janefrancisca:
This is my first time of creating a topic on nairaland...so pardon my little flaws. a friend of mine is avin issues in her matrimonial home and her husband is insisting he will take away their little son who is just a year and three months from d mum and keep him in d village wit his mum who is down with partial stroke and his elder sis who is in her late 50s and unmarried in the village. Now my friend is insisting that she must go wit her baby and she is pregnant wit d second child whom the husband is saying he is not the father. Since my friend got married to the man, it has been from one problem to anoda. Most times he goes out without dropping food money for her and her baby and wen she complains, he will tel her to go and meet her wealthy father and if she insists on collecting d money, the next thing he does is to beat her up. Anytime she visits her parents and comes home, he will pick a fight wit her and tell her d worst her father can do is to lock him up. He calls her a prostitute and says all kind of demeaning words to her. Two months ago, she called and said she is fed up but I begged her to just tolerate. Today the husband called her and said he is fed up that they shud both part ways but he is leaving with his son and my friend is saying she will never leave her son...wot advice do I give my friend? plz ur contributions are needed urgently.

Please direct your friend to my only topic on nairaland. it was not hear say but a true event that has marred some lives FOREVER.

Tell your friend to FLEE from domestic violence in any form. She may not divorce but SEPARATE for a while till normalcy is experienced and the violent party is made to sign an undertaken that he will not cause harm either to her or the kids.

This is my only advice to her. I wish her God's wisdom.

shrekandfiona:

Please direct your friend to my only topic on nairaland. it was not hear say but a true event that has marred some lives FOREVER.

Tell your friend to FLEE from domestic violence in any form. She may not divorce but SEPARATE for a while till normalcy is experienced and the violent party is made to sign an undertaken that he will not cause harm either to her or the kids.

This is my only advice to her. I wish her God's wisdom.

I will do just that...thanks a lot