Office romance: Please help me, what should I do

I recently started a quiet (secret) relationship with one of my colleague at work. Now there is this newly employed girl who is crushing on me,

The greenlight is so bright that everyone is surprise how fast we've gotten close, (not my doing though), which is due to longer time she spends around me, I have been trying to avoid her but that doesn't seems to work. My girlfriend at work now is already getting jealous.

I have to be sincere here, the new girl is very hot and I'm finding it difficult to resist her.

What should I do?
Please is there anyone who has been in this shoe (dating 2 girls in the same place)?

It is advisable

Note: I'm not a player and I'm not super handsome. I started the first relationship due to some moves the first girl played on me (and if I had ignored she would have thought I'm not man enough).

Please advice a brother.

Mature advice please.

Thanks a lot for your good contributions

Kwantinue

since you said matured advice please,

oyah take this

Quit the job, thank me later

EVERY person seating in my position in the office, be removed by FIRE in 2017...


e be like say someone prayer is about to be answered..



continue

Juz Bang her ...that's what the "green lights" for anyway...

Where do you work

Tell her off. How hard is that?
Meanwhile is she aware of your relationship status?
If not, tell her.

sack letter awaits you brother .. don't just let kasala burst . you want advice .? pay for it

My brother leave the job and run ooo. Your village people have found you

I dont know how to advise you.

All i know is, office romance does'nt end well in the long run.

Becarefull and face your work

Just handle it urself, cuz we nl(s) don't jist give a fuuuck anymore

I dont know how to advise you.

All i know is, office romance does'nt usually end well in the long run.

Becarefull and face your work

DO THE DO

Pretty girls are unending. Be contented. If you dump the girl for the new one, one day you may still have to dump her for a prettier one and the circle continue

Wahala in.the.new.year.

i don't buy this story but if its true then you better not dear step to that other girl if you are not ready to face the consequences that lie in wait for you.

By the way what makes you think the new girl is into you? what has she said or done to make you think that? (be as specific as possible)

You don't combine business and pleasure.

A place of work is a of seriousness, and not a player ground, unless you have got a plan B where you will lean on after the sack letter.


I guess you are matured enough. Tell both girls individually to keep the relationship off work. This way you can avoid jealousy that's likely to exist between them, while you play mr lover boy with the one you like most codedly.

Again, don't combine business and pleasure

I've exhausted my bleeps. Don't have any to give now.

You must be a fine boy without pimples.kontinue,your awards are coming to ;Dyou soon

IamLEGEND1:
Quit your job.

that's kinda cool yhu know and it will resolve d bulls!t

Truly speaking, you not a man.

Non of all this was out of your own will.

You followed the first just to show ur dickhead as man enough then d second out of lust.

Shay u see your life

Abeg commot for here.... Somebody help me with that pishure

TrapQueen77:



Juz Bang her ...that's what the "green lights" for anyway...

U forget say u use female for gender?
Check Ya gender status on Ya profile

Hmmmmm. Office romance does not end well bro.. Bt if u can improvise, do it.. If not. Bro end d both sharply before u cast...

Take her out, seduce her into entering a room with you and tell her you got a gf and if that won't be a problem btw u two, this is when you know if it's your Dickson she wants or relationship, if it's former, act like airplane and if it's latter, she can go to hell.

Pick one, double dating is not healthy.

U can date the two ,but on code, i repeat on code

Bro run d 2 packages Abeg. d day e cast e go cast, u move on...nothing still spoil. Gudluck

ozohtony:

U forget say u use female for gender?
Check Ya gender status on Ya profile

And so?are all Females can't be outspoken in this forum?

You have created a hell on this earth for yourself. Those women are going to make things unbearable. If I were you I would transfer.
Office romances are not good idea, wait until your so called girlfriend starts spilling all your secrets when you upset her. I won't call you stupid but your actions are not very clever. This is self inflicted misery.

@op, Does the saying "Don't sh!t where you eat" mean anything to you? Dating a neighbour, someone in thesame street, most especially a co-worker is true reflection of this saying, Trust me on the long run, it not worth the stress, take it from someone currently in simmilar situatuion.