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Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by handysuzy(f): 10:41pm On Nov 23, 2016
Saw this on Facebook and I thought to share here.

Please note: I am not a virgin. Lost mine some 6 years ago at 16. But I love this post nonetheless

Read below...

VIRGINITY AND SEX ON THE WEDDING NIGHT
Countless virgins have been cajoled into premarital sex on the excuse that sex on the wedding night will be painful and boring and your husband will see you as a disappointment.

First sex will be painful whether before or after marriage. Engaging in it before marriage makes it many times painful because (1) The guy sleeping with you is in a hurry to give himself pleasure and wouldn't want to waste his time being gentle with you. (2) You are torn apart with guilt which makes it double painful -you know you shouldn't be doing it. (3)Your self esteem drops far down as you realized the consequence of what you have done and the regret that you have lost it forever. (4)You are plagued with the fear of unwanted pregnancy and STDs (5) You live in fear of losing the guy.

Sex on the wedding night may give you pain but pleasurable pain and not all virgins even experience pain with their first sex. With good books, godly counsel and genuine love for each other, you can both be taught the process to take to make sex as painless as possible. If at all, you experience pain, it won't be excruciating pain rendering you incapacitated for months. You only have one pain, the pain of breaking the hymen but you gain your pleasure soon afterwards.(1) The pleasure of having waited till your wedding night. (2) The pleasure of giving your husband pleasure (3) The pleasure of winning your husband's pride and trust forever (4) The pleasure of having a solid, sky rocketting self esteem (5)The pleasure of expecting pregnancy without worrying whether your womb has been damaged by the multiple abortions you did before wedding. (5) The pleasure of having no past lover to compare your spouse to. It helps you to thoroughly enjoy sex with your hsband. (6) The pleasure of climaxing easily -you have no hang ups..

Yes! The pleasure of waiting far outweighs the momentary pain you naturally experience with your first sex.

https://web.facebook.com/oladele.seun.589/posts/217126595390903

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by ayaside(m): 10:44pm On Nov 23, 2016
What more can I say? Wonderful one there OP

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 10:44pm On Nov 23, 2016
Well said. No better way to put it than this.
Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 10:45pm On Nov 23, 2016
So, only ladies should wait?

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by LePrezident(m): 10:49pm On Nov 23, 2016
Virginity is overated and there's nothing special about it. I know some people will disagree with me but it is what it is.

NB: I didn't bother to read beyond the headlines because I won't agree with the OP anyway.

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by pimpchi(m): 10:49pm On Nov 23, 2016
And u want to deny other girls the opportunity to experience the pleasure/sweetness of joystick u got @ age 16. #selfishness

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by dingbang(m): 10:50pm On Nov 23, 2016
Girls dah don't like to wait.. undecided

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by kratosonofzeus: 10:54pm On Nov 23, 2016
handysuzy:
Saw this on Facebook and I thought to share here.

Please note: I am not a virgin. Lost mine some 6 years ago at 16. But I love this post nonetheless

Read below...

VIRGINITY AND SEX ON THE WEDDING NIGHT
Countless virgins have been cajoled into premarital sex on the excuse that sex on the wedding night will be painful and boring and your husband will see you as a disappointment.

First sex will be painful whether before or after marriage. Engaging in it before marriage makes it many times painful because (1) The guy sleeping with you is in a hurry to give himself pleasure and wouldn't want to waste his time being gentle with you. (2) You are torn apart with guilt which makes it double painful -you know you shouldn't be doing it. (3)Your self esteem drops far down as you realized the consequence of what you have done and the regret that you have lost it forever. (4)You are plagued with the fear of unwanted pregnancy and STDs (5) You live in fear of losing the guy.

Sex on the wedding night may give you pain but pleasurable pain and not all virgins even experience pain with their first sex. With good books, godly counsel and genuine love for each other, you can both be taught the process to take to make sex as painless as possible. If at all, you experience pain, it won't be excruciating pain rendering you incapacitated for months. You only have one pain, the pain of breaking the hymen but you gain your pleasure soon afterwards.(1) The pleasure of having waited till your wedding night. (2) The pleasure of giving your husband pleasure (3) The pleasure of winning your husband's pride and trust forever (4) The pleasure of having a solid, sky rocketting self esteem (5)The pleasure of expecting pregnancy without worrying whether your womb has been damaged by the multiple abortions you did before wedding. (5) The pleasure of having no past lover to compare your spouse to. It helps you to thoroughly enjoy sex with your hsband. (6) The pleasure of climaxing easily -you have no hang ups..

Yes! The pleasure of waiting far outweighs the momentary pain you naturally experience with your first sex.

https://web.facebook.com/oladele.seun.589/posts/217126595390903
why did u lost urs....as in how could u, nw I think uve realized ur past mistakes......
nice post tho

seriously who does that
Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 10:54pm On Nov 23, 2016
Same with me undecided
LePrezident:
Virginity is overated and there's nothing special about it. I know some people will disagree with me but it is what it is.

NB: I didn't bother to read beyond the headlines because I won't agree with the OP anyway.

