when they come to your house and see unexpected upgrade compared to the last time they visited. their eyes will just change and sad mood. more like so this guy get money only him de enjoy. he nor remember me.

more like you spend money in buying things for yourself without giving to them. when they see new shoes, clothes and new phone. they just want to go mad. that's exactly what enemy of progress does. they just can't pretend or hide the feelings. and because you didn't buy for them or send money to them while you are buying things for yourself.

just imagine like say na you be their papa.

also when they know you go out to flex and you didn't carry them. they just want to die of jealousy and even thinking you carry another girl. because they know small thing de with you.

why can't girls stop that mentality that their boyfriend money is more like their money.? or the money should be spend on them as if it's a law or something.

you and naija girls nah same !