I spent the holidays at big brother's house. I noticed an uneasy calm from the moment I set foot in the house. I wanted to ask bro what was wrong but I decided to mind my biz. They were not talking even into the new year. On Monday I heard yells and shouts so I came out to find out what was going on.

Apparently, his wife is angry because he sends 60k monthly to our kid bro in school, and 30k monthly to her own brother. She wants him to send 60k to both of them or reduce our bro's share to 45k and also send 45k to her bro. In anger, my big bro said he is not responsible for her brother, that he is just helping out. She called him biased and stingy and shiit. Me I kept my mouth shut because anything I say would be interpreted wrongly by her.

To me I think its wrong to compare your husband's brothers to yours. I pray my wife doesn't do that cuz I will stop helping altogether.

A combination of both. Her brother is not his responsibility period

I support the woman. Your brother should send 45k each to them. Her family is also his responsibility so far they are married.

Catalin:
I support the woman. Your brother should send 45k each to them. Her family is also his responsibility so far they are married.

are you for real?

superstarDikk:
are you for real?

Yes.

Catalin:
Yes.

I don't know what to say to you. I'm tempted to call you names but lemme respect myself. DEUCES

She is both unreasonable and ungrateful. Her brother is not her husband's responsibility.

IamLEGEND1:

'not giving a Bleep' means not opening the thread. 'Not giving a fu_ck' is not reading the post. 'Not giving a fu_ck' is not commenting on the thread. So bro its either you give a f_uck and is tryna hide it or you just a plain hypocrite

lemme them deal with their sh*t

She's even lucky the man sends money to her brother abi she does not have parents again abi when did her husband become the benefactor for her whole family.

Catalin:
I support the woman. Your brother should send 45k each to them. Her family is also his responsibility so far they are married.

So that's what marriage should look like in your own estimations?

Catalin:
I support the woman. Your brother should send 45k each to them. Her family is also his responsibility so far they are married.

Somebody please check the gender of this person in respect to this very topic? ¿

Some ladies and reasoning.... Una know Na

superstarDikk:
I spent the holidays at big brother's house. I noticed an uneasy calm from the moment I set foot in the house. I wanted to ask bro what was wrong but I decided to mind my biz. They were not talking even into the new year. On Monday I heard yells and shouts so I came out to find out what was going on.

Apparently, his wife is angry because he sends 60k monthly to our kid bro in school, and 30k monthly to her own brother. She wants him to send 60k to both of them or reduce our bro's share to 45k and also send 45k to her bro. In anger, my big bro said he is not responsible for her brother, that he is just helping out. She called him biased and stingy and shiit. Me I kept my mouth shut because anything I say would be interpreted wrongly by her.

To me I think its wrong to compare your husband's brothers to yours. I pray my wife doesn't do that cuz I will stop helping altogether.

Interesting, what's his wife's contribution to the household income. (not actual figures)

Cos I don't wanna believe a housewife, petty job (income) telling the bread winner to take her bro like his own bro.

LorDBolton:


Interesting, what's his wife's contribution to the household income. (not actual figures)

Cos I don't wanna believe a housewife, petty job (income) telling the bread winner to take her bro like his own bro.

nothing. She doesn't work

Catalin:
I support the woman. Your brother should send 45k each to them. Her family is also his responsibility so far they are married.

And what should be the wife's responsibilities to her in-laws??

Catalin:
I support the woman. Your brother should send 45k each to them. Her family is also his responsibility so far they are married.

taaa...says who, is it writting inside bible or quran abi their is law that i must hlp my wife brother, dnt compare them at all my own brother come 1st.

IamLEGEND1:

bruuuuuuh

Some ladies and their fish brains this days can send family packing.

IamLEGEND1:

Get use to making sense. U didn't make any bleep of sense at all. Though I noticed ur presence.

superstarDikk:
I don't know what to say to you. I'm tempted to call you names but lemme respect myself. DEUCES

I have the right to air my own opinion.

Catalin:
I have the right to air my own opinion.

yup you do. Sorry

Catalin:
I support the woman. Your brother should send 45k each to them. Her family is also his responsibility so far they are married.

That thing u call a brain, are u sure it ain't frozen?

Catalin:
I support the woman. Your brother should send 45k each to them. Her family is also his responsibility so far they are married.

You must be a joker.... she is even lucky that he is helping her brother, let her add extra to it and give her bro. I married the sister, not the whole family.
Generally, when a married man donate to others outside his immediate family( wife and children), whatever they get from him is a privilege and not a benefit or right/ entitlement.

Catalin:
I have the right to air my own opinion.

Here she is still talking...

Somebody give me that picture let's throw her out of here.
....oya commot for here

[s]

Catalin:
I have the right to air my own opinion.

[/s] your opinion stinks

kodded:
[s][/s] your opinion stinks

Deal with it.

Catalin:
I support the woman. Your brother should send 45k each to them. Her family is also his responsibility so far they are married.

You need a comprehensive tutorial on shame.

superstarDikk:
nothing. She doesn't work

Then her entitlement mentality shocks me...

Anyway I suggest u stay out of it.

she is right and wrong if you look at it from both sides
1. he is sending money to his brother - when did he become his brother's father?
2. he is sending money to her brother - when did he become their father
3. he is taking money away from his family which can go to their own home and kids
4. once he marries her they become family and you should treat your family equally sometimes


i have a question though, poster does the wife work and contribute to the family income?

LorDBolton:

Then her entitlement mentality shocks me...
Anyway I suggest u stay out of it.

thanks bro