At a certain age in life, one needs a companion who will always be there for him/her in a time of dismay or merryment.. I always think about having sexual relationship experiences before finally hook up with someone. I'm in my mid 20's, approaching ladies is not my problem, but my problem is how to handle them. Ladies usually say that I am kinda rude, with the following attitudes:
1. Bashing them
2. Giving them Less Attention and lots more.
Recently, I had a little rancour with my girlfriend-to-be lolz, she said I overreact too much and she can't date me because of my behavior etc and another girl even flaired up and told me never to call her again. I have gotten another potential girlfriend now but I don't want to lose her again.
I need matured advices Nlanders please..
NB: I have never had a girlfriend..

I'm coming

Check this out, http://www.myrealityblog.com/2016/12/relationship-101-understanding-basis.html

It might help you Bro!

So how exactly can we help you? You already know what your problem is. Simply do the opposite of all you listed and you'll be just fine. Or you can keep searching for any girl who can accommodate your bullshït.

You know what your problem is and I'm sure you know the solution.
Sorry,I have nothing to say.The next poster might sha

When you get money, they won't give you options again

Fall inside well

Heya, poor boy!! Get rich first...

Masonic:
So how exactly can we help you? You already know what your problem is. Simply do the opposite of all you listed and you'll be just fine. Or you can keep searching for any girl who can accommodate your bullshït.

Like giving them too much attention? I don't get you

Omooba224:
At a certain age in life, one needs a companion who will always be there for him/her in a time of dismay or merryment.. I always think about having sexual relationship experiences before finally hook up with someone. I'm in my mid 20's, approaching ladies is not my problem, but my problem is how to handle them. Ladies usually say that I am kinda rude, with the following attitudes:
1. Bashing them
2. Giving them Less Attention and lots more.
Recently, I had a little rancour with my girlfriend-to-be lolz, she said I overreact too much and she can't date me because of my behavior etc and another girl even flaired up and told me never to call her again. I have gotten another potential girlfriend now but I don't want to lose her again.
I need matured advices Nlanders please..
NB: I have never had a girlfriend..

u need deliverance... Go for anger Management. It will be difficult to see a lady that will tolerate such crass attitude.

Nma27:
u need deliverance... Go for anger Management. It will be difficult to see a lady that will tolerate such crass attitude.

Exactly

Omooba224:
At a certain age in life, one needs a companion who will always be there for him/her in a time of dismay or merryment.. I always think about having sexual relationship experiences before finally hook up with someone. I'm in my mid 20's, approaching ladies is not my problem, but my problem is how to handle them. Ladies usually say that I am kinda rude, with the following attitudes:
1. Bashing them
2. Giving them Less Attention and lots more.
Recently, I had a little rancour with my girlfriend-to-be lolz, she said I overreact too much and she can't date me because of my behavior etc and another girl even flaired up and told me never to call her again. I have gotten another potential girlfriend now but I don't want to lose her again.
I need matured advices Nlanders please..
NB: I have never had a girlfriend..

Hello Omooba,

You have only told us what these women have said about you.
But what's most important to helping you change your attitude is what you yourself think of the situation.

So tell us,

How would you describe your dealings with the feminine folk?

How would you describe your attitude towards the women you had past romantic entanglements with?

Nma27:
u need deliverance... Go for anger Management. It will be difficult to see a lady that will tolerate such crass attitude.

Anger Management! Would you mind giving me a clue about how to manage my anger?

Omooba224:
At a certain age in life, one needs a companion who will always be there for him/her in a time of dismay or merryment.. I always think about having sexual relationship experiences before finally hook up with someone. I'm in my mid 20's, approaching ladies is not my problem, but my problem is how to handle them. Ladies usually say that I am kinda rude, with the following attitudes:
1. Bashing them
2. Giving them Less Attention and lots more.
Recently, I had a little rancour with my girlfriend-to-be lolz, she said I overreact too much and she can't date me because of my behavior etc and another girl even flaired up and told me never to call her again. I have gotten another potential girlfriend now but I don't want to lose her again.
I need matured advices Nlanders please..
NB: I have never had a girlfriend..

Moderate your ego and masculinity bro, esp when it has to do with women knowing they are delicate species else you'd keep losing em.

My dear, you need some growing up. Apparently, you're not yet mature enough to handle a responsible relationship.

Omooba224:
Anger Management! Would you mind giving me a clue about how to manage my anger?

Its left for u to discover that.

TheCOB:


Hello Omooba,

You have only told us what these women have said about you.
But what's most important to helping you change your attitude is what you yourself think of the situation.

So tell us,

How would you describe your dealings with the feminine folk?

