Mostly to the men, the onus lies on us to take up responsibility and face the task ahead of us. This includes preparing psychologically and financially for marriage, thinking reasonable, then external family obligations. Beware,three things could make this duty unrealisable.

1. Gambling - in this period of recession, people are looking for easy ways out of financial problems. Some take to gambling. While this has turned out successfully for one percent of the punters, others have been plunged into penury and depression. Try to be hardworking and not frivolous/indolent waiting for jackpot.

2. Sexual perversions - some will say we are in the sexual revolution, so people are trying out all sorts of immoral sexual practices (girls not left out). We hear of widespread masturbation, gay, fetish acts, fvck boys, hoes, porn addicts etc. These acts have psychological and health effect on growing adults. One can hardly think straight when in this web. It drains one's strength, time and emotions. Not forgetting the financial considerations.

3. Street life - for those who grew up in the ghetto or got influenced by friends, we see them practising all forms of vices in the society like partying wild, taking hard drugs, bullying, pilfering, prostitution, fighting etc. Some of these things have led some either to prison or to their graves.

To conclude, i'm not exonerated from the aforementioned; but we need to find a way to stop or regulate these habits to forge ahead.

Cc.. Rocktation, lalasticlala, farano, mynd44

McBrooklyn:

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redbeans:
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Howdy??

McBrooklyn:


Howdy??

your boy dey o. Are you the one also using obioradsubtle?

McBrooklyn:


LOL... Why you dey ask??

ohh.. Just checked your profile. It's not you. Saw a thread you made for him on his b.day. Anyway, you guys are birds of a feather