Veracity of the past can never be clear to the listener, so it is very hard to conceive. No be abortion she had? Who knows if she is a lovepeddle? It is very difficult.

rachealfst:
Hi everyone,

Let's rub minds together.

What will you do as a Lady if you are in Pamilerin's shoes. Will you come out clean?


Guys, how will you take the news, is that the end of the relationship? or you'll ignore the past and move on with her.


Let's hear your view and please be realistic.

If I were to be Pamilerin I would come out clean and wouldn't mind the consequences. Que sera sera.....

I am only sitting on the fence *being indifferent*

rachealfst:
I don't get you. You want Pamilerin to keep the secret from Daniel?

Atayis:
Your advise is good but it cannot be used for pamilerin. Why? Don't forget that she is not getting younger and can you allow her to ve another heartbreak? Daniel can go if she tells him because no man will want a lady that had abortion. How will he know that her womb is still ok or how many times she has terminated pregancy? Hence, she is in dilemma, why, if he knows before wedding by himself, he will divorce her, and invariably, if he knows after wedding, she will become a trust of betrayal.

so you are saying she shouldn't disclose her past. that's not a good idea. Daniel has asked for transparency and if she refuses to let him know about the abortion part is really bad. It might tell on her later in the future, what if they marry and pamilerin is unable to conceive?.

then Daniel now happens to know Tunde, or the doctor and nurses involves in the abortion. what do you think will be pamilerin fate. Daniel will never forgive her, even if he forgives her, he will never trust her completely again. because he once gave her a chance to open up but she conceal the most important secret.
let her open up please, what will be will be.


we still have some good guys outside that will accept and forgive their spouse's past, abortion or no abortion.

haven't you heard about guys who has never been married, that takes a widow or divorce woman who has 2 or more issues as wife.

the most important thing is for us to marry d bone of our bone and d flesh of our flesh.

what if God wants to open pamilerin eyes through this situation to see the kind of guy Daniel is truly is.
yes he is a sweet and caring guy, but no one knows his actual mind

Nyc update sis ride on

Oya oooo

sunshine46:

I was given same o wonder what we did to warrant that

Can't comprehend if a*u*n*t*y s*p*a*m*b*o*t is now jellos or something... I quoted you yesterday to help me give a fitting reply to a guy who said you and I should go to the altar or shrine (imagine) as my creative juice was on holiday. That was all I typed o. The next thing fiam! I am tired jarey

Seun you need to check that nonsense thing you call a s*p*a*m*b*o*t o. It's head is far from correct

I know that the best thing for her is confession,But, according to Barigo Diop 'what eyes will watch our mouth without laughter. It is easier said than done. Hmmm, i don't know what EAR That will hear it because it is inaudible. Ok, let rachealfst bring it coming cos she is the only oracle to consult

sexymamatee:


so you are saying she shouldn't disclose her past. that's not a good idea. Daniel has asked for transparency and if she refuses to let him know about the abortion part is really bad. It might tell on her later in the future, what if they marry and pamilerin is unable to conceive?.

then Daniel now happens to know Tunde, or the doctor and nurses involves in the abortion. what do you think will be pamilerin fate. Daniel will never forgive her, even if he forgives her, he will never trust her completely again. because he once gave her a chance to open up but she conceal the most important secret.
let her open up please, what will be will be.


we still have some good guys outside that will accept and forgive their spouse's past, abortion or no abortion.

haven't you heard about guys who has never been married, that takes a widow or divorce woman who has 2 or more issues as wife.

the most important thing is for us to marry d bone of our bone and d flesh of our flesh.

what if God wants to open pamilerin eyes through this situation to see the kind of guy Daniel is truly is.
yes he is a sweet and caring guy, but no one knows his actual mind

left for me I think she should open up to him bcuz keep it secret will eat u alive .....

rachealfst:
Hi everyone,

Let's rub minds together.

What will you do as a Lady if you are in Pamilerin's shoes. Will you come out clean?


Guys, how will you take the news, is that the end of the relationship? or you'll ignore the past and move on with her.


Let's hear your view and please be realistic.

i so hate the "being transparent/open relationship that i'd never try to fit in 'em shoes.....but since you asked,I'D STILL MOVE ON WITH HER BUT DEPENDS ON THE GRAVITY OF THE 'OFFENCE'(abortion) ,SO FAR,NO 'vital stuff 'IS DAMAGED

marvwhite:
wait first o ,we quarell before? Abeg if we quarrel,nor vex(i nor even know if na me find trouble.) but you know say the guy when marry Buhari pikin na one hundred thousand naira he pay?(i stand to be corrected) ....but i would do anything for Recheal ##run outa thread going to money lender

Guy dis is too much, letz kidnap her, am solidly behind u.

