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Would You ? by shestrong(f): 8:48am On Dec 13, 2016
Hello,this is to our ladies,would you live with your boyfriend or fiance before marriage?
if yes ,why?
if no,why?

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Re: Would You ? by lordbish(m): 8:50am On Dec 13, 2016
Most ladies dey even pack enter house before introduction

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Re: Would You ? by Nobody: 8:53am On Dec 13, 2016
its a normal thing these days for women/gals to be living with their bobos before marriage.

If you are doubting; Fathers, Uncles and Mothers pay a surprise visit to your daughters in school and you will be shocked

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Re: Would You ? by purple3091: 9:06am On Dec 13, 2016
i am married and never did so,because it makes thing harder ,as in,you see eachother everyday and get bored quickly etc,so i advise ladies not to

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Re: Would You ? by Divay22(f): 9:14am On Dec 13, 2016
No

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Re: Would You ? by Nobody: 11:01am On Dec 13, 2016
I don't know
Re: Would You ? by McBrooklyn(m): 11:05am On Dec 13, 2016



Re: Would You ? by Nobody: 11:05am On Dec 13, 2016
no i cant.... Totally rubbish angry

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Re: Would You ? by Aregs(m): 11:06am On Dec 13, 2016
It's not advisable, something I won't tolerate

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Re: Would You ? by BoiledHead(m): 11:10am On Dec 13, 2016
The moment my gf and I concluded that we would be getting married I told her to move in with me effective immediately.

She told her dad and the dad refused. She also refused. Then I told the dad

"This is Nigeria. We are Nigerians. I cannot marry a person that when I am in Lagos she could be in Abuja fvcking another guy. If she is still babe or side chick no wahala. But fiancee? No way! It's not by force"

And the dad said it's okay on the condition that he can visit at anytime.

We are living together. I'm well aware of her movements as she is aware of mine. Not that she would be living somewhere else and I would be saying "I'm getting married soon" meanwhile she dey club or one guys house. undecided

Although some of my guys were saying that it's wrong that I'm caging her and all sorts. And I said

"It's not by force. My marriage, my rules" grin

Thank God I'm not broke sha. If I'm broke I wonder who would listen to my rules shocked

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Re: Would You ? by chimdi101: 11:23am On Dec 13, 2016
Berlynn:
no i cant.... Totally rubbish angry
Re: Would You ? by chimdi101: 11:23am On Dec 13, 2016
Berlynn:
no i cant.... Totally rubbish angry
Are you sure?
Remember love is blind
Re: Would You ? by shestrong(f): 11:29am On Dec 13, 2016
purple3091:
i am married and never did so,because it makes thing harder ,as in,you see eachother everyday and get bored quickly etc,so i advise ladies not to









thanks for d advz

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Re: Would You ? by shestrong(f): 11:31am On Dec 13, 2016
suzan404:
I don't know








y do u think u can and cannot?
Re: Would You ? by shestrong(f): 9:33pm On Dec 13, 2016
Berlynn:
no i cant.... Totally rubbish angry






lol
Re: Would You ? by Diamondqueen(f): 10:11pm On Dec 13, 2016
No, that's low life. You have to walk me down the aisle first.

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Re: Would You ? by TIDDOLL(m): 10:13pm On Dec 13, 2016
Yeah.... Marriage before wedding undecided......e too plenty,Inbetween

Representing Bobby Risky.

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Re: Would You ? by prettyAdaolisa(f): 11:41pm On Dec 13, 2016
Berlynn:
no i cant.... Totally rubbish angry

Seconded,thirded and fourthed! cool

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Re: Would You ? by McBrooklyn(m): 12:40am On Dec 14, 2016
prettyAdaolisa:


Seconded,thirded and fourthed! cool

cheesy grin




So refiner, you can't live with me before we're eventually gonna get married?? cry
Re: Would You ? by shestrong(f): 10:18am On Dec 14, 2016
prettyAdaolisa:

Seconded,thirded and fourthed! cool






lemme add my own grin fifthed, sixthed nd bla bla bla....lol
Re: Would You ? by prettyAdaolisa(f): 1:00pm On Dec 14, 2016
shestrong:








lemme add my own grin fifthed, sixthed nd bla bla bla....lol

grin
Re: Would You ? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 14, 2016
I would yes because I believe you will only truly know a person when you live with them. I can't deal with finding out in marriage that this man is a slob or he snores or he is a liar etc. I believe in getting to know eachother in full before we sign the doted line to avoid stories that touch.

