GNature:

Na waa ooh Radiant. Does this mean you are about
to get married ? - Just kidding

In the U.S., it might be necessary, especially if one is not
married to a Nigerian.

bikonu! why Nigerian

ikamefa:

bikonu! why Nigerian

U.B. real funny child I swear. Ehm, well, i think nigerians are used to (more used to) the guy
being the breadwinner, so if he is thrifty with the finances, the women are
more understanding. they'll just think "he is just being the man"

But here in the states, well, need I say more ? You know finances is the
# 1 source of divorces here in the states. Chikena

GNature:

U.B. real funny child I swear. Ehm, well, i think nigerians are used to (more used to) the guy
being the breadwinner, so if he is thrifty with the finances, the women are
more understanding. they'll just think "he is just being the man"

But here in the states, well, need I say more ? You know finances is the
# 1 source of divorces here in the states. Chikena

aight gotcha! but erhm thrifty as in he is a spendalot or spendahorlic

ikamefa:

aight gotcha! but erhm thrifty as in he is a spendalot?

Why you dey pick on me oooo miss fine girl ? You know say I no
sabi book, why humiliate me like this ? You are very mean I
tell you

me pick on you nahhhhh!

am just trying to misunderstand where you are coming from!

ikamefa:

me pick on you nahhhhh!

am just trying to misunderstand where you are coming from!

I know you are omo ondo i'll be back in a jiffy, make I grab something chop.

_{(how a pretty lady with a great personality is home on a friday night and not on a
hot date really surprizes me ooo, but its just my thought. i don't want her to
know what i'm thinking )}

GNature:

I know you are omo ondo i'll be back in a jiffy, make I grab something chop.

_{(how a pretty lady with a great personality is home on a friday night and not on a
hot date really surprizes me ooo, but its just my thought. i don't want her to
know what i'm thinking )}

what has my Ondoness have to do with joint checking accounts?

<sub>yeah right! this pretty lady needs to rest her ass at home tonight cos work dey tomorrow then party! party! this till the cops come knocking

am outty!</sub>

GNature:

Na waa ooh Radiant. Does this mean you are about
to get married ? - Just kidding

In the U.S., it might be necessary, especially if one is not
married to a Nigerian.

GNature, you my good friend and will def. invite you and Ika for my wedding.

I'm not thinking of getting married yet but just asking the question for safety. It still doesn't make sense having a joint account. I hate quarelling over money It's so humiliating

Not a Nigerian huh? I've taken proper note

Radiant:

GNature, you my good friend and will def. invite you and Ika for my wedding.

I'm not thinking of getting married yet but just asking the question for safety. It still doesn't make sense having a joint account. I hate quarelling over money It's so humiliating

Not a Nigerian huh? I've taken proper note

Radiant mio

I thought we were getting married? just collected our joint checking account form from the Bank.

SOS!


Somebody help me!!

She just broke my heart!

Call me 911, i have been murdered by the woman i love

Is it still me?

Everyone's got to be independent men. Having a joint account definitely means there's no trust and on the long wrong, both of you will not be comfortable about it.

Osegwu, you getting me confused here

I'm still reviewing your 'application' tho'

wellll, having a joint account with your spouse is not the best at all, to me it doesnt make sense because. if their is no money the both of them will suffer it seriously. but in the case were u av seperate acount when one goes blue the the other can help but when its joint the cash gets exhausted easily and fast, especially when they both r extravagant. in a family were the both av seperate account u hardly know when the go blue becos one will always b there to lift the other and everything will be looking balanced,

if they can share the real thing! what's bank account.

I would sure have a Joint account with ma Spouse

it all depends on the type of lady you married to. yOU KNOW YOUR WOMAN MUCH MORE THAN ANYONE, SO YOU GOTTA BEWARE OF DOGS!!!!!!

Dogs wtf?

My sweet Loving radiant,

My heart is in flame for my love for you

Don't get confused, I am in love with you if you don't mind?

Still me and you

Incidentally you did not say anything about our Joint Account?

i believe there should be a sort of family purse, yes there could be a joint account in that regard. But who says we cannot hav individual purses too?

i see separate accounts as a bit individualistic, and joint, too enthusiastic.

Thanks kinda difficult, with the kind of ladies in town now. Infact serious prayer need to be conducted, before such could be done. but if there is a good understanding b/w the both, they could go ahead. But the man should try and be smarter. hehe hehe

That's the way it should be. For me, All the bills(Mortgage, daycare, kids education funds, living expenses, etc.) come out of the joint account. Each of us also have our individual accounts that we use for personal stuff. 50% of our take take home goes to the joint account and the other half to our personal accounts. I bring home more than twice the wife, but, this has worked very well for us. Most of my friends also follow the same procedure. It's definitely a good idea to separate funds for personal stuff from funds from funds for the bills.

That's the same idea I settled upon when discussing with a friend. 50% at most goes into the joint account.