optimusmind:


May the forces be with you.

Forces?

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tataiwo09:


Forces?

If you are a Christian, the force is Christ, if you are a Muslim, Allah, if you are a free thinker, Jedi forces

Zeaman at d school of thought.

See opinions Abeg. Chaiiii

optimusmind:


4years without marriage, she should collect gratuity. SurSurely, she should is good enough to be your girlfriend but not good enough to be your wife. Or is it puppy kids love?
Why not move on?

You can't say that, love does not die that easily especially when it is true

Tajbol4splend:


You can't say that, love does not die that easily especially when it is true

Love is an overrated idea. True love wluld love again, after a few months.
The reason why matched make marriages last more,(as we see with our parents) it's Becuase their parents take time to look at other rational qualities in a lady before they choose her.
Now a Nigga would be shouting love, after a year he is sleeping around like a panda without a home

optimusmind:

Love is an overrated idea. True love wluld love again, after a few months.
The reason why matched make marriages last more,(as we see with our parents) it's Becuase their parents take time to look at other rational qualities in a lady before they choose her.
Now a Nigga would be shouting love, after a year he is sleeping around like a panda without a home

As we have during our time, so did they during theirs too, some of them also suffered what some are suffering now, not everything was perfect then too

Tajbol4splend:


As we have during our time, so did they during theirs too, some of them also suffered what some are suffering now, not everything was perfect then too

Now is more, the rate of divorce is almost esponential.
You think all these people didn't think it was true love?

optimusmind:

Now is more, the rate of divorce is almost esponential.
You think all these people didn't think it was true love?

Yes they did, true love dies too, it only takes time

Tajbol4splend:


Yes they did, true love dies too, it only takes time

Then why base a life time encounter on something that dies?
Truth doesn't die in the real sense, if something ceases to be true after sometime, then it was never true. For instance it was true that the earth was flat for a thousand years plus, now they discovered it is not flat but spherical, was the earth ever flat at all? No, it wasn't
Therefore if a love that was true dies, then zurely, it was never true.

Is it better to look for quality in a lady or man, that can sustain a marriage instead of love?

optimusmind:

Then why base a life time encounter on something that dies?
Truth doesn't die in the real sense, if something ceases to be true after sometime, then it was never true. For instance it was true that the earth was flat for a thousand years plus, now they discovered it is not flat but spherical, was the earth ever flat at all? No, it wasn't
Therefore if a love that was true dies, then zurely, it was never true.

Is it better to look for quality in a lady or man, that can sustain a marriage instead of love?

True love dies, but it does not just die, something kills it, people kill it with bad acts, continuously and incessantly, it's like a fortified wall, if something is used to hit it, it becomes weaker with time and if this hitting does not cease, it finally breaks, if these bad acts don't appear, the love remains but if they continue, someone else's heart is broken and the time now comes to heal, to forget the love one used to have for the this person. True love exists bro, you may not have felt it but if you are fortunate, you may. Our parents u said that chose other reasons as basis of their relationship also fell in love too, careers might bring them together but they also fell in love in the course, being together professionally breeds wanting to be together romantically, it wasn't only then that it happened, it still happens too, there are people who are brought together by professions, they can love too, God does not create a human who can't love romantically, some people say they can't but they don't know, it is because it hasn't happened to them, so they see it as defunct, imaginary, but it exists, it does bro.

Tajbol4splend:



True love dies, but it does not just die, something kills it, people kill it with bad acts, continuously and incessantly, it's like a fortified wall, if something is used to hit it, it becomes weaker with time and if this hitting does not cease, it finally breaks, if these bad acts don't appear, the love remains but if they continue, someone else's heart is broken and the time now comes to heal, to forget the love one used to have for the this person. True love exists bro, you may not have felt it but if you are fortunate, you may. Our parents u said that chose other reasons as basis of their relationship also fell in love too, careers might bring them together but they also fell in love in the course, being together professionally breeds wanting to be together romantically, it wasn't only then that it happened, it still happens too, there are people who are brought together by professions, they can love too, God does not create a human who can't love romantically, some people say they can't but they don't know, it is because it hasn't happened to them, so they see it as defunct, imaginary, but it exists, it does bro.

So let me get this straight, on top the true love, they would still be treating you bad and breaking your heart?
Why not look for someone who treats you right, it's not true love o, but it is sustainable.

The question is do you want her to be free with you? If yes,Take her out. maybe to the beach or anywhere that doesn't concern food so both of can play like a babies. Don't bring a dull moment for that day, do funny things you both do better bring battle sweet memories cos we ladies love sweet memories. Good luck!

I can relate with this i also quitted a close to 5yrs rltnship two years ago,but the difference is I never remain as friends. And going back to her is because you never let go because she was your first love.I don't buy the idea of going back to her its not making sense.

Blessograo:
The question is do you want her to be free with you? If yes,Take her out. maybe to the beach or anywhere that doesn't concern food so both of can play like a babies. Don't bring a dull moment for that day, do funny things you both do better bring battle sweet memories cos we ladies love sweet memories. Good luck!

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