Often times we come across posts in the internet that talks about how to fall in love and less emphases on how not to Fall in love.

Love can sometimes be define as a strong positive emotion of affection or pleasure, to some people falling in love is an inevitable feeling

Believed it or not some people are tired of falling in love because when they do they always get there heart broken so they term love as a very dangerous state of mind.

They say it's actually not all that pleasurable. I don't know who the hell wants to get in a situation where you can't bear an hour without somebody's company.

So here are some of the things you can do to stay out of love.

1. Learn to say no with authority, not passion.
If that person wants closeness with you, then say no to any request whether innocent or dishonest. Sometimes, by them getting you upset or jealous, that person can open your vulnerabilities and feelings.

2.focus on their bad side.
Every one of us has flaws. And one of the best ways to get over someone you love is by constantly focusing on their bad side and picking their flaws. Each time you meet this guy or girl or when you remember them, remember their bad side or the things they say that hurt you. It’ll work a lot better if you could even make a list of reasons behind why you need to stop loving this person, and look at it now and then know they also fart.

3. Don't let yourself build a false world inside your head.
Avoid thinking about "what ifs" You’ve decided to move on, haven’t you? So why do you spend half your day dreaming about this person or wondering what they may be doing right this moment? Remember, the more you think of someone, the more they start to feel like a bigger and inescapable part of your life.

4. Avoid people who share personal information:
This is the first sign that someone is interested in you, Avoid long conversations with this person. And most importantly, completely avoid late night texts or phone calls where both of you share intimate details of each other’s lives. You have to remember that in this case, you aren’t getting friendlier with this person, you’re falling deeper in love and that’s not good at all.

5. Focus on someone else.
Sometimes, the easiest way to get over someone is by getting under someone else. If you’re having a really hard time distracting yourself from the one you love, try to divert your attention to someone else.

It could be a rebound relationship or a bit of flirty banter for a few days. Sometimes, flirting with someone else is by far, the easiest and the most fun way to stop yourself from falling head over heels in love with a particular person.

6. Ignore or avoid the attention.
Even if you’re in a stable relationship with someone, flirty attention from someone you fancy or place in high regard can always make you weak in the knees. So if you’re not ready for anything serious or if you want to avoid falling in love with them, avoid the attention at every instance even if it feels good!

7. Know and build a reason.
Your self-respect. There’s a reason behind why you want to stop yourself from falling in love with this person. And in all probability, it’s a convincing and real reason. So why are you stooping down, behaving like an idiot and losing your self-respect over someone who isn’t good enough for you? You’re worthy of a much better lover and a much better experience from love, and you need to keep that in mind.

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