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Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by jericco1(m): 8:59am On Dec 31, 2016
annyplenty:


It did not contradict. Lust of the eyes is the first stage. It is a Lust. Lust of the heart is the second stage and it is a lust.

FIVE STAGES OF LUSTS
I was made to understand that the fall of Adam by Satan through Eve was due to Eve’s undergoing the complete stages of Lust after the forbidden fruit. Let us look at our working scripture.

From the underlined in our working scripture, we can see the processes or stages that Eve went through:

1. She made eye contact with the forbidden fruit and could not take her eyes away from it. {pleasant to the eye).
2. Her heart desired to have a taste of the fruit (a tree to be desired).
3. In between, before she took the fruit, she must have planned how to pluck the fruit.
4. She carried out her heart desire by eating the fruit. She took action (and did eat)
5. Consequently, she became lost to death (God’s judgement).

These five stages that Lot went through led sequentially one to another. Each stage is lust on its own and is sinful. Let us look at these five stages in practical ways at they affect youths.

anyway am still not convinced, if we are to go by this, then everybody has in one way or the other lust.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 9:52am On Dec 31, 2016
jericco1:


anyway am still not convinced, if we are to go by this, then everybody has in one way or the other lust.

Yes you are right. I had this struggle after I became born again. I had overexposed myself to pornographic images and also loved to looked around at unclad women on the steer, when I was an unbeliever. After, I came born again. I had this struggle- all the pornographic movies I had watched were playing to me from my heart on their own and I was still being carried away with looking at sensitive parts of women on the street. Then I began to take deliberate steps to be able to overcome all these things.

Satan himself knew lust to be a major sin and problem.That is why he is flooding the women with clothes that expose their sensitive parts and men will always find themselves lusting after them. It is a deliberate attack from the enemy.Brother it is possible to overcome lust.

However, it possible to overcome lust of the eyes. Job understood the gravity of lusting after women and He made a determination to overcome it.

New International Version
Job 31:1
"I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by jericco1(m): 11:13am On Jan 01, 2017
annyplenty:


Yes you are right. I had this struggle after I became born again. I had overexposed myself to pornographic images and also loved to looked around at unclad women on the steer, when I was an unbeliever. After, I came born again. I had this struggle- all the pornographic movies I had watched were playing to me from my heart on their own and I was still being carried away with looking at sensitive parts of women on the street. Then I began to take deliberate steps to be able to overcome all these things.

Satan himself knew lust to be a major sin and problem.That is why he is flooding the women with clothes that expose their sensitive parts and men will always find themselves lusting after them. It is a deliberate attack from the enemy.Brother it is possible to overcome lust.

However, it possible to overcome lust of the eyes. Job understood the gravity of lusting after women and He made a determination to overcome it.

New International Version
Job 31:1
"I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman.

well that's different sha
let's not continue coz I am still not convinced
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by ratatis(m): 12:58pm On Jan 01, 2017
BuddhaPalm:


Society evolved to maintain order.

Embedding rules for monogamy and sexual exclusivity in religion is society's way of reducing strife.

God filled our loins with fire and told us to go into the world and multiply.

Marriage is man-made.

I desire a luscious sexually responsive woman in my bed right now.

But I did not choose this desire.

It was thrust upon me.

And you want to tell me that I am a sinner because of a compulsion God himself placed in me?

I lust because I was destined to lust.






Happy new year, Bro! cheesy
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:37pm On Jan 01, 2017
ratatis:


Happy new year, Bro! cheesy

Ratatata...

Same to you man!

Long time no see.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 7:35am On Jan 04, 2017
Even now, people lust after mannequins and statues. Keep your eyes and your hearts from lusts. Be prepared for the return of the Lord. Stay ready. He is coming.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 1:28pm On Jan 07, 2017
THIRD STAGE OF LUST (THE PLANNING STAGE)
Lust at this stage is given by the acronym below.
L -LOVE
U -UNDER
S -SECRET
T -TERMS

At this stage, a Youth begins to make a plan how to actualize what he/she has been longing to touch, taste or test in his/her heart.

Many youth call it ‘love’ but I call it ‘Love Under Secret Terms’ (lust). At this stage, a male and a female youth that are lusting after each other may begin to behave funny and secretively. They may begin to do things in secret- secret phone calls, secret text messages, secret chats, secret visits when parents are not at home, secret invitations and so on. Even toasting belongs here. It is during this secret stage that many youths roll out plans that take them to the real action (fornication).

Lies are also not too far from Youths engaging in lust at this stage because they need a lot of lies to succeed in, and to cover their secret loves and plans.

Proverb 7:19 tells of a woman, whose husband had travelled, and was planning a ‘secret love’ with a young man she had been lusting after.
17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.
18 Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.
19 For the good man is not at home, he is gone a long journey:

This planning secret love is also sinful because, if you are not checked, it is what you plan that you will carry out as mentioned in Micah 2:1.
Micah 2:1 Woe to them that devise (plan) iniquity, and work evil upon their beds! when the morning is light, they practise it, because it is in the power of their hand.