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Re: Would You ? by RENOWNED2(m): 1:21pm On Dec 14, 2016
marriage Eeeewwww na play oh
Re: Would You ? by shestrong(f): 8:06pm On Dec 14, 2016
AngelSweetLips:
I would yes because I believe you will only truly know a person when you live with them. I can't deal with finding out in marriage that this man is a slob or he snores or he is a liar etc. I believe in getting to know eachother in full before we sign the doted line to avoid stories that touch.







u can find dat out even without moving in with him
Re: Would You ? by BEENUEL(m): 5:29pm On Dec 19, 2016
BoiledHead:
The moment my gf and I concluded that we would be getting married I told her to move in with me effective immediately.

She told her dad and the dad refused. She also refused. Then I told the dad

"This is Nigeria. We are Nigerians. I cannot marry a person that when I am in Lagos she could be in Abuja fvcking another guy. If she is still babe or side chick no wahala. But fiancee? No way! It's not by force"

And the dad said it's okay on the condition that he can visit at anytime.

We are living together. I'm well aware of her movements as she is aware of mine. Not that she would be living somewhere else and I would be saying "I'm getting married soon" meanwhile she dey club or one guys house. undecided

Although some of my guys were saying that it's wrong that I'm caging her and all sorts. And I said

"It's not by force. My marriage, my rules" grin

Thank God I'm not broke sha. If I'm broke I wonder who would listen to my rules shocked

Re: Would You ? by Nobody: 5:38pm On Dec 19, 2016
Before proposing - no way angry
After proposing - maybe wink

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Re: Would You ? by blovesther(f): 5:42pm On Dec 19, 2016
BoiledHead:
The moment my gf and I concluded that we would be getting married I told her to move in with me effective immediately.

She told her dad and the dad refused. She also refused. Then I told the dad

"This is Nigeria. We are Nigerians. I cannot marry a person that when I am in Lagos she could be in Abuja fvcking another guy. If she is still babe or side chick no wahala. But fiancee? No way! It's not by force"

And the dad said it's okay on the condition that he can visit at anytime.

We are living together. I'm well aware of her movements as she is aware of mine. Not that she would be living somewhere else and I would be saying "I'm getting married soon" meanwhile she dey club or one guys house. undecided

Although some of my guys were saying that it's wrong that I'm caging her and all sorts. And I said

"It's not by force. My marriage, my rules" grin

Thank God I'm not broke sha. If I'm broke I wonder who would listen to my rules shocked
oya,, clap for your self
Re: Would You ? by blovesther(f): 5:44pm On Dec 19, 2016
AngelSweetLips:
I would yes because I believe you will only truly know a person when you live with them. I can't deal with finding out in marriage that this man is a slob or he snores or he is a liar etc. I believe in getting to know eachother in full before we sign the doted line to avoid stories that touch.
babes if men pretend for you ehnnnnnn....... You can live with a Jezebel for God knows how long without knowing he's one...
Love is blind but marriage will open your eyes

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Re: Would You ? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Dec 19, 2016
Aderola15:
Before proposing - no way angry
After proposing - maybe wink
Even after he has proposed don't try it.

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Re: Would You ? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Dec 19, 2016
yes, it would be like havin' a male rommante.
But no because my celibacy would likely not make it cry
cry the will is strong but lets not tempt it

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Re: Would You ? by Maychang(f): 8:15pm On Dec 19, 2016
BoiledHead:
The moment my gf and I concluded that we would be getting married I told her to move in with me effective immediately.

She told her dad and the dad refused. She also refused. Then I told the dad

"This is Nigeria. We are Nigerians. I cannot marry a person that when I am in Lagos she could be in Abuja fvcking another guy. If she is still babe or side chick no wahala. But fiancee? No way! It's not by force"

And the dad said it's okay on the condition that he can visit at anytime.

We are living together. I'm well aware of her movements as she is aware of mine. Not that she would be living somewhere else and I would be saying "I'm getting married soon" meanwhile she dey club or one guys house. undecided

Although some of my guys were saying that it's wrong that I'm caging her and all sorts. And I said

"It's not by force. My marriage, my rules" grin

Thank God I'm not broke sha. If I'm broke I wonder who would listen to my rules shocked



This is a lame excuse ..... i guess her dad has benefitted well from you (financially) guess thats why he agreed...

thats if you not lying sef..

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Re: Would You ? by Senipapa(m): 8:19pm On Dec 19, 2016
blovesther:
oya,, clap for your self
Stop exposing how useless your gf family is, a father that would permit his daughter to live with a guy she's having an affair with and not married to is such a shame to fatherhood. A reasonable father would tell you to Bleep off with your fucking rules.

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