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by makydebbie(f): 10:58pm On Nov 23, 2016
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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 11:05pm On Nov 23, 2016
Yea. Obviously. Only LADIES. should wait till wedding night. God forbid the guys keep their dicks to themselves till they wed. undecided

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Masonic(m): 11:11pm On Nov 23, 2016
Masikay:
Yea. Obviously. Only LADIES. should wait till wedding night. God forbid the guys keep their dicks to themselves till they wed. undecided

You don't agree with the OP? Or you think the article is a little one-sided. grin
Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by dollyjoy(f): 11:15pm On Nov 23, 2016
I don't regret losing my virginity, its for the best, heaven knows i would have tried to explore if i had gotten married a virgin.
Humans are by nature designed that way.

Nothing beats an experienced mind. kiss

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 11:16pm On Nov 23, 2016
dollyjoy:
I don't regret losing my virginity, its for the best, heaven knows i would have tried to explore if i had gotten married a virgin.
Humans are by nature designed that way.

Nothing beats an experienced mind. kiss

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 11:17pm On Nov 23, 2016
dollyjoy:
I don't regret losing my virginity, its for the best, heaven knows i would have tried to explore if i had gotten married a virgin.
Humans are by nature designed that way.

Nothing beats an experienced mind. kiss


So why are there teardrops rolling down your cheeks?

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Sandydayziz(f): 11:18pm On Nov 23, 2016
kratosonofzeus:
why did u lost urs....as in how could u, nw I think uve realized ur past mistakes......
nice post tho

seriously who does that
Am wondering y she *lost* it too cheesy

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by handysuzy(f): 11:19pm On Nov 23, 2016
dollyjoy:
I don't regret losing my virginity, its for the best, heaven knows i would have tried to explore if i had gotten married a virgin.
Humans are by nature designed that way.

Nothing beats an experienced mind. kiss

I dont regret mine too. At sixteen I was young and green and I enjoyed every bit of it. I have been having sex constantly since then till this moment save for some one and half years I was without a relationship.

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by dollyjoy(f): 11:19pm On Nov 23, 2016
Haute:



So why are there teardrops rolling down your cheeks?
That is a "kissing" smiley missy, don't be in a hurry to click the quote buttonsmiley
Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 11:21pm On Nov 23, 2016
Masonic:


You don't agree with the OP? Or you think the article is a little one-sided. grin

I think the op is a lot sexist.

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by dollyjoy(f): 11:21pm On Nov 23, 2016
handysuzy:


I dont regret mine too. At sixteen I was young and green and I enjoyed every bit of it. I have been having sex constantly since then till this moment save for some one and half years I was without a relationship.
Interestingsmiley

Your post really makes me laugh so hardcheesycheesycheesycheesy
Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 11:21pm On Nov 23, 2016
handysuzy:


I dont regret mine too. At sixteen I was young and green and I enjoyed every bit of it. I have been having sex constantly since then till this moment save for some one and half years I was without a relationship.
green cheesy cheesy cheesy weed kiss kiss kiss kiss

Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 11:22pm On Nov 23, 2016
dollyjoy:
That is a "kissing" smiley missy, don't be in a hurry to click the quote buttonsmiley

I'm not talking about the emoticon. I can see every nairalander right now and you're crying.

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by kratosonofzeus: 11:22pm On Nov 23, 2016
Sandydayziz:
Am wondering y she *lost* it too cheesy
angry ys whts d matter y u quoting me?
Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 11:22pm On Nov 23, 2016
handysuzy:


I dont regret mine too. At sixteen I was young and green and I enjoyed every bit of it. I have been having sex constantly since then till this moment save for some one and half years I was without a relationship.

Madam Constant. Well done o. I hail!
Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by dollyjoy(f): 11:23pm On Nov 23, 2016
Haute:


I'm not talking about the emoticon. I can see every nairalander right now and you're crying.
cheesycheesycheesycheesy Ok ma.
Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by handysuzy(f): 11:25pm On Nov 23, 2016
judeefcc:
green cheesy cheesy cheesy weed kiss kiss kiss kiss

Green also means inexperienced or naive

Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 11:26pm On Nov 23, 2016
dollyjoy:
cheesycheesycheesycheesy Ok ma.

It is "Sir". BTW...who's typing your posts for you 'cos you don't look like a literate person. I've never been to your profile anyway.
Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Nobody: 11:27pm On Nov 23, 2016
handysuzy:


Green also means inexperienced or naive
sad handysuzy handjob cool cool

Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Sandydayziz(f): 11:27pm On Nov 23, 2016
kratosonofzeus:
angry ys whts d matter y u quoting me?
Sori... Am super bored grin

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by Masonic(m): 11:27pm On Nov 23, 2016
Masikay:


I think the op is a lot sexist.

I didn't read the article.. Just your comment. And judging by your comment, its not a worthy read.
Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by kratosonofzeus: 11:28pm On Nov 23, 2016
Haute:


It is "Sir". BTW...who's typing your posts for you 'cos you don't look like a literate person. I've never been to your profile anyway.
Epic cheesy like seriously who does that

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Re: Why A Lady Should Wait Till Wedding Night Before Having Sex by handysuzy(f): 11:30pm On Nov 23, 2016
kratosonofzeus:
why did u lost urs....as in how could u, nw I think uve realized ur past mistakes......
nice post tho

seriously who does that

I had a 28 year old boyfriend who was so sweet. I loved him so much and wittingly gave myself to him

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