It is adviceable for her to tell him everything, it won't b good If he finds out elsewhere instead of it coming from her..if he is for her no matter what anybody tell him about her he will stick with her and love her still.thanks for breakfast and lunch ma remaining dinner and dessert

sirOrubebe:
Can't comprehend if a*u*n*t*y s*p*a*m*b*o*t is now jellos or something... I quoted you yesterday to help me give a fitting reply to a guy who said you and I should go to the altar or shrine (imagine) as my creative juice was on holiday. That was all I typed o. The next thing fiam! I am tired jarey

Seun you need to check that nonsense thing you call a s*p*a*m*b*o*t o. It's head is far from correct

who's d yeye guy that said that,he wants to throw a birthday party at d shrine ni...we usually don't honour such invitations

Goldenprinz:
Guy dis is too much, letz kidnap her, am solidly behind u.

that aint an option.... I'd pay up 'ghen ghen'

rachealfst:
Chicken change! and you are crying silently. Did you just say money lenders?lol

but you see
"full trailler of yam",

"a million naira for 'chop chop' "

"dubai thingy"

and other stuff......but you day forget say na "BUHARI TIME" we day?

rachealfst:
Me av been looking for you since. Welcome on board.

tnx dear,now am fully bck.

i will rather say the truth i hate lying about my past say d truth so dat u can be free wt ur man she only had an abortion which we all knw is bad Mr Daniel can never leave her bcus of her past, everyone has a past u knw since he love her, her past can never affect her n she will pray about d rest

rachealfst:
Hi everyone,

Let's rub minds together.

What will you do as a Lady if you are in Pamilerin's shoes. Will you come out clean?


Guys, how will you take the news, is that the end of the relationship? or you'll ignore the past and move on with her.


Let's hear your view and please be realistic.

Its better to be clean now, than regret it matter. if he loves U, he will move past it.

siralabai:
If I were to be Pamilerin I would come out clean and wouldn't mind the consequences. Que sera sera.....

....easier said than done but I'm with you

Thanks for the dedication..... Rachealfst...
To the question, The best thing would be a lady coming out clean for a guy, particularly if what they share is strong most times it might seem hard but at the end of the day "what happens if the secret comes to the open...." I think a broken relationship is far far more better than a failed marriage or divorce marriage"

I suggest and advice that she should let Daniel into her life by telling him all he needs to know about her, if a guy loves u the matter any issus or short comings, he will stand by urside.
what i hate most is lies from the one i love, if am in daniel shoes,i will hate her if i eventually hears it from another mouth first.

my dear don't b scare of ur past, let it all out....if he is the one he will stay

wow,thanks for the dedication. Daniela should not fear now because Daniel will even take a bullet for her.

Maryclaire1:
It is adviceable for her to tell him everything, it won't b good If he finds out elsewhere instead of it coming from her..if he is for her no matter what anybody tell him about her he will stick with her and love her still.thanks for breakfast and lunch ma remaining dinner and dessert

U"ve spoken well

if dey keep am n d husband knw frm sum1 else it will be a disaster

Johnsown1:

U"ve spoken well

Thanks

Maryclaire1:
Thanks

Ur welcome pretty

rachealfst:
You would have.....what?
Oya come and complete the sentence.
BTW that ring make sense o. Pls don't collect it back.lol

I have to because he has beta one

rachealfst:
Hi everyone,

Let's rub minds together.

What will you do as a Lady if you are in Pamilerin's shoes. Will you come out clean?


Guys, how will you take the news, is that the end of the relationship? or you'll ignore the past and move on with her.


Let's hear your view and please be realistic.

since d abortion didnt affect her womb....who cares

Daniella honey,please tell Daniel everything including the abortion,I know its not easy, but if he truly loves you, he would let go of everything.
If you should hide anything from him and he later get to know,dont you think you would lose the trust he has in you?Don't you think knowing later, esp from an outside source will also reduce the love he has for you?
He has opened his heart and mind to you and has given you the chance to do the same,think wisely girl.


Tunde,stop calling my baby if you dont want me to swear for you.Devil's angel.

Sis Rachealfst,thank you,God bless you.I like the way you update frequently... Kizzez

Kiss ke, am kissed starved here and ur trowing kisses to rachealfst, Na 21 ysars oooo, azk chidimma

Telling Daniel is the best solution, she still live in the guilt of the abortion that is why she is scared. who can tell if Mr Paul or Daniel has met someone from her past who is downloading her info to them fast fast! think about it miss