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Reasons People Have Extramarital Affairs In Marriages by sophimara: 6:37pm On Dec 17, 2016
Marriage is sweet; many single persons wish to be in it at just a glance at other’s pre-wedding photos, but those already in it, well let’s just hope for the best. But you can always call me if it doesn’t work out.
At the end of the day, it’s a divorce, constant fighting or just extra marital affairs that’s becomes the other of the day…, c’mon couples, we are bigger than that.
These are some of the reasons why you may want to cheat on your partner and the earlier you know this, the better because you can just avoid it!

1. Early marriage
People who marry in their early 20s would most likely have achieved some level of stability and social standing by their mid-30s. At that point, they feel that they did not really enjoy life in their 20s, and find it exciting to indulge in an extramarital affair. It is their way of experiencing the thrill and excitement of dating.
2.Married for the wrong reasons
Many people enter into marriage for the wrong reasons. If they meet someone who is in any way a better match than their current spouse, they are immediately attracted to him/her. And what starts as a simple friendship usually ends up in an affair.
3.Inability to deal with changes
Life throws changes at us almost every day. Most of us are able to deal with the small changes. But the bigger ones are tougher to deal with — a serious illness in the family, death, loss of employment, financial loss, etc. Many turn to people, apart from their spouses to deal with such changes. They find more comfort in the arms of someone new, perhaps someone not connected to their tough circumstances in any way.
4.Becoming parents
Becoming a parent changes everything about a husband-wife relationship. Priorities change, the time you can give each other reduces and your immediate living environment alters drastically. And since most women are usually so busy being mothers, they probably don’t even realize this for a long time.
5.Physical dissatisfaction
This is probably one of the most common reasons for people to get involved in an extramarital affair.

6.Emotional disconnect
Sometimes a couple grows emotionally disconnected from each other, the top reasons being lack of time and lack of communication with each other. To be emotionally connected, you need to share, you need to talk, you need to express, you need to listen, you need to laugh, you need to care and show that you care.
see more here:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/young-families/reasons-people-have-extramarital-affairs-in-marriages
Re: Reasons People Have Extramarital Affairs In Marriages by Nobody: 6:39pm On Dec 17, 2016
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Re: Reasons People Have Extramarital Affairs In Marriages by Kdiva(f): 6:41pm On Dec 17, 2016
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Re: Reasons People Have Extramarital Affairs In Marriages by Mutuwa(m): 6:58pm On Dec 17, 2016
This is why it is always better to love the girl that you marry,than to marry the girl you love.
Re: Reasons People Have Extramarital Affairs In Marriages by Heavance(m): 7:18pm On Dec 17, 2016
Most ladies/men stop dating their spouse once they are married, which is wrong. Those good things should continually be chipped in
Re: Reasons People Have Extramarital Affairs In Marriages by menxer: 8:16pm On Dec 17, 2016
Love is the problem.
How do we define it?

Once we contravene that definition there is bound to be problems.

MARRIAGE should be a partnership without the moral baggage introduced in the name of love, But for the sake of control it must be there and so too the side chick/toy boy.

Morality is a man made thing.

"to him that is pure all things are pure..." ~ Bible.

grin

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