kenonze:


I hope u know the difference between orphanage and IDP camps?

In my state we have five star orphanages.
They never lack materials from WHO, UNICEF and reputable NGOs.
The social workers there are professionals.
Was of the opinion that Edo state should have one.

My dear, u don't generalize so quickly. Try and loosen up a little.

lusen:
this is so heartbreaking. May God be with the family.

alezzy13:


no mind the ignorant lady. Come to David Osunde foundation in Edo state, you'll easily mistake it for a three star hotel. Though they cater mainly for diasabled, I think they also have a section for orphans.

The catholic church also has one, if i'm not mistaken, and the children there are very well taken care off.

chineloSA:


You are one confused person here. Where does IDP camp come in here? There is no 5 star orphanage. You are lying. Even in first world countries talkless of Nigeria. Orphanages sometimes struggle to feed the kids when the funders decide otherwise especially when they have issues with government administration. I was not even suggesting a 5 star home because majority of homes are not 5 star. I can bet even your home is not a 5 star home. Thats where you also miss the point, beautiful buildings don't raise a good child. Majority of successful people were not raised in 5 star homes but were raised in loving families who loved and supported them.

Try and suggest an orphanage for your family members. You suggestion was heartless, point blank.

Even in Social work, a Social Worker normally assess if there is any family member capable of taking care of the child before suggesting an orphanage because family support structure is better than an Orphanage for a childs development.
I can raise my brother child better than your Unicef or Who or your imaginery 5 star home.

chineloSA:


The ignorant person here is you who thinks only material things raise up a child. A good support family structure is what every child needs not an orphanage. I can tell you have no idea what an orphanage makes people feel.
My father was orphaned, lived in an orphanage and he used to tell us that he doesn't wish that for anybody.

Moreover the triplets are not orphaned, they still have a father and other extended family members who may perhaps be willing to assist the father take care of them.

An orphanage should be the last resort. The kids have martenal and paternal family who can help.

jonhemma11:
Few days ago,I reported that a Nigerian lost his wife after she gave birth to triplets.The late Mrs Doris Osato, a 36-year-old mother of the triplets who died on December, 19th, just one week after delivery was laid to rest in her hometown, Urohi village, in Ekpoma, Edo State.

May her Soul Rest in Peace

See photos below


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/01/photos-woman-who-died-after-giving.html?m=1

kenonze:
So sad. Feel like crying too.

There is absolutely no need bringing those kids before the cameras and paparazzi.

The state government should should take them to orphanage for proper child's care. At age of 2,the father can take them while the government should continue with the training if the father approve of it

kenonze:


U are still struggling to prove a point.
Well like I said it all depends on the father.
U keep saying family, grandparents bla bla bla, where are the families in the pictures background. [b]Same family that exposed the neonates to camera and press. That alone will tell u a lot.
Even if the grandparents can raise newborn but not triplets.... The journey is too far[/b]

kenonze:



ChineloSA calm down my sister, take a deep breath okay.
The problem with third world countries is unnecessary stigmatization.
Do u know that oyibo don't joke with social welfare. There are so organized that they chose to keep their aged parents in Geriatrics.... Not because they children cannot afford to use money to care for them but it is better done with professionals.