When you are young and just starting out in the world as an adult, it’s fun to date, and you can even have a serious relationship or two along the way.

But when you are ready to dedicate yourself to your career or are preparing to start your own business, it may be time to slow down and smell the coffee. You have to ask yourself: “Is this person right for me?”

1. The opinion of others does matter.
Don’t kid yourself. It’s one thing if mama doesn’t like your romantic interest, but if a whole lot of other family members and even your friends aren’t keen on him/her either, you may need to take a second look. Reality is that unless there is a drastic event to change their opinions, they are not going to change.

2. Don’t always be the one adjusting. If you are constantly changing to make your partner happy, well, you aren’t going to be happy. If you look at yourself and say, “Yeah, I do dress like a slob,” and you want to change your style, that’s fine. Go ahead. But think… is this change about you or what your mate wants?

3. You’re always being criticized. If it’s happening a lot, it can affect your self-esteem. Joking is one thing. But are they jokes or ways to put you down? Good relationships inspire and support. If your mate is comparing you to others, saying your education isn’t as good as his/hers and other kinds of put-downs, this is probably not the person for you.

4. You’re the follower and your partner is always the leader. Who’s making the decisions? Are you making them together? Certainly sometimes your savvy will be better than the other person’s, and visa versa, but your partner shouldn’t be making ALL the decisions ALL the time. It’s just not healthy.

5. Do you wonder what he/she is doing while you are away or out? Do you worry where he/she is and who with? That’s not a good sign. If you do not trust your partner, that’s a big sign of trouble. It’s going to cause arguments and it will drive you crazy.

6. It’s never enough.......Continue reading here http://muyigist.com/2016/12/19/relationship-the-10-signs-youre-in-the-wrong-relationship-beware-2/

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Most times when guys think they are killing it back to back in a relationship, girls will be like, you aint killing shit!

Moral: you just can't try enough

You can never force anyone to love you but once you start having such feelings that u are forcing yourself on someone then there is a problem which shouldn't be overlooked.