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Re: How Did I Get Here? by PresVA: 2:42pm On Nov 20, 2016 |
kaboninc:You didn't have the power and strength to say No but you do now... SMH btw, you sure you ain't the op? 5 Likes |
Re: How Did I Get Here? by kaboninc(m): 2:51pm On Nov 20, 2016 |
PresVA: No am not. And yes, you can have the choice to say no but still lack the strength to enforce it. Please don't misunderstand me. You have the power to say NO but still may not have the strength to enforce it. 1 Like |
Re: How Did I Get Here? by Mskrisx(f): 3:00pm On Nov 20, 2016 |
wapu: God will help you my dear sister...don't relent because in no time u will smile so much that he will know your God is alive. Congrats In advance... |
Re: How Did I Get Here? by Nobody: 3:34pm On Nov 20, 2016 |
Re: How Did I Get Here? by kaboninc(m): 4:36pm On Nov 20, 2016 |
Pidgin2: Not in all cases |
Re: How Did I Get Here? by TV01(m): 5:00pm On Nov 20, 2016 |
Dking99:"You are in a fix?" Why won't you be, when you are wussiness personified. A man playing victim? How tragic. You even manage to make "living with me and carrying my son", sound like something that happened whilst you were under general anaesthetic . You used the word "surreptitious - one I like - but how does one surreptitiously make others endeared to them? What you are doing is shifting responsibility, and using euphemism to label her scheming and manipulative. She did this in conjunction with your parents right? I wonder about the "lovely friend" you broke up with. She probably dodged a bullet. Hope she realises that. You were never truly committed to her. You brought her up to reinforce your own victim-hood, as opposed to express true remorse for breaking up with her. You weakling. A man doesn't just "go with the flow", he takes charge and "changes the course", even if it's only of his own life. For crying out loud. And personal happiness that's all about you and your feelings is overrated, if not potentially destructive.. A man takes his place, does his duty, sacrificially if need be. That's what should be the source of his joy. "Wriggle out". Such juvenile wording and immature thinking. You don't wiggle kan, kan. You face your responsibility - whatever you decide to do - to the unborn child and mother. Start by taking charge and putting others first. I champion men, not mannequins. Masculinity not it's masquerades . TV 5 Likes |
Re: How Did I Get Here? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Nov 20, 2016 |
Berbierklaus: Why do you always write in black text? |
Re: How Did I Get Here? by Dking99(m): 11:29pm On Nov 20, 2016 |
I have read all your comments. Replying everyone could cause a cataclysmic chain reaction. Some comments made sense others were The situation on ground is just in the incubator till she puts to bed, we can both correct our mistakes... |
Re: How Did I Get Here? by GodnGold: 12:08am On Nov 21, 2016 |
TV01:I owe you bro... |
Re: How Did I Get Here? by GodnGold: 12:15am On Nov 21, 2016 |
Oga,please assume you are not op and you are not in this 'fix'. What would you do if the lady were your sister? Charlie,fix ya wedding date and stop looking for answers that you already have. They keep telling us to use condoms and not to let some minutes pleasure ruin our parole... Those folks that tell those tales weren't kidding. ..you didn't sheath and you let it fly... Calm down and say hello to the 'baby'! We love you Charlie! |
Re: How Did I Get Here? by GodnGold: 12:20am On Nov 21, 2016 |
Onegai:Here! |
Re: How Did I Get Here? by twosquare(m): 3:12pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Dking99:As long as you have paid her bride price, you have married her. God recognizes it. It is not until you visit the Church you are married; at all. That's an error. Marriage comes in as an agreement between the bride's parent, yours, the bride and groom. That's the witnesses needed. Now, concerning your wife, don't be sad. You can make a lemonade out of your lemon (however that saying goes). Do LOVE her, she is now your wife..it is not easy at first considering what you said but if you want to have PEACE as I can see you, follow the commandment of God: love her as Christ love His church and she in return should submit to you. Also, take charge of your family coz it looks as if you are not the ship captain. It is you&her against the world now. It will do you a lot of good if you follow this advice, and be close to God. 2 Likes |
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