Girls are very smart they try many different tricks to make guys spend for them. Below are 20 tricks that women use—

#1 She starts listing her standards.
That moment when she realizes she has you and you’ve completely fallen for her. That’s when the list comes out on how to keep her happy. Often an expensive list…and you know you’re screwed.

#2 Unpredictable bursts of affection.
You can never tell when it’s coming or if it’s going to come again. You don’t know what made it happen, but you try figuring it out anyways thinking doing it more often will get her to like you.

#3 Gets you in a good mood, then makes her demand.
You know when things finally seem to be going right. You have a good conversation, she smiles at you while talking…and then tells you about that purse she wants. Of course the guy thinks “Crap, things are going well. I don’t wana ruin it now.”

#4 Talking in a way where she longs for what she wants.
Maybe she doesn’t use Trick#3. Instead she talks about what she wants in a longing voice that gets the guy to fantasize how happy he’d make her by getting it.

#5 Uses the “If someone can get me that I’ll love him forever” line.
Oh this one is a killer. This affirms what the guy is already thinking, except she actually said it.
#6 Attacks your sense of manhood.
By telling the guy (in a manipulative way) what a “real man” does to keep women happy.

#7 Talks about other guys in front of you.
Jealousy is extremely powerful. By talking favorably about other guys she creates a sense of competition that someone has to overcome.


#8 Ending every interaction with you not getting anywhere.
If she’s the in-demand HOT type of woman, the guy will go home each time thinking how things could’ve been better. Like a post-game assessment in sports, and try to please her more in different ways the next time he meets.

#9 Starting with small requests and going on to bigger ones.
Basically it’s commitment and consistency. Once you’ve done a small favor you’re likely to do the next one even if she wants a little more. We are habitual beings. Once you get someone in the habit of doing something they will continue doing it. If you gave into her demands it’ll be harder saying “no” the next time she asks.

#10 Starts eyeing other guys in front of you.
Another jealousy trick, this time the competition is right in front of you. It’s that subtle communication from her that says “You better do as I say, or else.”

#11 “I don’t think I can see you anymore.”
What happens when a girl says that? The guy starts showing up at her house with flowers, chocolate, takes her out for MORE dinners in hopes that she won’t leave.

#12 “What if I do this _____ for you?”
She will give you a kiss in exchange for something or she’ll hold your hands, let you take her on a date etc…
#13 Openly lowers your self-esteem so it feels like if you lose her attention you’ll never get any other woman’s attention EVER again.

#14 Gets her friends to pressure you.
Dealing with social pressure can be tough, especially if most of your friends are actually HER friends. It gets to a point where they get disapproving of you, make you out as an outcast for not “making her happy”.

#15 Threatens with telling her friends about you.
So she used trick #14 a few times, now all it takes is a mention or hint that she’ll be complaining to her friends and it does the job in getting what she wants.

#16 Talks about the things her Ex-boyfriend did for her.
Showing you that you’ll never measure up and if you can’t top what her ex did then why should she give you a chance?

#17 Random acts of kindness making you feel there is something.
After all that, she still does something nice once in a blue moon. Maybe gets you a scarf, brings you doughnuts. Just enough to justify to yourself that something special is happening between you two.
#18 Pretends to be a damsel in distress.

The type who is in need of financial help…except when you talk to other guys you find out she’s always doing it to them. She uses her allure to get guys into “helping” her. Frankly if a grown woman can’t take care of herself it’s not your problem. You’re not her daddy.

#19 She remembers a long list of all the things she did for you in her mind.
If there is ever an argument she brings up a list of all stuff she did for you – no matter how menial. And blows it out of proportion no matter how unfair it is.
And lastly:

#20 Goes along with your plans and ideas…then starts changing it last minute to fit her needs.
Let’s say she’s just a friend. Let’s say you and your buddies made plans to see a movie and you invite her and her girlfriends. Then last minute the girls change plans to a place closer to them, and you guys reluctantly go along with it driving to the other side of town…because you don’t want to lose their approval.

Source: http://www.dygest.net/20-ways-women-trick-you-into-spending-money/

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Very Normal stuffs.Men sef dey do am.

Some of the above points are downright manipulative.

DozieInc:
Some of the above points are downright manipulative.

Girls are very manipulative

ybalogs:
Very Normal stuffs.Men sef dey do am.

But e no reach woman own. How many guys dey manipulate girls collect money, them no plenty, buh many gals are guilty of this

and who cares?

stalinho:
and who cares?

Everyone except you

no girl manipulate me to spend on them if I want to give you I give you

okhiai1:
no girl manipulate me to spend on them if I want to give you I give you

Am not saying it's all the time. Buh i know say if any girl manipulate u with 1 of the above, you go suji

All this things don't work on Nigerian guys except the ones that watch telemundo and zee world factual as stated

lozairio:
All this things don't work on Nigerian guys except the ones that watch telemundo and zee world factual as stated

I think #3 and #9 are still working

Nigerian guys with these their sense of reasoning.
Always thinking they are Nigerian girls Lords!
Not a lot of girls want sh.it from you lots.
Rise above that mentality that every girl out there is on the hunt to rip your pocket apart!!

