hello everyone, I nid ur advice on this issue. i feel so disturbed ryt now. my girlfriend just called that she's pregnant. of course, I know say na me. no doubt( no trust issue). I was shocked because I Neva planned for it( tot I was a pro).am not in support of abortion cos I luv her and even for d spiritual implication. she doesn't want it as well. d problem now is that am not yet financially stable to cater for the upcoming need. I just finished nysc and no job yet. still trying to get my life on track. am so confused. no one is an island of knowledge. pls anyone who have once been in dis situation or anyone with useful opinion should advise me. help a bro, thank you.

Bros don enter gbese o ...

Bro just take her for antenatal first.

Then go start to dey do legbuke (labourer) for construction sites to make money against the baby delivery date.

And/or start praying for miscarriage to happen.

***Flashback***
***After 20 minutes of digging the hole***

"Ouch I'm almost there baby... Baby I love the way your pussy is... It is really cooool down here baby... Oh oh oh oh oh oh owwwww!"

***Dude cums***
***Dude feels "good" inside***
***Dude wipes his fallen hero using tissue paper***
***Dude sleeps off***

How far gone is the 'pregnancy ' ?

johnnn20:
hello everyone, I nid ur advice on this issue. i feel so disturbed ryt now. my girlfriend just called that she's pregnant. of course, I know say na me. no doubt( no trust issue). I was shocked because I Neva planned for it( tot I was a pro).am not in support of abortion cos I luv her and even for d spiritual implication. she doesn't want it as well. d problem now is that am not yet financially stable to cater for the upcoming need. I just finished nysc and no job yet. still trying to get my life on track. am so confused. no one is an island of knowledge. pls anyone who have once been in dis situation or anyone with useful opinion should advise me. help a bro, thank you.

Hmmm bro, dis a challenge for u. To me I tnk u shld start working towas wat u can lay ur hands upon to meet Dos expenses. God bless ur family and d unborn child

You had sex without protection and yet you say you didn't plan it. What were you expecting? That your sperm would somehow miss her ovum?

Since the pregnancy is still in it's early stages, and you and your girlfriend obviously aren't financially and psychologically ready to raise a child, plus other possible implications that would occur in the future, my advise would be that you abort it now. No point giving birth to a child under such circumstances. You'd just jeopardize the life of the child.

BlackDBagba:
How far gone is the 'pregnancy ' ?

just two weeks

You are not ready for it? Then why did you have unprotected sex?

shams040:


Hmmm bro, dis a challenge for u. To me I tnk u shld start working towas wat u can lay ur hands upon to meet Dos expenses. God bless ur family and d unborn child

amen, thanks bro

rokiatu:
You are not ready for it? Then why did you have unprotected sex?

Abegi, u da talk as if u no shabi as konji da b

shams040:


Abegi, u da talk as if u no shabi as konji da b

one shouldn't be reckless in matters like this especially if you ain't ready yet.

rokiatu:
You are not ready for it? Then why did you have unprotected sex?

hey hommie long time you still look as ravishing as ever.


poster lay on the bed you have made for yourself and face what comes as it comes. you will develop and show strength you never knew you had.

johnnn20:
hello everyone, I nid ur advice on this issue. i feel so disturbed ryt now. my girlfriend just called that she's pregnant. of course, I know say na me. no doubt( no trust issue). I was shocked because I Neva planned for it( tot I was a pro).am not in support of abortion cos I luv her and even for d spiritual implication. she doesn't want it as well. d problem now is that am not yet financially stable to cater for the upcoming need. I just finished nysc and no job yet. still trying to get my life on track. am so confused. no one is an island of knowledge. pls anyone who have once been in dis situation or anyone with useful opinion should advise me. help a bro, thank you.

rokiatu:
You are not ready for it? Then why did you have unprotected sex?

no one is above it----mistake

When enjoying, we did not know u
..now u have issue, u are coming to us... What do you take us for assassin

rokiatu:
one shouldn't be reckless in matters like this especially if you ain't ready yet.

U a ryt sha, bt it as happened already let just give him some advice on d way out.

johnnn20:

just two weeks

As crude as this might sound, I'll make two frank suggestions -1. get rid of it. You cannot take care of it and you don't have to bring a child into this life to suffer. All these hypocrites will come here and say horrible things but do I care? NO.
I'm pro choice

2. Let her keep it and get ready to die before you have lived.

Have you thought of the implications? Like marriage and having a child outside wedlock, stigma and others. That child did not ask to be brought here to suffer. You alone will be responsible for what that child becomes tomorrow. Get ready and I wish you all the best.

