My gal always get angry seeing me chatting with another gal in a party. She dont even allow me to dance with another gal. On my own part I usually excuse her when she is with a guy because I trust her. She almost had a problem with female friend of mine I have not seen for years. Cos of the shocked we hugged each other so tight when my gal cleared her throat to interrupt. She ask her '' and you are?''. I didnt say anything and my friend was just smiling. Introduced my friend to my gal and ask her to wait so I will see my friend off but she insisted on joining us and even held me by the waist as if my friend was snatching me away. I was angry that day but I dont know why she was so suspicious. Are other ladies like that?

Of what?

Of what what?

so just because yah insecure girlfriend is always suspicious, you then generalize that ""girls"'
WTF

lovemoi2:

so just because yah insecure girlfriend is always suspicious, you then generalize that ""girls"'
WTF

The beauty of NL and extrapolation

[size=18pt]WELL MAYBE IF GUYS WONT DO SUSPICIOUS LOOKING THINGS THEN WE WONT BE SUSPICIOUS[/size]


Enough Said

Ebonyeyes:

The beauty of NL and extrapolation

really if i was extrapolating i would be saying something that is out of point but i am on point watch this and yeah i got time

Rhymez:

My gal always get angry seeing me chatting with another gal in a party. She dont even allow me to dance with another gal. On my own part I usually excuse her when she is with a guy because I trust her. She almost had a problem with female friend of mine I have not seen for years. Cos of the shocked we hugged each other so tight when my gal cleared her throat to interrupt. She ask her   '' and you are?''. I didnt say anything and my friend was just smiling. Introduced my friend to my gal and ask her to wait so I will see my friend off[b] but she insisted on joining us and even held me by the waist as if my friend was snatching me away[/b]. I was angry that day but I dont know why she was so suspicious. Are other ladies like that?

from all the points i just highlighted its obvious his girlfriend is insecure
also did you see the topic

 
Gals Are So Suspicious. 

he dint even say some girls, that is generalizing so i am still on point

@poster
Change dat topic 2 "my gf is alwayz suspicious".

Well, some women are predisposed to regarding you a liar than actually believing you're being true. . . in their words they call it 'cautious' - so why don't you just do whatever makes you feel right and move the heck on? If there's one thing I've learned so far, it is that you should never try to impress a woman, just do you and leave the rest for fate to decide.

No difference at all, just sit her and tell her what u feel d way shes suspectn u, she'll minimize!

Luvties:

No difference at all, just sit her and tell her what u feel d way shes suspectn u, she'll minimize!

How do you know? She can only keep quiet but she still has it inculcated in her mind that he should be suspected. If a woman doesn't believe in you, you leave her to make her decisions herself and not push it.

@rhymes- your girl doesnt feel secure with you, if she did she wouldnt be trying to brand you so brazenly
But if u take phone calls from girls, have meetings with girls by yourself without letting her know then you're leaving for her to worry.
Try thinking about how she feels, did u introduce her? or u were so into your friend that u ignored her?

I wonder why people get in rs? If you just do things without minding the other, then just stay by yourself.
1+1=2 not 1+1= 1 do what the hell I want and tell you when I want. 




but its good that you posted your story here, ithelps you get opinons of other sides.
I remember something suspicous that happened and I was worried that I was overreacting so what I did was relay the situation to close friends, both our and his and they ALL saw it as fishy sitiuation, so at times you may guilty by association. If you arent doing fishy things then you wont smell like fish

lovemoi2:

really if i was extrapolating i would be saying something that is out of point but i am on point watch this and yeah i got time

What you on about girl? I was agreeing with your point What I meant was that a girl or two do things to some of these NL guys and they come here and "all girls are this or that"

Gals have a lot of similarities.

Rhymez:

My gal always get angry seeing me chatting with another gal in a party. She dont even allow me to dance with another gal. On my own part I usually excuse her when she is with a guy because I trust her. She almost had a problem with female friend of mine I have not seen for years. Cos of the shocked we hugged each other so tight when my gal cleared her throat to interrupt. She ask her '' and you are?''. I didnt say anything and my friend was just smiling. Introduced my friend to my gal and ask her to wait so I will see my friend off but she insisted on joining us and even held me by the waist as if my friend was snatching me away. I was angry that day but I dont know why she was so suspicious. Are other ladies like that?

maybe if you acted appropriatly she woulnd worry about you. if you can do the highlighted above in her presence what are you doing behind her back?

agathamari:

[size=16pt]maybe if you acted appropriatly she woulnd worry about you.[/size] if you can do the highlighted above in her presence what are you doing behind her back?

GBAM

But I only hugged her to show how much I miss her and never kiss her.

Did you introduce her as ur gf?

platinumnk:

Did you introduce her as your gf?

Probably left her hanging, no wonder she marked her territory

@poster

What are Gals suspicious of?

mama-gee:

@poster

What are Gals suspicious of?

suspcious that their bf's are PHUCKING about~

Your girlfriend's just insecure deal with it and stop making silly generalizations!

@190. That was a wide explanation. I rather say suspicious of cheating and not shagging about.

@thonia. Easy gal, no fighting.

^^^ You don't know that egoistic superiority is her trademark?

Poster, try the other way round. The next time you meet your friend, you just say this. HI!!! How are u? GOSH!@ Its been ages. Hang on, I want you to meet somebody!!! (Give her a big smile) bring her to your gf and say this: Laura (whatever her name is), this is Fatimah, the love and Queen of my life!

Im sure your girl will be so proud and she will trust you if you always do that. . . Get your girlfriend involve with your friends as well. . . That will minimize her insecurities and also it will stop making you and her look like a fool. Aight?

yes do that,if truly u are not having anything to do with the other lady

Dawg, ur gal is a Psycho!!! kick her to the curb!!!

You are a psycho with this advice

Rhymez:

You are a psycho with this advice

on point

THAT IS NOT BEING SUSPICIOUS ,
I CALL IT INSECURITY,

Most nigerian ladies are very suspicious