Micah 2:1 explains the reason many young girls were raped after honouring secret invitations from their ‘so-called-boyfriends’. Their boyfriends planned the rape and carried it out when they see their girlfriends.

The acted drama video below shows a young man that is always engaging 'Love Under Secret Terms' (LUST) with young girls.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hV-INLzV8FU

Any youth who is bent of having a 'secret love' with you will eventually end up in fornication, molestation or rape with you if not checked.

PRAYERS
1. Lord, Jesus Christ, deliver my feet from running to do evil.

2. Cast out the lust out of my eyes by the finger of God.

3. Do not allow me to fall to lust like Adam and Eve

4. Destroy every trap of seduction on my way by the fire of God.

5. Give me the power to flee fornication.


JESUScoming


ashez, DoctorAlien, Paddy247, ojayfrancis, oladipo322, obataokenwa, Ginaz, wandevincent, seuncoded and others that are following the teaching, here is the third stage of Lust.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by Ginaz(f): 2:57pm On Jan 07, 2017
annyplenty:
THIRD STAGE OF LUST (THE PLANNING STAGE)
Lust at this stage is given by the acronym below.
L -LOVE
U -UNDER
S -SECRET
T -TERMS

At this stage, a Youth begins to make a plan how to actualize what he/she has been longing to touch, taste or test in his/her heart.

Many youth call it ‘love’ but I call it ‘Love Under Secret Terms’ (lust). At this stage, a male and a female youth that are lusting after each other may begin to behave funny and secretively. They may begin to do things in secret- secret phone calls, secret text messages, secret chats, secret visits when parents are not at home, secret invitations and so on. Even toasting belongs here. It is during this secret stage that many youths roll out plans that take them to the real action (fornication).

Lies are also not too far from Youths engaging in lust at this stage because they need a lot of lies to succeed in, and to cover their secret loves and plans.

Proverb 7:19 tells of a woman, whose husband had travelled, and was planning a ‘secret love’ with a young man she had been lusting after.
17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.
18 Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.
19 For the good man is not at home, he is gone a long journey:

This planning secret love is also sinful because, if you are not checked, it is what you plan that you will carry out as mentioned in Micah 2:1.
Micah 2:1 Woe to them that devise (plan) iniquity, and work evil upon their beds! when the morning is light, they practise it, because it is in the power of their hand.

Micah 2:1 explains the reason many young girls were raped after honouring secret invitations from their ‘so-called-boyfriends’. Their boyfriends planned the rape and carried it out when they see their girlfriends.

The acted drama video below shows a young man that is always engaging 'Love Under Secret Terms' (LUST) with young girls.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hV-INLzV8FU

Any youth who is bent of having a 'secret love' with you will eventually end up in fornication, molestation or rape with you if not checked.

PRAYERS
1. Lord, Jesus Christ, deliver my feet from running to do evil.

2. Cast out the lust out of my eyes by the finger of God.

3. Do not allow me to fall to lust like Adam and Eve

4. Destroy every trap of seduction on my way by the fire of God.

5. Give me the power to flee fornication.


JESUScoming


ashez, DoctorAlien, Paddy247, ojayfrancis, oladipo322, obataokenwa, Ginaz, wandevincent, seuncoded and others that are following the teaching, here is the third stage of Lust.


Why am I mentioned on topics like this grin.

We lust everyday in our hearts, our prayer point is that God should guild our hearts from sinful thoughts.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 12:18pm On Jan 21, 2017
FOURTH STAGE OF LUST IS COMING.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 9:55pm On Mar 20, 2017

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XAobr62775E&t=48s

OVERCOMING YOUTHFUL SEXUAL LUST, AUDIO MESSAGE
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by yinkeys(m): 10:14pm On Aug 04, 2017
This is probably the main thing that's stopping lots of people from being born again

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Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 8:35am On Aug 08, 2017
yinkeys:
This is probably the main thing that's stopping lots of people from being born again

May God deliver us in Jesus name.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 5:01pm On Sep 28, 2017
Overcome LUST by the power in the blood of Jesus.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 4:48pm On Nov 23, 2017
There is a deliberate plan by satan to hold man captive by the spirit of lust through the abundance of clothes that reveal the sensitive parts of women's bodies.

With your own power, you cannot overcome lust. Submit to the Lord, today. Let Him help you to break the powers of lust.

JESUScoming
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 7:49pm On Mar 02, 2018
Don't be lost to lust. Kill lust before it kills you.

