Hi all matured, romance experienced, love gurus and people of goodwill to humanity, i am drived unresistably to seek advice from well meaning individuals on a very personal pressing issue.

i will be very brief and not to bore anybody who will care to read and also share useful ideas.

i have this complaint from almost all the girls i have dated and that is "baby you are not romantic" "baby thats not how to kiss" "baby you are not romancing me well" "please darling, i need more 'pettings' from you and now presently the one that pushed me running to nairaland- " please (called my name) "i need only a man who will pet me like my dad". this last statement is from a girl who i have chased more than 1 yr (very unusual of me), a medical student, rich and beautiful, infact i dream i end up marrying her, it will be an honour to me.

please someone should give tips on petting ladies and driving them crazy for those who value that. i really need to step up my game on this..thank yu.






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one more..mods/lalasticlala, if you push this to front page i will remember 'azonto dance' bcause i need lots of opinions to build a decision and next step to take ..thank you

If u spend all your years tryn to please a woman, she will disregard u .

Ask her what her language of love is. What romance means to her, Sometimes we need to know our partner's view of love to know how to show it

To bae I have no answer, they don't understand the term "satisfaction" some don't even know what they want.

But for a person to be a wife, certain level of maturity would have been reached and probably saw your weaknesses before saying "I do". So for your wife, study her love language..maybe touch, maybe being alone with her, maybe taking her out etc, just pay attention to her mostly and be there for her as much as you know, you will perfect it with time.

Alondra:
Ask her what her language of love is. What romance means to her, Sometimes we need to know our partner's view of love to know how to show it

wats urs?

The last tym I checked, women are the most confused creatures on planet earth, cus they dnt actually know wat dey really need. Only a fool waste his tym trying to find out wat a woman wants in lyf.


Howeva, get money and being romantic wil be added onto you.

Let's be frank! We are in Nigeria, not Paris, US, UK or other reasonable part of the world. Most Nigerian girls see rich guys as romantic, not the ignorant and pompous once but those who have the money and time to make her feel special.
Every girl want to feel special, they want you to show them that they are worth more than they think they are worth.

TIME and Money are the best gift you can give a girl.

dingbang:
If u spend all your years tryn to please a woman, she will disregard u .

hmmm....i have always thinks like this. thank yu

gr8cany:



i have always thinks like this. thank yu

good. Just continue being u. Even Hitler had a wife...

Alondra:
Ask her what her language of love is. What romance means to her, Sometimes we need to know our partner's view of love to know how to show it

ok, she said, i should knw how to pet a lady and be romantic to her..i will ask her again. thank you

RadicallyBlunt:
To bae I have no answer, they don't understand the term "satisfaction" some don't even know what they want.

But for a person to be a wife, certain level of maturity would have been reached and probably saw your weaknesses before saying "I do". So for your wife, study her love language..maybe touch, maybe being alone with her, maybe taking her out etc, just pay attention to her mostly and be there for her as much as you know, you will perfect it with time.

thank you, i'm sure i do all these except the pay attention all time becos i'm always busy

KingsJohnson:
The last tym I checked, women are the most confused creatures on planet earth, cus they dnt actually know wat dey really need. Only a fool waste his tym trying to find out wat a woman wants in lyf.


Howeva, get money and being romantic wil be added onto you.

just afraid of loosing this present girl. originally this is my mindset

Bros, most women don't know what they want
They are the most unclear human being
Very confusing people
I don't really understand them self

wydmag:
Let's be frank! We are in Nigeria, not Paris, US, UK or other reasonable part of the world. Most Nigerian girls see rich guys as romantic, not the ignorant and pompous once but those who have the money and time to make her feel special.
Every girl want to feel special, they want you to show them that they are worth more than they think they are worth.

TIME and Money are the best gift you can give a girl.

noted! thank you sir

seunny4lif:
Bros, most women don't know what they want
They are the most unclear human being
Very confusing people
I don't really understand them self

hmm..ok sir

gr8cany:




just afraid of loosing this present girl. originally this is my mindset

Believe me broda, d fastest way 2 lose a gal is to show her dat u love her.

If you really wants to keep dat gal, be vague and be a challenge to her and she wil be d way running after you. But show her dat u love her and treat her lyk everyoda guys she met and u wil regret ever being a man

KingsJohnson:


Believe me broda, d fastest way 2 lose a gal is to show her dat u love her.

If you really wants to keep dat gal, be vague and be a challenge to her and she wil be d way running after you. But show her dat u love her and treat her lyk everyoda guys she met and u wil regret ever being a man

hmmmm..

Women and confusion

It baffles me why young nigerian men/boys spend their scarce time searching for how to please a girl. Your wealth, power etc can conquer all the pretty ladies but cant get u love from anybody.live with ladies but dont live for them.SERVE HUMANITY!

HVACSpecialist:
It baffles me why young nigerian men/boys spend their scarce time searching for how to please a girl. Your wealth, power etc can conquer all the pretty ladies but cant get u love from anybody.live with ladies but dont live for them.SERVE HUMANITY!

why you still dey baffle bro, just make your opinion...we all has a life to lead. render your advice and dont feel so special..gracia