Is sex starting to become a real problem for you?
So you like to have sex. Good for you. Sex is the best. But lately there have been some problems in your life because of your sexual habits. Maybe you really love your girlfriend or your wife , but she dumped you after catching you having sex with the babysitter. Perhaps, you were doing great at your job, but you got fired after getting caught in your office beating off to porn. Maybe you’re starting to wonder if you have some sort of a problem. Or maybe, like me, you knew you had a problem all along, and thought the most important thing was to not let anyone ever find out.
It took me a long time to admit I was a sex addict. It isn’t an easy thing to do. I could deal with being a playboy, a hedonist, maybe even a freak, but a sex addict? Not me. It took about 7 years, two breakups, the loss of jobs and money before I admitted it.
When I was in the process of breaking up with my girlfriend, I was already seeing a girl. She was cool enough. She was funny. We got each other on a certain level, which sometimes is all you can ask for when you just met someone to talk to you about your problems.
I got along with her well enough that I decided to do something new: I was going to be honest. This time I wasn’t going to tell her to sit there and listen to me lie.
I told hee about how I was having affairs, how I couldn’t stop. How everything I did was designed to either get her laid or indulge my kinks, and my kinks were getting more extreme by the day. No matter what went on in my life, no matter how bleeped up it got, no matter what I lost it didn’t matter; I couldn’t, or maybe wouldn’t, stop. The most important thing to me in the world, by far, was sex and all the adrenaline and anxiety that came with it.
I told her what had been going on. First, I lost my job because I was having affairs with so many people at work. Then, my ex tossed me out of the relationship because I was screwing around with so many people at places outside of work. I wound up living with a woman that I couldn’t stand, but that would do anything I wanted sexually, no matter how deviant my demands were—I was cheating on her, too.
When I got done relating what my wreck of a life was all about, she looked at me and said, “Well the thing is, most guys would want to do what you do. I mean, what guy wouldn’t?” My misery was this girl's fantasy—it wasn’t the first time.
That is the thing about sex. If you’re getting a lot of it, you don’t have a problem, right? I mean seriously, you’re getting laid all the time and complaining about it?
So many people get all worked up about the sex addict thing. “How can anyone be addicted to sex?” Don’t get hooked on semantics. Who cares what you call your problem? I don’t. Call it sexual compulsion if it makes you feel better. By acting out with sex, I was often accused by women of being a selfish, lying asshole, or a total freak, and I was both of those things, but no one ever asked me if I might actually have a problem.
I write this list as a heterosexual man, though, this can also apply to women and LGBT individuals.
If you are not like me or you dont want to admit it , good job. Go screw with impunity. But if i am talking about you and you know it then check yourself and figure out what is going on,you need to find someone to talk to, and you should probably do it soon.
You live a double life

You are a sex addict if 1 you are always thinking about sex 2 you cant control that pendulum between your legs(male) 3 you are always getting wet and Hot even without a man around you(female) 4 you are preoccupied with sex 5 you love to have sex within the snap of the finger 6 you want to have sex Regardless of the consequences

If u are in this problem. U need 3tins. 1. Jesus Christ. 2. A counseling psychologist. 3. Your self. With these three in place ur problems are over.

Moneymagnets I got your mail. It has been corrected. This acct is my alt and I used copy and paste for this acct from my main. Thanks for the compliment.

I'm sorry this is the only way I can reply cos i have mail issues.