https://penastory.com/2016/12/08/advice-me-i-feel-hopeless-and-it-feels-like-being-a-virgin-is-a-crime/


Dear PAS readers, so it has been a while we had a Tell Tale Thursday issue but today we bring you the issue of a young lady who is going through some turbulent emotions in her life. The young woman is having feelings of insecurity and lack of self-worth and needs help on how to get her life on track. Do read her issue as sent and be mature and thoughtful in your comments.

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Pls keep my identity hidden. Am 24 years old and the fifth child of my parents with three younger siblings, when i was growing up i always believe in proper home bringing and have so much faith in myself, but i find out that after graduating from high school life seems unfair most especially to me. My love life is nothing to write home about. After breaking up with my ex about two years ago, I find it difficult to love someone else and i can’t bring myself to love anyone. Beside that, carrier is nothing else to write home about as well. Mostly all my friends have graduated and now doing their NYSC so is my younger brother and am here still battling with admission.

I can’t really blame my parent but sometimes i wish i was someone else’s child cause i deserve more and am more brilliant,smart and intelligent than most of my friends. Have kept myself up till now and i don’t think i can anymore cause sometimes it seems like being a virgin is a crime or something. Funny but that is how i feel. I remember how i will cry myself to sleep countless number of time without anyone knowing. The thing is this year is coming to an end without achieving anything and i don’t know what else to do cause the thought of suicide runs through my mind sometimes and i desperately needs help. Thanks, am Joan

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Not at all... Never say it's a crime to be a virgin...


Some will wonder wether we still have a virgin even at 32, I've someone of that nature. Don't ask me how.

It's an attitude towards your belief.

I thought of suicide every now an then but still yet, I occupy my mind with things aside that.

With life, tomorrow is bright.

We can epp u.







Abi wat r friends for?

This is what i alway tell ladies,this virginity of a thing have to do with personal decision,if u decide to keep urself till u marry do it with out complaining,dont do it because people are doing it