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Open Letter To Single Guys by Hadez(f): 12:27pm On Nov 19, 2016
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?


The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.


I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.


This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.


If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.


It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.


If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.


Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.


Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.


Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.


Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.


Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.


Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.


Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.


My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.


If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.


Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.


Thank you for your anticipated response as you make amends in necessary areas

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 12:29pm On Nov 19, 2016
cry

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by DozieInc(m): 12:35pm On Nov 19, 2016
ok
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 12:48pm On Nov 19, 2016
Hadez:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?

You're indirectly creating awareness about your intents for miss Nairaland sad sad

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by CentaurXV(m): 1:06pm On Nov 19, 2016
....
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:08pm On Nov 19, 2016
summary please wink

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:09pm On Nov 19, 2016
God knows I didn't read it. I swear to God, I didn't

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by CentaurXV(m): 1:14pm On Nov 19, 2016
STFUareyouGod:
God knows I didn't read it. I swear to God, I didn't


K.

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by slimthugchimee2(m): 1:16pm On Nov 19, 2016
i wont read that crap undecided not even in my next life undecided

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by MackBrooklyn: 1:22pm On Nov 19, 2016
cheesy grin





*Spits on the thread* angry






*Spits on the thread once again!!* angry

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:28pm On Nov 19, 2016
I think "men" already know what they want, so this letter is directed to the "boys or players".

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by CentaurXV(m): 1:30pm On Nov 19, 2016
MackBrooklyn:
cheesy grin






*Spits on the thread* angry







*Spits on the thread once again!!* angry



K.
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:31pm On Nov 19, 2016
●●●

Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex.
Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.●●●


Is this letter for a Gay single man

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by CentaurXV(m): 1:31pm On Nov 19, 2016
slimthugchimee2:
i wont read that crap undecided not even in my next life undecided


K.
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by slimthugchimee2(m): 1:32pm On Nov 19, 2016
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by ednut1(m): 1:34pm On Nov 19, 2016
undecided

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by kinggogo: 1:35pm On Nov 19, 2016
Crap

Total BS

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Danfuster(m): 1:38pm On Nov 19, 2016
Bullocks! Bullocks!! Bullocks!!!

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:39pm On Nov 19, 2016
Who send you?


undecided


#YOLO
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by CentaurXV(m): 1:50pm On Nov 19, 2016
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:56pm On Nov 19, 2016
STFUareyouGod:
God knows I didn't read it. I swear to God, I didn't

Ah swear, too freaking long!!!

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by MrCork: 2:07pm On Nov 19, 2016
Hadez:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?


The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.


I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.


This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.


If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.


It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.


If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.


Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.


Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.


Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.


Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.


Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.


Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.


Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.


My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.


If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.


Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.


Thank you for your anticipated response as you make amends in necessary areas


angry
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 2:11pm On Nov 19, 2016
JuicyLucy:
cry
My sister I'm curious about this your moniker. Exactly how are you juicy, is it your body/certain parts of your body? I'm just wondering what reactions you hoped to elicit with it

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by drnairalov: 2:17pm On Nov 19, 2016
thanks bro. long epistle tho!
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 2:31pm On Nov 19, 2016
Floxyluv:


Ah swear, too freaking long!!!
you're right. TBH, it's really too long

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by firstking01(m): 2:34pm On Nov 19, 2016
STFUareyouGod:
God knows I didn't read it. I swear to God, I didn't
Me too.

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by knight05(m): 2:43pm On Nov 19, 2016
Hadez:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?


The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.


I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.


This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.


If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.


It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.


If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.


Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.


Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.


Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.


Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.


Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.


Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.


Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.


My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.


If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.


Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.


Thank you for your anticipated response as you make amends in necessary areas
.




nice writeup. .
all this guys way never mature,
biko dan Allah, edakun
swerve this thread. .
grin cheesy
THREAD IS FOR +21

swerve left,take 2km journey, kids section is on your right hand side. .

Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by NevetsIbot(m): 3:02pm On Nov 19, 2016
why do you guys steal someones article nd post it.
This is kimberly spice'es original article.
First ishlove plagiarized oneof her artices on nl without tagging her with it.
Now you Hadez.. You copied this one again.
What's wrong with you people. Can't yu people compose ya stuffs yasef?

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 3:57pm On Nov 19, 2016
The rate at which you open threads these days sef undecided

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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 3:59pm On Nov 19, 2016
JuicyLucy:
●●●

Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex.
Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.●●●


Is this letter for a Gay single man

In Her haste to copy and paste, She didn't read through properly

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