Met a Nigerian guy sometime ago, dude didn't even ask me my name and he already listed his achievements for me and how rich he is!!
Like hunny no one is checking out for you..

Captainbells:
Nigerian guys with these their sense of reasoning.
Always thinking they are Nigerian girls Lords!
Not a lot of girls want sh.it from you lots.

Rise above that mentality that every girl out there is on the hunt to rip your pocket apart!!


Met a Nigerian guy sometime ago, dude didn't even ask me my name and he already listed his achievements for me and how rich he is
Like hunny no one is checking out for you..

It's not possible for all girls to do this, but most are guilty

Girls

The biggest liability one can have.

Sirfrederick:
Girls
The biggest liability one can have.

Hehehe... Exactly

Rests her boobs on ur back...n b like nigga i need a favour
Rubs ur head like a shy puppy n drops d bomb

Sirfrederick:
Girls
The biggest liability one can have.

Why can't nairaland make one like a comment more than once?

I have trained myself not to fall for these tricks.
Especially once I set out to achieve my goal.
I tell my guys, I render help or assistance to you not because of I'm a chauvinist of a particular gender. I do it because I can and I have the willingness.

Some Nigerian men don't know how to handle some situations. They are very easy to deceive.

chinanu123:
Some Nigerian men don't know how to handle some situations. They are very easy to deceive.

Guys of this generation don dey open eye sha

Joe171:
I have trained myself not to fall for these tricks.
Especially once I set out to achieve my goal.
I tell my guys, I render help or assistance to you not because of I'm a chauvinist of a particular gender. I do it because I can and I have the willingness.

Have u met a goal digger before

Joe171:
Why can't nairaland make one like a comment more than once?

You are making an interesting point

donMIG:
Rests her boobs on ur back...n b like nigga i need a favour
Rubs ur head like a shy puppy n drops d bomb

You are on there mehn

Kalatium:

Have u met a goal digger before

I'm not sure I've met one, but when I do, I shall tell her where there's a gold mine so she can go dig up some gold.

Joe171:

I'm not sure I've met one, but when I do, I shall tell her where there's a gold mine so she can go dig up some gold.

You haven't met any before.
Gold diggers are very smart they mostly used #3 and #9

Kalatium:

You haven't met any before.
Gold diggers are very smart they mostly used #3 and #9

Have you met one before?
You seem convinced about the warning you're giving.

Girls have used those (#3,#9) on me. I like what I've trained myself to be; I only do it because I can and I have the willingness.
I don't give a yuck about anyone's feelings.


May God save and lead us no more to a gold digger or even allow them our ways.

Joe171:

Have you met one before?
You seem convinced about the warning you're giving.

Have met plenty.
There was 1 gold digger I met, anytime we are laughing together she start bringing money issues. At first I didn't take it serious until when she started disturbing that I had to ran away.

Kalatium:

Have met plenty.
There was 1 gold digger I met, anytime we are laughing together she start bringing money issues. At first I didn't take it serious until when she started disturbing that I had to ran away.

LOL

Kalatium:
Girls are very smart they try many different tricks to make guys spend for them. Below are 20 tricks that women use—

#1 She starts listing her standards.
That moment when she realizes she has you and you’ve completely fallen for her. That’s when the list comes out on how to keep her happy. Often an expensive list…and you know you’re screwed.

#2 Unpredictable bursts of affection.
You can never tell when it’s coming or if it’s going to come again. You don’t know what made it happen, but you try figuring it out anyways thinking doing it more often will get her to like you.

#3 Gets you in a good mood, then makes her demand.
You know when things finally seem to be going right. You have a good conversation, she smiles at you while talking…and then tells you about that purse she wants. Of course the guy thinks “Crap, things are going well. I don’t wana ruin it now.”

#4 Talking in a way where she longs for what she wants.
Maybe she doesn’t use Trick#3. Instead she talks about what she wants in a longing voice that gets the guy to fantasize how happy he’d make her by getting it.

#5 Uses the “If someone can get me that I’ll love him forever” line.
Oh this one is a killer. This affirms what the guy is already thinking, except she actually said it.
#6 Attacks your sense of manhood.
By telling the guy (in a manipulative way) what a “real man” does to keep women happy.

#7 Talks about other guys in front of you.
Jealousy is extremely powerful. By talking favorably about other guys she creates a sense of competition that someone has to overcome.


#8 Ending every interaction with you not getting anywhere.
If she’s the in-demand HOT type of woman, the guy will go home each time thinking how things could’ve been better. Like a post-game assessment in sports, and try to please her more in different ways the next time he meets.

#9 Starting with small requests and going on to bigger ones.
Basically it’s commitment and consistency. Once you’ve done a small favor you’re likely to do the next one even if she wants a little more. We are habitual beings. Once you get someone in the habit of doing something they will continue doing it. If you gave into her demands it’ll be harder saying “no” the next time she asks.

#10 Starts eyeing other guys in front of you.
Another jealousy trick, this time the competition is right in front of you. It’s that subtle communication from her that says “You better do as I say, or else.”

