Following this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/2977640/fiancee-very-aggressive-rude

I was thinking it was getting resolved because after tried some solutions shared by some users on the forum, she changed a little and became more fun but just 4 days ago she was surfing Nairaland (she is also a Nairalander but not so active) and one way or the other she dabbled into the thread and after reading she calculated and figured it is I who posted since I'm an active nairaland user for a long time. She became angry.

The next day I realize I was having stomach upset and I went to get some over the counter medications and did a test in those nearby small clinics. They told me I was poisoned. I challenged her and she admitted it. Saying she will do it again that I went on reporting her to Nairaland forum. She was so angry and told me to be very careful that she won't poison me next time that it will be far worse.

I could take it no longer I reported her to her brother who assured me it is under control that he will handle it.

Please I think I am ready 2 call off the wedding bt I fear I will break. Because it's going to be a fatal blow to my heart because I really love her even she knows.

Although some people are saying I should take d fight to her bt I don't think it's a fight I will win because she s way out of my league and stronger.

Is there anything else I can do?

Hmmm.

My father told me when I was 6 years. Then I used to be afraid of rodents. He told me to embrace my fear and accept that I'm afraid then give it a blind shot to catch and kill a rodent. He told me that the moment we embrace and accept our fear, it's not weakness but actually strength.

You have accepted she is stronger physically and you are scared and from your previous thread she seems to have have a hold over you which is the love you have for her

I tell you this much, she is trying to establish her dominance. That alpha female thing. So when you get married she will be lord over you indirectly you can't say no when she says yes.

You said in the previous thread that the trust fall game worked. Now, it's time to play another game. She is not strong mentally/emotionally. I know her type. They use physical brute forxe and aggression to hide their tender hearts. Identify her fear! What is she afraid of? When you find it, give it to her. Let her break in fear and run back to you for help/support.

Many alpha females have broken with that simple game.

Things like this are simple mind games.

Lol...ur not yet married to her but she already poisoned u..what more if ur both married?what worst cud happen?

Now she gonna see this thread again, juz be careful she may juz poke ur throat with a knife..

Lmao... Diz sought of luv tho is fromTokyo.... Somone u intend to spend the rest of ur life with poisoined u and u still seek advice... Bruh... Dis aint love no more... Na obsession... Do ur self a favour and dnt bcom another statistic in d name love.. U r being bullied and belittled . dt aint love bro... U can surely do better... .....
.. In btw.... She prolly chose u over the others cause she knw she can do as she wants and u will still Kiss her ass regardless...

Well, I have nothing to say other than "RIP IN ADVANCE" if you still go on with the wedding plans.

Someone threaten your life and you are still with her?
God punish that stupid love.This isn't love anymore.
Forget about the wedding and run for your dear life.

Pity your parent abeg.

Op seems like someone who is suffering from menstural flow of the mouth
Tomorrow your spirit will come and tell us the time and venue for your obituary


I just have to say this even though hate this word.
this na ENDTIME RELATIONSHIP

And people believe this story?

In essence, if you seek redress for any issue with her family in the future you'll get poisoned abi? You're OBSESSED with her abd not in love. That's if your story is true.

O boy, relationships and even marriages do crash after investing time and love. You sound coordinated so pick up your principles from where you've dumped them (courtesy of your obsession) and either identify her fears and address them like a man or call it off like a man!

She read your last thread and poisoned you? And you are here again to open another one.
You are not even nice.
It means even we commenting are not safe. What if she starts looking for us one by one to poison us too?

KashyBaby:
Lol...ur not yet married to her but she already poisoned u..what more if ur both married?what worst cud happen?

Now she gonna see this thread again, juz be careful she may juz poke ur throat with a knife..

..darlin do you wear tongue?

Ur fiancee or ur enemy

smh

Post the link to your previous thread pleae.

Anybody who is capable of poisoning even a fowl is evil and must be avoided.


If you can get any evidence against her for poisoning you you lodge a complaint at the Police Station.

Please ask God to help you stop loving her unless of course you are on a suicide mission.

One more thing: go to the hospital so that you can be given an antidote to neutralise all the effects of the poison.

God be with you.

Your story looks so staged.

This OP has gat to be the most naive, least confident man with the lowest self esteem. WTF! is love when your life is being threatened "in your face"? Doubt if this shet is true.

Better man up & stop being a woosie

This is what u get when u admit she is the MAN, she is way stronger than u because u r in d relationship for r wealth. N u don't bliv urself again, so sorry for u man, hmm nope,so sorry for u girl.

What is this

Angelberry:
What is this

..i dont know

Smellymouth:

..i dont know

Good morning swhrt

Angelberry:

Good morning swhrt

Good morning hun. Guess u slept well.

Where is the pic of the poison and the food
@cruzita..stop viewing..come here and say something !

Smellymouth:

Good morning hun. Guess u slept well.

Yes swt! hope your babe is not like the op's babe

Screwface:
She read your last thread and poisoned you? And you are here again to open another one.
You are not even nice.
It means even we commenting are not safe. What if she starts looking for us one by one to poison us too?

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Screwface:
She read your last thread and poisoned you? And you are here again to open another one.
You are not even nice.
It means even we commenting are not safe. What if she starts looking for us one by one to poison us too?

she go start from u

Angelberry:

Yes swt! hope your babe is not like the op's babe

I am baeless hun..

Smellymouth:

I am baeless hun..

To copy this lie press booobs I know you have don't lie to me

op if this is true,then u need new version of sense maybe the one u have is outdated.Someone u are about to marry poisoned u because of some silly issue and u are still talking about love. if this is love ,I refuse to love a beg.

nikkypearl:
Where is the pic of the poison and the food
@cruzita..stop viewing..come here and say something !

hahahahaha this one na super story oo.But wait oo how u take know say I dey view.u be winch

Angelberry:

To copy this lie press booobs I know you have don't lie to me

Hahahahah..

Angelberry:

To copy this lie press booobs I know you have don't lie to me

Sincerely, I don't have..

Smellymouth:


Sincerely, I don't have..

Why you have a babe here on Nl

u mid to call it off or else na die u dey