blovesther:
babes if men pretend for you ehnnnnnn....... You can live with a Jezebel for God knows how long without knowing he's one...
Love is blind but marriage will open your eyes

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E be like say Man never show her pepper before. If a Man doesnt want you to know him, my dear you would never know him.

I wont adviçe my enemy to try that, its possible it may work for some other people but it never worked for me, its a bad way of life considering the disadvantages, traditionally its bad, biblically ita akward, in my tradition and in the part of country where i come from(nigeria), if eveñtually she dies, you are in doom, and if she gets pregnant in my tradition, you will have to marry double, the child and the mother.


Much disadvantages attached to it, i was fortunate my baby mama never died, she changed her àttitude after birth, it was hell for me because i could not tell her to leave, coming is easy but going is wahala, thañk God its past.

The truth is that if you are not legally married to her, please allow her come for just weekends, it will help you have worth for her and have good value for what you are paying for(bride prize).

A generator you bought new febuary 2016 cant have same value by December 2016 after much use.

BoiledHead:
The moment my gf and I concluded that we would be getting married I told her to move in with me effective immediately.

She told her dad and the dad refused. She also refused. Then I told the dad

"This is Nigeria. We are Nigerians. I cannot marry a person that when I am in Lagos she could be in Abuja fvcking another guy. If she is still babe or side chick no wahala. But fiancee? No way! It's not by force"

And the dad said it's okay on the condition that he can visit at anytime.

We are living together. I'm well aware of her movements as she is aware of mine. Not that she would be living somewhere else and I would be saying "I'm getting married soon" meanwhile she dey club or one guys house.

Although some of my guys were saying that it's wrong that I'm caging her and all sorts. And I said

"It's not by force. My marriage, my rules"

Thank God I'm not broke sha. If I'm broke I wonder who would listen to my rules

I wont adviçe my enemy to try that, its possible it may work for some other people but it never worked for me, its a bad way of life considering the disadvantages, traditionally its bad, biblically ita akward, in my tradition and in the part of country where i come from(nigeria), if eveñtually she dies, you are in doom, and if she gets pregnant in my tradition, you will have to marry double, the child and the mother.
Much disadvantages attached to it, i was fortunate my baby mama never died, she changed her àttitude after birth, it was hell for me because i could not tell her to leave, coming is easy but going is wahala, thañk God its past.
The truth is that if you are not legally married to her, please allow her come for just weekends, it will help you have worth for her and have good value for what you are paying for(bride prize).
A generator you bought new febuary 2016 cant have same value by December 2016 after much use

vchykp:



I wont adviçe my enemy to try that, its possible it may work for some other people but it never worked for me, its a bad way of life considering the disadvantages, traditionally its bad, biblically ita akward, in my tradition and in the part of country where i come from(nigeria), if eveñtually she dies, you are in doom, and if she gets pregnant in my tradition, you will have to marry double, the child and the mother.
Much disadvantages attached to it, i was fortunate my baby mama never died, she changed her àttitude after birth, it was hell for me because i could not tell her to leave, coming is easy but going is wahala, thañk God its past.
The truth is that if you are not legally married to her, please allow her come for just weekends, it will help you have worth for her and have good value for what you are paying for(bride prize).
A generator you bought new febuary 2016 cant have same value by December 2016 after much use

very nice piece, thank you plenty

Maychang:




This is a lame excuse ..... i guess her dad has benefitted well from you (financially) guess thats why he agreed...

thats if you not lying sef..

lmao

its a normal thing these days for women/gals to be living with their bobos before marriage.

If you are doubting; Fathers, Uncles and Mothers pay a surprise visit to your daughters in school and you will be shocked

It's not a normal thing bro, but it has become very rampard especially around the university environment.

even if u get preggy wit twins for me dunt cum to ma hauz till i take u to d alter even if ure ma nxt door neighbor...... & even if we make out every orda nite & luvers once i notice d relationship is taking a crious turn i dunt mind suspending d "ACT" till after marriage b4 sum1 start committing adultery inside fornication

purple3091:
i am married and never did so,because it makes thing harder ,as in,you see eachother everyday and get bored quickly etc,so i advise ladies not to

but sir, y haven't your wife never bore u, sebi u two have been living together, that ur point sir e no strong

My own opinion I don't advise staying with ur bf,. But fiancé is another case, u can move in with him, if u both agree to it, abi u will call some one ur fiance and ur parent who not have met with him Boyfriend is no

Depends

StarBukola:
but sir, y haven't your wife never bore u, sebi u two have been living together, that ur point sir e no strong

am a woman...and write properly what you have written doesnt make sense...