news when you do.

ehyah

Different strokes for different folks.

ibibiofirstlady:
Caveat: It is not my story, I am unmarried and I will find alternative to any man that sex starve me.

Really! *licking lips* I like Ur type!