Is it necessery that newly married couples ve to
travel far away from there relative b'coz of this

My gurl told me that we will be goin to Asia 4 three whole weeks for the honeymoon
I was like tell her no she said " i better vow or not to engage mysef to her"
Guys i dey feel paranoid abt this, i jus had this statement on our discusion today on phone. I hope she is kiddin, cos i want travel to a "dead mans' land"
i say make i ask una how to treat this issue.

Its just Honeymoon.

If the cash is there you can take her to Jupiter if she wants to. But you gat on money and she still insist then to hell with her. She is just being childish.

if you have the money, why freak out about it? abi, you're afraid of planes or having good relaxing time w/your new wife b4 the tantrums start or what?

I look forward to my honeymoon cuz I wanna lose my virginity in a place I would cherish the rest of my life

Honeymoon is a "strange" culture to we Africans.

Honeymoon is a good idea but is Asia not too far? Won't you lose all the shine on the long trip back? Ego nko?

my dear, she should be human enough to know that you have spent much prior,
during and after the wedding. he needs some air. but if he still want to sweep
her off her feet, i will support that but not under durex.lol what ever case shine
ur eyes

Not necessary. . .but certainly gonna have one. . .myself and hubby need to go relax and have some time to ourselves after the whole hassle of the wedding preparations and the wedding itself. . .

It's not necessary, but compulsory .

yes, very much so. at least make dem sample their driving licence without the nuisance of family and friends coming to "greet" them.
dey can also use that time to start adjusting to the harsh realities of marital commitments- takling another person into account in your undertakings.
Personally, i prefer small/inexpensive wedding and take-off for honeymoon.

Ajiwire:

my dear, she should be human enough to know that you have spent much prior,
during and after the wedding.

na by force to spend much for wedding only to[b] impress people [/b]wey no go dey there when you dey cope with marital challenges
marriage is about the goom and bride plus two witnesses. thereafter, na jara, if u can afford depending on your priorities.

Its not bad at all if you can afford it but if you cant please ignore. Its not compulsory and besides a honeymoon canbe in a different state within Nigeria.

I look forward to my honeymoon cuz I wanna lose my virginity in a place I would cherish the rest of my life

u should cherish the dude u lost it to,not the place u lost it at

Honeymoon is naturally necessary but. .    

@All,
Honeymoon is like a week of grace. Act like little kids for a while, then go back and face the real marriage.

Is not but it adds pleasantness to newly couple

mrperfect:

Is not but it adds pleasantness to newly couple

I guess u meant 'Momentary' pleasantness. . _{e no dey last ooo!!}

We can always forget the wedding and have the honey moon.

Secretz:

We can always forget the wedding and have the honey moon.

hmmmm sounds good to me,

It's not compulsory but necessary !

honeymoon is not so necessary, but its a way of making couples appreciate their time together after marriage

igelle:

honeymoon is not so necessary, but its a way of making couples appreciate their time together after marriage

so where does that fall ?

yes its necessary
where do U impregnate the woman after the marriage

To bigfather, how do u mean where does that fall?doesn't it make some sense to you?

Honeymoon is not necessary--- the journey of the marriage is.

If the journey of the marriage is blissful, wedding NIGHT is not the only night you will have to take a honeymoon trip.

unitee:

I look forward to my honeymoon cuz I wanna lose my virginity in a place I would cherish the rest of my life

why the unnecessary lie for goodness sake, why, why, why?

Not all honeymoon has to be 'travel overseas for three weeks'. But you need some alone time with your new bride after the wedding. Isn't that 'neccessary' to you?
If it's a cost issue, go to Ghana or Obudu or even Calabar. Something like that!
I get married soon, and I'm doing mine in Dubai

^^^ CONGRATS---- Ghana is a good place too and its cheap

If you can afford it, sure why not! But if you can't, I don't think it is necessary

There is nothing wrong in honeymoon and it is not really neccessary. If you have the money and want to spend it outside the country, then do so, otherwise you better spend it in a quiet environment. For me, honeymoon can be spent anywhere. I met a couple who wedded two days earlier in a park and they informed me that they were on honeymoon. I was very happy not because they aint wealthy but just decided to spend time to visit persons they ought to see before and after the wedding.

I must honeymoon in Philippine anytime I find my better half.
The place is as beautiful as paradise with a chalet near their clean beach and as cheap as hell. The place is even cheaper than Ghana except for the flight ticket.

Honeymoon is never necessary.
As a couple, every day supposed to be honey