How would you describe your attitude towards the women you had past romantic entanglements with?

Well, I'll say at a start of my rapport with them I always tend to play along with their attitudes, but as time goes on I easily turn off with them (calling them but them not calling back in a case of missed call, busy excuses etc). My Ideology is that I can't call a girl more than twice when she is not picking up my calls.

Some girls will say I am too inquisitive. At times I try to ask indirect questions..
I am a jovial type but I don't take nonsense

firstking01:
Moderate your ego and masculinity bro, esp when it has to do with women knowing they are delicate species else you'd keep losing em.

Hmmm! Well said, but I don't want to sound needy

Omooba224:
Hmmm! Well said, but I don't want to sound needy

Even this your statement is filled with ego...watch it bro!!!, watch it!!!.

Dude, don't change who you're for nobody.
I would quote Marilyn Monroe for you but I'll pass.
Tables turned, these same people urging to change, work on your anger blah blah blah, would be the same ones wanting you to be patient, talk to and even "pray" from them bītches.
Stay true to yourself, no apologies.

Omooba224:
Well, I'll say at a start of my rapport with them I always tend to play along with their attitudes, but as time goes on I easily turn off with them (calling them but them not calling back in a case of missed call, busy excuses etc). My Ideology is that I can't call a girl more than twice when she is not picking up my calls.

Some girls will say I am too inquisitive. At times I try to ask indirect questions..
I am a jovial type but I don't take nonsense

Okay.

I really think you should adjust your view of women. You seem to subtly believe that women are somewhat beneath you hence you can't take their nonsense..... You can't call back if they don't pick after 2 dials (and heaven alone knows how you react when they eventually pick). You play along with them initially - as if they were some sort of new toys

That way, you would keep losing them.

So please start with seeing your woman as your partner, your complement and helper....... Not some toy made to adhere to your biddings

Next, please look into your ego... Don't you have your own nonsense? So how come you can't tolerate her own nonsense? What makes you believe you have a right to display nonsense and she don't?

Relationships involve lots of tolerance and respect (which means we wouldn't expect you to be bashing your woman). If you can't tolerate differences, it would never work. The reason is simply because humans will always have differences, so our only option is to tolerate each other.

That same thing you want to say, say it nicely and it would work like magic! When a woman feels valued and honored by her man, chances are that she would most likely give her best to please him

I understand that you want to feel in charge and in control.... But you don't have to do it at the expense of your partner. Really, Loving itself is the most powerful tool to keep you in charge and in control.... But you don't seem to be using it.

Dump the anger/power tool and pick up the Love tool and you would see her yield to your leadership without you having to exert it over her

queenitee:
You know what your problem is and I'm sure you know the solution.
Sorry,I have nothing to say.The next poster might sha

aunty sori o, wuts dat on ur chest

YUNGLURD:
aunty sori o, wuts dat on ur chest

Op, is your name Bella

queenitee:

TheCOB:


Okay.

I really think you should adjust your view of women. You seem to subtly believe that women are somewhat beneath you hence you can't take their nonsense..... You can't call back if they don't pick after 2 dials (and heaven alone knows how you react when they eventually pick). You play along with them initially - as if they were some sort of new toys

That way, you would keep losing them.

So please start with seeing your woman as your partner, your complement and helper....... Not some toy made to adhere to your biddings

Next, please look into your ego... Don't you have your own nonsense? So how come you can't tolerate her own nonsense? What makes you believe you have a right to display nonsense and she don't?

Relationships involve lots of tolerance and respect (which means we wouldn't expect you to be bashing your woman). If you can't tolerate differences, it would never work. The reason is simply because humans will always have differences, so our only option is to tolerate each other.

That same thing you want to say, say it nicely and it would work like magic! When a woman feels valued and honored by her man, chances are that she would most likely give her best to please him

I understand that you want to feel in charge and in control.... But you don't have to do it at the expense of your partner. Really, Loving itself is the most powerful tool to keep you in charge and in control.... But you don't seem to be using it.

Dump the anger/power tool and pick up the Love tool and you would see her yield to your leadership without you having to exert it over her

Honestly, I can't thank you enough for your matured advice. I will try to adopt every salient point you made and I hope I will be better off by the points...
Gracias...

firstking01:
Even this your statement is filled with ego...watch it bro!!!, watch it!!!.

Lol, alright

Omooba224:
Honestly, I can't thank you enough for your matured advice. I will try to adopt every salient point you made and I hope I will be better off by the points...
Gracias...

You are very welcome... Thank you very much too for seeing reason with the critique. I wish you all the beautiful things love has to offer. Cheers!