Correctbro1:
When enjoying, we did not know u
..now u have issue, u are coming to us... What do you take us for assassin

Lol, help a brother jor. No mind him na konji

pm me I will tell u where to buy pampas and children cloths at affordable price. . Make sure u don't abort that baby God is watching u with 3D eye glass.

johnnn20:

no one is above it----mistake

mistake is if you took the needed precuations but if you didn't then
Well you know the drill.

If I was in your shoes, abortion is a big no no. As long as you have a roof over your head you can provide for that child trust me. God will provide.

omega25red:
hey hommie long time you still look as ravishing as ever.

yes it's been long indeed. Hope you're doing fine. And thanks for the compliment.

shams040:


Lol, help a brother jor. No mind him na konji

anyway they should go flush the blood naa...

thanks for ur advises so far....still welcoming more from everyone...

tochivitus:
pm me I will tell u where to buy pampas and children cloths at affordable price. . Make sure u don't abort that baby God is watching u with 3D eye glass.

bro

tochivitus:
pm me I will tell u where to buy pampas and children cloths at affordable price. . Make sure u don't abort that baby God is watching u with 3D eye glass.

bro

BlackDBagba:


As crude as this might sound, I'll make two frank suggestions -1. get rid of it. You cannot take care of it and you don't have to bring a child into this life to suffer. All these hypocrites will come here and say horrible things but do I care? NO.
I'm pro choice

2. Let her keep it and get ready to die before you have lived.

Have you thought of the implications? Like marriage and having a child outside wedlock, stigma and others. That child did not ask to be brought here to suffer. You alone will be responsible for what that child becomes tomorrow. Get ready and I wish you all the best.

thanks for ur advice

still waiting for your advices

Op for this Buhari economy wey some married men dey vex say their wife carry belle again anyway make I advice... The deed has already been done... It's going to be a very difficult/challenging period in your life possibly for some Months or even years but one thing I can assure is that at the end, you will be glad you didn't abort the child... By the way this is the time you need to get closer to God more than ever before and also look for something doing... He will surely bless the work of your hands...

wen newton said every action has equal and opposite reaction, we thought it was a joke, now u re nt ready 4 d reactn bt u were ready 4 d actn, i dn't want 2 cast a stone because nobody is free jst dat sum are lucky nt 2 be in ur shoes, d way forward is being a man and standing 2 meet up wit wat u are responsible for, abortion should nt be in ur options, thnk abt consequences, d lady agree 2 do abortion?

i like dis talk, 4rm a blue heart.

SmellingAnus:
Op for this Buhari economy wey some married men dey vex say their wife carry belle again anyway make I advice... The deed has already been done... It's going to be a very difficult/challenging period in your life possibly for some Months or even years but one thing I can assure is that at the end, you will be glad you didn't abort the child... By the way this is the time you need to get closer to God more than ever before and also look for something doing... He will surely bless the work of your hands...

Maiconyoung:
wen newton said every action has equal and opposite reaction, we thought it was a joke, now u re nt ready 4 d reactn bt u were ready 4 d actn, i dn't want 2 cast a stone because nobody is free jst dat sum are lucky nt 2 be in ur shoes, d way forward is being a man and standing 2 meet up wit wat u are responsible for, abortion should nt be in ur options, thnk abt consequences, d lady agree 2 do abortion?

she might agree if I convince her. everytin lies in my decision

SmellingAnus:
Op for this Buhari economy wey some married men dey vex say their wife carry belle again anyway make I advice... The deed has already been done... It's going to be a very difficult/challenging period in your life possibly for some Months or even years but one thing I can assure is that at the end, you will be glad you didn't abort the child... By the way this is the time you need to get closer to God more than ever before and also look for something doing... He will surely bless the work of your hands...

hmmmm bro..thanks

my bro, abortion in my opinion is 4 cowards, we all make mistakes in life, our ability 2 get up and move forward determine ur quality as a living being, come 2 thnk of it, next 20yrs, u wil be proud 2 touch dat child and say dis is my child bt in 20yrs even in present time wil u be bold 2 say i aborted my child, wat abt 2moro u re called as a respctd personality 2 advice d youth, wil u be able 2 campaigne against abortion without guilt in ur mind.? abortion costs more dan we can pay for, an eternal guilt been placed upon urself, a story dat can neva be re-written even if u want to. it should not be among ur options, jst thnk abt d consequences.

johnnn20:

she might agree if I convince her. everytin lies in my decision