I wonder what's up?? I've been going out with this girl for two years in school and i'll be graduating by April. Last semester is about to commence, and she sends me a message over the weekend saying she wants to talk about us??  And i call her and she says she'd rather talk about it looking me in the eye and i'm like heyheyhey, wats up She hasn't told me what she's got on her mind even after serious persuasions over the phone yet, but she will on Saturday. What do i do o
Does she want to break up is the ultimate question on my mind.

I need advice from y'all out there who have been in my shoes before.

Flint.

your post is not clear enough. is it that u and her have been dating and she wants to call off the relationship or that she was tripping for u before and she was afraid to say it and now she wants to break the ice? details pls.

I've edited my initial post, hope its more explicit as to my situation.

Flint.

then keep your fingers crossed and wait for saturday. afterall there's nothing that the ear will hear that will make it bleed.

I don't really think she wants to break up with you, the thing with love is that you never know what the other person has in mind at every given time. She might actually be scared herself, thinking that the end of the semester might be the end for both of you, that you might not wish to continue with the relationship. I have this feeling that if your wish is to continue the relationship, then you might actually be plaesantly surprised by what she has to say.
I wish you luck !

boi be afraid, be very afraid

Tnx 4 ur candid advice, bluenubian!!!

LOL!!!

Flint.

u welcome

She wants to break up, when women use words like 'we need to talk about us' 99% of the time it means you are not doing something right and she has found someone else, lets hope she is leaning to the 1% where she wants to talk about improving your relationship, or wants to have mind-blowing sex with you lol

@ Ima1

LOLL!!!!! Don't we all wish, LOL!!!

Flint.

Dvampire:

Nothing that the ear will hear that will make it bleed.

I love this statement. Awesome!


Mr lover, be ready for anything. Whether good or bad. We'll be here to see you through.

Hey all, its Saturday today, and guess what?? She couldn't make it to my place for some genuine reason. Sorry to disappoint y'al who'd been waiting to hear what she had to say, But heyy!!! we both going to skul tomorrow so, best bet, she'll have to spill either tomorrow or the next. Don't worry, i'll keep y'al posted ok!! Enjoy this lil suspense!!!!!!!!!

Flint.

Just make sure you wake up tmrw morning. We all fine

No need to be afraid she want you to marry her since you are graduating she want the relationship in a graduate level

@Macgreat

yeah right, now she wants things in the GLR, Graduate Level Relationship

@ flintz

You left us hanging in the air, or was the news too good/bad to share. we're waiting

Hey all, i'm sorry for not replying this thread in a while. Internet is a scarce privilege in school.
As for the info she had for me, she asked that we break up, stating such reasons as:
-i'm graduating,
-distance (she stays in Abuja, and i stay in Lagos), and some other reasons.

However, after 9 days that i shunned her for all it was worth, she came back saying she wanted to get in back on the relationship. However, i couldn't agree to that, as the distance was also an issue for me so i'd rather we faced our reality now than postpone it to another day. I said i'd rather we just be friends.

So that's it guys. That's what she wanted to talk to me about. But don't worry, i'm as good as ever. I await your replies on this thread.
HOLA!!!

Flint.

@ flintz
Thanks for the update. Sorry for the break up, guess it wasn't meant to be. If it was, when she came back wishing to continue, you'ld have said yes. But its all good, i'm sure there's someone out there for the both of you. Personally i don't think distance is a problem, it can be quite frustrating but hey out of sight is not necessarily out of mind as long as both parties are contributing to keeping the love grow. Love is like a flower, when not watered, it whithers
. Good luck with your new life

Flintz:

Hey all, i'm sorry fpr not replying this thread in a while. Internet is a scarce privilege in school
As for the info she had for me, she asked that we break up, stating such reasons as:
i'm graduating,
distance (she stays in Abuja, and i stay in Lagos), and som other reasons.

However, after 9 days that i shunned her for all its worth, she came back saying she wanted to get in back on the relationship. However, i couldn't agree to get back in the relationship. I said i'd rather we just be friends.

So that's it guys, That's what she wanted to talk to me about. But don't worry, i'm as good as ever. I await your replies on this thread.
HOLA!!!

Flint.

How sure I was. Sorry, eh? "It is well"!

She doesn't want to break up. She just want to be sure if the two of you have a plan together for the future (will you marry me) or is it just having fun in school after which it is 'to thy tent o isreal'