bjcole:

Have you been a victim, i thought yoruba girls seem to have some level of culture,

phuck_NL:

@OP

Stop fooling yourself. I am sure you consider yourself as one of those successful women hence the post abi?
Men are not scared of anything. THE REASON MEN ARE RUNNING AWAY FROM YOU IS YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR AND HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SUCCESS. Quit posing and you will finally get married.

bjcole:

@ Dakkylove
I woudnt join issues with you, i really dnt know your level of experience, but i have worked in one of the biggest firm in Nigeria, with over 7,000 staff strenght, and i m speaking from what i saw day in day out. the % of well behaved rich women is very low, i dnt care if you agree with me or not. you may be rich and well behaved, no doubt, but dnt generalise it, Dnt you know that riches get into Men's head too, infact very well, dnt you know that men become arrogant when they are rich, how much more women. What i m telling you is that, money changes people and women are more vulnerable, God was not daft when he made you help mate, and not the head f d family. U think that serpent didnt know what he was doing when he went to Eve.
Just pray that God should give you spirit of humilty, with that cash of yours, so that you can get a guy that like you for who you are and not for your cash.

phuck_NL:

@OP

Stop fooling yourself. I am sure you consider yourself as one of those successful women hence the post abi?
Men are not scared of anything. THE REASON MEN ARE RUNNING AWAY FROM YOU IS YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR AND HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SUCCESS. Quit posing and you will finally get married.

!amebo no1:

ofcourse, ask genevieve nnaji why shes not married? @topic

phuck_NL:

@OP

Stop fooling yourself. I am sure you consider yourself as one of those successful women hence the post abi?
Men are not scared of anything. THE REASON MEN ARE RUNNING AWAY FROM YOU IS YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR AND HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SUCCESS. Quit posing and you will finally get married.

Megadeals:

If there is love, trust and respect in the relationship, there shouldn't be any problem at all. But in the absence of any of these, it doesn't matter who is more successful. It won't work.

Theblessed:

Well, it depends on what you mean by successful?  Are you analysing success in terms of material acquisitions, life achievements, human resources---or? How do you mean? That aside, but I can say oh yeah, millions of them are chicken when it come to "Successful and strong women".  

Unfortunately, only a handful of them in the likes of, the Duke of Edinburgh, late Denis Thatcher, President Obama, Stedman Graham (Oprah's life partner) and my own very partner etc, these are what you can call "CONFIDENT AND SECURE GENTLEMEN" in the right order. The woman that would frighten them with her success, power, strength of character and beauty is yet to be born until then, don't even bother with the rest!
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This is Naija, stop comparing us to those westerners, success is desirable and loving, i dnt think anybody hates it, so women should check themselves, something must be wrong. what about female bosses, dnt we see how they behave in offices, trying to force their authority on everbody.
Be Rich and humble, dtas the code and you get all the attention

Pharoh:

This is your answer below

Thank you for saying the truth, please are you a male or female. I just wonder these days why ladies always want to throw in material success, successful career and independent women ideas in a marriage setting when this are not the main issues that will make the marriage to work.

Yes, you cited this post - Quote from: !amebo no1 on Today at 02:28:46 PM
ofcourse, ask genevieve nnaji why shes not married? @topic

But may I ask you, did Genevieve tell you and the poster that she can't find a man to be married to? Obviously, not.  It's from your own assumptions of the reasons she hadn't yet been married up till now. 

You see, you should all get it off your heads that marriage is compulsory - Marriage is not compulsory, ok! It is choice! You do it if you like.  Probably, Genevieve like Oprah has no intentions of getting married to anyone.  They have partners and they are happy and contented with that except people like you. 

Like I said earlier only confident and secured men can handle successful and strong women - not small frightened rodents, ok!  Is about time men should understand that their wives success is ultimately theirs and no one else! Afterall, who married this successful woman?  Is it not you? Thus, the success is yours and only yours and no need to be afraid of your own achievements!

In comparison, Genevieve you mentioned can't have been more popular or notorious than our Christiana Essien Igbokwe in her hay days in the 70's, ok! That's one of Nigerian daughters that put Nigerian women on the map. Respect!!!!!!!!!!!!!

During her time, she was written off, up and down the country that no man would dare touch her with a badge pole let alone marry her and even if they do, she would not have children (abi, you don see her boys haven't you).   However, a brother with foresight saw his chance and moved in - the rest is history. 

Today, Christiana Essien Igbokwe is a successful mother, artist, actress, business woman and more so, who is the looser now People like you who put women down. 

Stop being negative about successful women they are created for a reason and they are meant for special husbands and not for riff-raffs

milkan05:

I think it's because most woman usurp authority once they become successful. It is hard to find a woman who would respect you when she earns more than you earn. Though not impossible to find but why bother in d first place? It's not a matter of fear. Itz just a case of retaining sanity in your life.