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Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 7:17am On May 20, 2018
Paddy247:
Nice. I'll use the tips given here to curb this my habit of lusting after the opp sex
BTW
If I understood u clearly, are u saying it's a sin to desire material things? Pls shed more light on this.
Tnx

I did not say it is a sin to desire material things but if the material thing is lust after, it may not be good.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by orunto27: 7:58am On May 20, 2018
Thanks Prof.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 6:13pm On Aug 09, 2018
the fourth stage of LUST will be posted very soon.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 4:54pm On Oct 29, 2018
LUST! most men are guilty of Lust! Deal with it now!
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 6:57pm On Jan 18, 2019
THE FOURTH STAGE OF LUST (THE ACTION STAGE)
Lust at this stage is given by the acronym below
L -LURED
U -UNKNOWINGLY into
S -SEXUAL
T -TRAP

This is the action stage. Youths, at this stage, are eventually lured into sexual trap, fornication. Fornication is a sexual trap because 1- most youths are lured into it the way a rat is lured into a trap 2- once, a youth enter into sexual trap of fornication, he/she cannot go out on his/her own, the way a rat that is caught by a trap cannot come out of its own.

Many girls have been lured into this sexual trap with money, recharge card, handset, admission promise, new clothe, a trip to fast food joint and so on, the way a rat is lured into the trap with a piece of fried meat set into the trap.

Jeremiah 5:26
26 For among my people are found wicked men: they lay wait, as he that setteth snares; they set a trap, they catch men.

A youth that is inside the trap of fornication needs Jesus Christ to set him/her free. Run to His feet to deliver you. Unfortunately, most youths that enter the trap of fornication don’t open up.

Excuses and unrepentance are features of youth that are in sexual trap of fornication. Rather than confess and repent from fornication, some will say it was a mistake when they become pregnant (excuse). Some will say they were lured or seduced into it (excuse). This was a similar way Adam and Eve failed to repent but rather gave excuse for eating the forbidden fruit and fell into sin trap. Adam pushed the blame on Eve (excuse) and Eve pushed the blame on the serpent (excuse). Genesis 3:12-13.

Since it is almost impossible for a fornicating youth to come out of the sexual trap on his/her own, that is why scripture charges us not to go near it the way Eve was instructed not to touch the forbidden fruit.

1 Thessalonians 4:3
3For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:

2 Timothy 2:22a Flee also youthful lusts:

I used The acted drama below by 'The Winlos' to show a lady Lured Unknowingly into a Sex Trap

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JiJ-Z8Dbj_0

JESUScoming
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 6:09pm On Mar 29, 2019
The spirit of lust is very subtle like the serpent. Before you know, it has crept into your life again. You must keep fighting it until you overcome.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 7:07am On Apr 04, 2019
If you did not check lust on time, it will lead you to adultery.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 5:32pm On Apr 15, 2019
Dignity of a woman that dress naked is eroding. Fly perches only uncovered food.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 7:51am On May 06, 2019
Flee youthful lust.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 7:26pm On Jun 02, 2019
Do away with masturbations.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 6:52am On Jul 23, 2019
MAKE COVENANTS WITH YOUR EYES. DON'T LET THEM SEND YOU TO HELL.

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Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by timtrader(m): 11:26am On Jul 23, 2019
Ginaz:
That is why God said you should marry instead when overcome with lust. But actually, the world is at its end, lust is the centre of the world.

Man is sinful by nature cos of sin, it takes more than the Holy Spirit to tame it. We pray for God's wisdom and grace to overcome.

I think it takes the help of the HolySpirit, not more than the Holy Spirit.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 7:04pm On Aug 30, 2019
timtrader:


I think it takes the help of the HolySpirit, not more than the Holy Spirit.

Man cannot do anything unless hy His help but he must choose to cooperate with the Holy Spirit to helphim.
Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 8:40am On Oct 17, 2019
The followings are few of the negative consequences of RAPE

victims may develop low self esteem
victims may go into depression
victims may find it difficult to trust other opposite sex , henceforth
victims may find it difficult to enjoy sex, afterwards
unwanted pregnancy
sexually transmitted diseases
hiv transmission
victims may be having occasional nightmare
occasional flash back of the experience
victims may begin to show suicidal tendencies
some may develop sexual disorders
victims may start to live in fear especially if lonely with opposite
society may stigmatize them
they may become over-protecive of their children
they may develop emotional trauma.

Stand against Rape

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Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 7:20pm On Dec 20, 2019
Kill lust before lust makes you lost in hell.

JESUS is coming. Stay ready.

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Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 12:07pm On Feb 01, 2020
L - Looking

U - Uncontrollably at

S - Sexual

T -Targets

What is the sexual target you can't stop looking at in the opposite sex ? Let God deliver you today from lust of the eyes

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Re: Overcoming Youthful Sexual Lusts by annyplenty(m): 5:57pm On Mar 12, 2020
The part 2 of this teaching titled 'OVERCOMING YOUTHFUL SEXUAL LUST AND FORNICATION, PART 2' is coming.

Book a copy by sending an email to jesuscoming@yahoo.com

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