#11 “I don’t think I can see you anymore.”
What happens when a girl says that? The guy starts showing up at her house with flowers, chocolate, takes her out for MORE dinners in hopes that she won’t leave.

#12 “What if I do this _____ for you?”
She will give you a kiss in exchange for something or she’ll hold your hands, let you take her on a date etc…
#13 Openly lowers your self-esteem so it feels like if you lose her attention you’ll never get any other woman’s attention EVER again.

#14 Gets her friends to pressure you.
Dealing with social pressure can be tough, especially if most of your friends are actually HER friends. It gets to a point where they get disapproving of you, make you out as an outcast for not “making her happy”.

#15 Threatens with telling her friends about you.
So she used trick #14 a few times, now all it takes is a mention or hint that she’ll be complaining to her friends and it does the job in getting what she wants.

#16 Talks about the things her Ex-boyfriend did for her.
Showing you that you’ll never measure up and if you can’t top what her ex did then why should she give you a chance?

#17 Random acts of kindness making you feel there is something.
After all that, she still does something nice once in a blue moon. Maybe gets you a scarf, brings you doughnuts. Just enough to justify to yourself that something special is happening between you two.
#18 Pretends to be a damsel in distress.

The type who is in need of financial help…except when you talk to other guys you find out she’s always doing it to them. She uses her allure to get guys into “helping” her. Frankly if a grown woman can’t take care of herself it’s not your problem. You’re not her daddy.

#19 She remembers a long list of all the things she did for you in her mind.
If there is ever an argument she brings up a list of all stuff she did for you – no matter how menial. And blows it out of proportion no matter how unfair it is.
And lastly:

#20 Goes along with your plans and ideas…then starts changing it last minute to fit her needs.
Let’s say she’s just a friend. Let’s say you and your buddies made plans to see a movie and you invite her and her girlfriends. Then last minute the girls change plans to a place closer to them, and you guys reluctantly go along with it driving to the other side of town…because you don’t want to lose their approval.

Source: http://www.dygest.net/20-ways-women-trick-you-into-spending-money/

Feel free to add yours

Still young men don't learn. I can't believe a guy took time to compile such a list and people are patting u on the back.
Its only guys new to the game that will be scared of what u listed. OP ur list is full of holes, girls can be much more manupulative but all really depends on the guy and the hand he gives her. Every girl will try her new guy so that she sees where she can place him, just like guys try their new catches. Its a human thing and theres nothing wrong with that. The problem starts where couples keep playing games with themselves after months or years of dating.
Young men need to know that nothing can be won without effort. U mold ur woman how u want her just as she will do to u too. The problem there is when u start falling over urself to please her every whim then u create a monster that will swallow u.
A lady a friend of mine once dated by a pal of mine said and I quote "Marriage is really not for the weak minded. After I got married I played all the games I used to play with my boyfriend ur pal on my husband and he fell over himself trying to please me. Meanwhile ur friend was hard and resisted. I thought that was how my marriage will be till after 3 years them my husband showed me his real colours. I had to respect myself cos of my kids".

Captainbells:
Nigerian guys with these their sense of reasoning.
Always thinking they are Nigerian girls Lords!
Not a lot of girls want sh.it from you lots.
Rise above that mentality that every girl out there is on the hunt to rip your pocket apart!!

Met a Nigerian guy sometime ago, dude didn't even ask me my name and he already listed his achievements for me and how rich he is!!
Like hunny no one is checking out for you..

Guy wanted to get to jehrico. Thats only when some foolish guys do such. Hope u closed the gates of babylon cos such men are kids.

drnoel:


Still young men don't learn. I can't believe a guy took time to compile such a list and people are patting u on the back.
Its only guys new to the game that will be scared of what u listed. OP ur list is full of holes, girls can be much more manupulative but all really depends on the guy and the hand he gives her. Every girl will try her new guy so that she sees where she can place him, just like guys try their new catches. Its a human thing and theres nothing wrong with that. The problem starts where couples keep playing games with themselves after months or years of dating.
Young men need to know that nothing can be won without effort. U mold ur woman how u want her just as she will do to u too. The problem there is when u start falling over urself to please her every whim then u create a monster that will swallow u.
A lady a friend of mine once dated by a pal of mine said and I quote "Marriage is really not for the weak minded. After I got married I played all the games I used to play with my boyfriend ur pal on my husband and he fell over himself trying to please me. Meanwhile ur friend was hard and resisted. I thought that was how my marriage will be till after 3 years them my husband showed me his real colours. I had to respect myself cos of my kids".

Am not claiming that this always work am saying it specifically to people new in the game.
You see, those who fall into this trap are those who beg girls to date them. When you beg a gal to date you, you are giving her power over you (relationship is all about power, and when a guy doesn't have power in a relationship he is in trouble. When a girl realises she can control you, then she will use different tricks to control you. She will have courage to demand money from you. Even if you don't want to give that money, you will be afraid that there are chances she might leave you and so you do whatever to please her(you will always come to her whenever she says you should come and other things like that).
When you don't have power in relationship as a guy, you are a prey to the tricks above

You want to spoil business for dem madams