hello everyone,please i would like to know if this is a normal thing or something abnormal..
I used to have a girlfriend i once loved so much,but we got separated when I had an accident on my way back to school years back..Glory to God I am very much ok now..
I don't know what to do to make my relationship last longer than it has always been..I am tired of this pattern of life,i am scared it could affect my home when i get married.Please what do I do?...

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Bros, u need prayers ooo

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Pray and believe cause out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh but don't forget that this is coming from a more confused guy.

Firstly... Have u taken your time to decipher what could be the problem? Is it that u lose interest easily and let go? Or is it that the ladies do things u can't tolerate.

Secondly...How old are you? Sorry if that was too forward.

Thirdly...How was your growing up like? Was it hostile? No friend? Less love?

Fourtly... After answering these questions honestly, u can take it up from there.

Happy new year.

My opinion though, I think it's normal, may be you're not dating the right girl, look inwards, I'm sure you date on physical criteria that's y the relationship does not last.
Don't be worried when you find the right one at the right time it will last

zadok60:
hello everyone,please i would like to know if this is a normal thing or something abnormal..
I used to have a girlfriend i once loved so much,but we got separated when I had an accident on my way back to school years back..Glory to God I am very much ok now..
I don't know what to do to make my relationship last longer than it has always been..I am tired of this pattern of life,i am scared it could affect my home when i get married.Please what do I do?...

Jodha:
My opinion though, I think it's normal, may be you're not dating the right girl, look inwards, I'm sure you date on physical criteria that's y the relationship does not last.
Don't be worried when you find the right one at the right time it will last

i really appreciate this..Thank you very much.I pray i find the right one then

Johntitus:
Pray and believe cause out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh but don't forget that this is coming from a more confused guy.

now i think i am more confused

Mskrisx:
Firstly... Have u taken your time to decipher what could be the problem? Is it that u lose interest easily and let go? Or is it that the ladies do things u can't tolerate.

Secondly...How old are you? Sorry if that was too forward.

Thirdly...How was your growing up like? Was it hostile? No friend? Less love?

Fourtly... After answering these questions honestly, u can take it up from there.

Happy new year.

i grew up as an extrovert and have lots of friends,always the funny type.
I'm also in my mid 20s.I sometimes get scared of losing them and i'd end up losing them,perhaps one little mistake from any party..I just find it difficult to love them the way i ought to..

#best new year wishes to you!

4 months and u r complaining....mine doesn't last up to a month...b4 i get tired of the r/ship...maybe r/ship isn't 4 me anyways...that's why I'm trying so hard 2 stay outta r/ship till i figure out d prob...I've been single for abt 4 months now...because I'm tired of hurting d pretty innocent once....

so maybe u should stay outta relationship 4 now so u can work on urself....

Lol

bigcp:
4 months and u r complaining....mine doesn't last up to a month...b4 i get tired of the r/ship...maybe r/ship isn't 4 me anyways...that's why I'm trying so hard 2 stay outta r/ship till i figure out d prob...I've been single for abt 4 months now...because I'm tired of hurting d pretty innocent once....

so maybe u should stay outta relationship 4 now so u can work on urself....

How do i work on myself?....
I really want to know please

Oh!

zadok60:

How do i work on myself?....
I really want to know please

stay single for sometime and figure out what's wrong with u n why is ur r/ship going down easily....only u can figure it out urself...by staying single 4 sometime....good luck

The poster above just said it all..

ramdris:
Oh!

Not everything is for granted

Jodha:
My opinion though, I think it's normal, may be you're not dating the right girl, look inwards, I'm sure you date on physical criteria that's y the relationship does not last.
Don't be worried when you find the right one at the right time it will last

Really true