Paroh_frey:

The story tells itself - he doesnt want you, and for the culture, it will be hard, igbo to haitian, your kids will be called igbhatians.

fiswu:

I'm a tall, black, beautiful (with 8 figure) and educated Haitian girl (about to end my degree in engineering) who met a 25 years old igbo man from a good family (still university student) 2 years ago at an university campus. He is a charming and handsome guy also. When we first met he seemed very nice, but (around this period of time) he had stood me up so many times and always came back with an excuse (promised to make it up to me). We have stop talking so many times because of all this (he called until I answered). After a while, He finally claimed that it was because he wasn't stable (but the last time we saw each other, he told me he is now).

This summer I went to visit him because we're not leaving in the same state (he was suppose to come but again money problem). We spent a good time (no sex, I refused because we're not in a relationship), and he even paraded me in front of his friends. During my stay, he maked me listen to songs who says that I'm the type of girl he was looking for (he said nothing); he said that I'll bring money to his family (with no explanations). I also discovered that I more than like him, and he likes me also (he has always refused my friendship though).

My problem is that I don't understand him (he said he don't understand me neither). He keeps claiming that everything that happen between us is meant to be, but still acting weird. In the biginning, I admit that I wasn't easy on his ego. I even tell him that he don't fit in my category (so I'll never have anything to do with him- I was angry because of his attitude), but since I realised that I was wrong I started checking up on him once every week (calls/texts, he reciprocate only if I stop for a long time).

Sometimes when I call or send him a text he will not answer. Finally, I confronted him and give him a choice (no more contact or answer). He told me that everything was allright and we should keep in touch. I just don't understand because I don't play games.

People, I need your toughts on this matter, please!

fiswu:

I'm a tall, black, beautiful (with 8 figure) and educated Haitian girl (about to end my degree in engineering) who met a 25 years old igbo man from a good family (still university student) 2 years ago at an university campus. He is a charming and handsome guy also. When we first met he seemed very nice, but (around this period of time) he had stood me up so many times and always came back with an excuse (promised to make it up to me). We have stop talking so many times because of all this (he called until I answered). After a while, He finally claimed that it was because he wasn't stable (but the last time we saw each other, he told me he is now).

This summer I went to visit him because we're not leaving in the same state (he was suppose to come but again money problem). We spent a good time (no sex, I refused because we're not in a relationship), and he even paraded me in front of his friends. During my stay, he maked me listen to songs who says that I'm the type of girl he was looking for (he said nothing); he said that I'll bring money to his family (with no explanations). I also discovered that I more than like him, and he likes me also (he has always refused my friendship though).

My problem is that I don't understand him (he said he don't understand me neither). He keeps claiming that everything that happen between us is meant to be, but still acting weird. In the biginning, I admit that I wasn't easy on his ego. I even tell him that he don't fit in my category (so I'll never have anything to do with him- I was angry because of his attitude), but since I realised that I was wrong I started checking up on him once every week (calls/texts, he reciprocate only if I stop for a long time).

Sometimes when I call or send him a text he will not answer. Finally, I confronted him and give him a choice (no more contact or answer). He told me that everything was allright and we should keep in touch. I just don't understand because I don't play games.

People, I need your toughts on this matter, please!

Paroh_frey:

The story tells itself - he doesnt want you, and for the culture, it will be hard, igbo to haitian, your kids will be called igbhatians.

sjeezy8:

I stopped reading cause its so many damn [b](blah blah blah)[/b]parentheses , thats sooo annoying

jejelolatu:

@fiswu,
if u are just learnin then welldone, you ar doing fine.
I undastand creole, cnt speak well tho.
Gurl, jst follow your heart. If u think there is a problem, there is. If u think its ok , then its ok.

sjeezy8:

I stopped reading cause its so many damn (blah blah blah)[/b]parentheses , thats sooo annoying

platinumnk:

Haitians are decendents of Nigeria.




well i donot know about that

mama-gee:

What was all that essay for?