Sexxkillz:
Very bad idea. . .

You guys will break up very soon. Things can never be the same. You're about to find out firsthand, why an ex should remain an ex, and in the past.

tataiwo09:
Hello everyone...here is how the thing happened, kindly advice me.....(2014)two years ago I was in a 4years relationship, around December dt same year, an issue cooked up and we had to break up...since then we have been friends..but of recent we came together and decided to ve a reunion and start afresh...today is the third day we have had the reunion..but I'm still yet to be free like before with the lady, so also her, she has not been free to me, can u please advice how I could handle that and progress with her..we know we really love eachother

optimusmind:


4years without marriage, she should collect gratuity. SurSurely, she should is good enough to be your girlfriend but not good enough to be your wife. Or is it puppy kids love?
Why not move on?

tataiwo09:

Yepa...since we had d breakup...I've never seen somebody I love lik her...and she also said same

tataiwo09:

Not puppy kids love to me...she's presently 24years...why is it not good to be my wife? Share me ur opinion sir

optimusmind:


Dating a woman for four years, meaning you Know enough about her to make her your instant wife, yet you still want to date some more?
What do you want to find out again?
It's why I say she's a girl friend matTrial, otherwise your thread woukd have read I want to marry my four years ago girl friend.
Get it?

tataiwo09:


Dated for 4years as at 2014 when we had d breakup...

Sexxkillz:
You've never seen, because you wanted to believe you would not see anyone else like her.

You both cannot say you haven't seen any other person like yourselves, and there has been no spark for 3 days. You broke up for 2 years, and not for 2 weeks.

i'll like both of you to stop lying to yourselves. At this stage, you are both forcing yourselves to feel anything for each other, and once a relationship gets to that stage, it's dead and buried. . . Take yourself as an example. You wouldn't be asking total strangers what to do if it was going to work out. You would have already known.

My mind works somehow, and i can categorically state that, that girl returned to you because she just left a relationship and she needed closure. A woman's brain works faster than a man's. A woman is master of emotions and can multitask so efficiently, you'll never know she was doing anything in the first place. You are just a rebound for the christmas and new year period. She'll be the first to suggest a breakup because she had it planned all along. She feels nothing for you. . . You're just like cotton bud used to clean an itching ear. You would soon be thrown out, unceremoniously.

She's smarter than you. . .

optimusmind:

And you stayed friends with her meaning you've known her for 6years and you still want to date some more?

tataiwo09:


Yes, u don't buy the idea?

optimusmind:

All I am saying is after 6years and you are not thinking marigage, allow the lady find someone serious....
There's nothing special about dating a girl for a long time without marriage, to me is mere childish display of myopicness and waste of fruitful youth and time.
Cuz in that wasted four years, who knows she was supposed to meet a life partner, but cuz of you, none.


P. S.
My pastor friend said he knows The spirit operating, it's called spirit "block their chances "

tataiwo09:
Hello everyone...here is how the thing happened, kindly advice me.....(2014)two years ago I was in a 4years relationship, around December dt same year, an issue cooked up and we had to break up...since then we have been friends..but of recent we came together and decided to ve a reunion and start afresh...today is the third day we have had the reunion..but I'm still yet to be free like before with the lady, so also her, she has not been free to me, can u please advice how I could handle that and progress with her..we know we really love eachother

You went back to your vomit Very shameful...

tataiwo09:

I got u, she's 24 and still in school...if she wud think of marriage..dt wud be next 2years

optimusmind:

Keep her as your friend if you wantt to marry her.
Make her free with you so you can see her true color.
As for dating move on.
Stop planning your self in her future, stop blocking her chances.
And who said she can marry while in school?

tataiwo09:


She's not ready to marry while in school. Moreover I'm not ready too

tataiwo09:
Hello everyone...here is how the thing happened, kindly advice me.....(2014)two years ago I was in a 4years relationship, around December dt same year, an issue cooked up and we had to break up...since then we have been friends..but of recent we came together and decided to ve a reunion and start afresh...today is the third day we have had the reunion..but I'm still yet to be free like before with the lady, so also her, she has not been free to me, can u please advice how I could handle that and progress with her..we know we really love eachother

optimusmind:

Why not try others, keep her as your friend, I'd you really want to marry her, you'd make it back

tataiwo09:

Really want to marry her...sud be ready hopefully as at the time she wil be done in school...