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Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Nobody: 8:40pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Billyonaire:sir, please can you recommend e-(books) to read to further broaden my knowledge in this said expect sir. |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Ugosample(m): 8:41pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
This topic is a very interesting topic. There is a word... That word is moderation. You may be good at what you do, but recognise this, the cultural complications here in Nigeria. What I mean by that is that many bosses have fragile egos, and kinda have complexes, so they get easily threatened. So what do you do Moderation. Don't try to show off, and at the same time don't be a dull worker. You need the boss more than he needs you, So just conform and get the experience you need. When you leave his org after getting what you want, then he can go to hell Hope I make sense tho 2 Likes |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Ugosample(m): 8:43pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
willibounce1: Please refrain from calling him goat. He is not beyond correction |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Nobody: 8:47pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
obstead200: That drivel is enough to let you know that I don't do shindigs with fifth columnists, or take it lightly whenever anyone comes near me with unanchored attributions. |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Nobody: 8:48pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Akalia: Thoughts on quantum levels are waves, and these waves are collapsed to particulate state by consciousness. What has this to do with Heaven and Hell ? Thoughts of heaven or paradise or hell by the religions and the congregants has collapsed the wave function due to presence of consciousness everywhere. Then a bubble has been created. You all have created heaven and hell and paradise, cos whatever you think and surrender to the universe materializes in a form, so you will see your heaven that you created, or your hell you created, but it is an illusion of the mind, cos your thoughts are from the mind and heaven and hell or paradise you create will automatically be manifested on the mental plane, and you might visit there on your way out and you will see how real or how temporal it looks. Same symphony, same colours for ever. Can you stay there ? No one likes to do same thing for ever na, even though it seems so nice. So, you will be out again on the journeys through the star systems and the universe and the dimensions if you are going to other places, you will wear a spacesuit designed for that plane or dimension of existence. If you have more questions, join the Sunday School classes, almost always every Sunday that I feel joy in my heart, I share my experiences about my journey on the physical plane. 1 Like |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Alphasoar(m): 8:48pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Find somewhere where they sell Humility and buy it and then wear it. You can be like your master but dont try to outshine him when its just obvious. Jesus said, It good that the servant be like his master but not above or more than his master. |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by obstead200(m): 8:49pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Ugosample:pls go thru the thread again. Trust me, nothing less than a couple of bitter career experiences, coupled with years of joblessness and poverty, can ever correct the brain defect which this OP has |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Ugosample(m): 8:49pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
MrPresident1: You have a point too But Moderation is the key |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by obstead200(m): 8:50pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Alphasoar:pls tell the boy ooo |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by piagetskinner(m): 8:50pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
so the summary of this long epistle is that you are proud ...OP? |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Ugosample(m): 8:52pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
obstead200: I read from the first page. And I have learnt. But the OP needs to take a chill pill tho. His mindset cannot help in Nigeria. Maybe in Europe, underline the word maybe But definitely not in Nigeria Bosses here are something else, but you have to conform to get what you want. That is wisdom. 3 Likes |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Nobody: 8:54pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
B2Spirits: Manny why all the clapbacks? I thought you came here looking for opinions and contributions? |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Alphasoar(m): 8:54pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
obstead200:Hehe, I think he's heard it now! |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Nobody: 8:55pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
desquad: You dont really need books alone. You need you. With only books, you may not truly be inspired to understand the true meanings. You need you, you need yourself. First step is learning how to stay alone in your room, no TV, no radio, no internet, nothing, no noise, everywhere quietened and no noise coming from neighbours. Just you for a day without feeling lonely. Can you do that for me ? Start listening to yourself, it will teach you so many things that books cant. You were not created for books, books were created for you. When you are through with mastering silence, we will teach you to master your mind, then your soul will take over, then you can start reading and getting messages straight from universe itself. Only the universe can teach you 100% truth about itself and its nature, and the universe is you. 1 Like |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Nobody: 8:56pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Ugosample: U made maaaddttt sense bro |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by prinzeepule(m): 8:56pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
It's been long i gained on NL in days. Great minds. Would love to be mentored by so many people here. OP hear advice, dis is y most first class student dnt make it big |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by tens4real(m): 9:00pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Sir how do I know what am here for?[quote author=Billyonaire post=54432903] Are you kidding me ? You can not edit the past, its already crystallized and awaits your review after this life. All we do is travel around the star systems. There is no simple answer. That is why it is so hard for almost everyone in this planet to know. That your body that you bath and rub cream, is a bio-mechanical spacesuit. You have |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Akalia(m): 9:00pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Billyonaire:"sunday school classes" - you mean at eckankar? Senor I like to have a chat with you outside this forum; do u mind offering me such privillege? |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Originalsly: 9:01pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
B2Spirits:Hmmm.... so you not on the clock from 10 to 4..... why would you need permission to go shopping ?..... isn't that your time to do whatever? @topic... is nothing in your write up that shows you are out shining your boss. |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Nobody: 9:02pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Akalia:Nope, not Eckankar, on this forum, we chat at Education Section every sunday, with people who are tolerant enough to discuss their religion and compare notes on discovering God and the meaning of Life. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Nobody: 9:04pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
tens4real: Have you ever asked yourself that question honestly while you are alone in a dark silent room with your eyes closed ? Do that every night and pay attention to your heart for the answer to come through. Usually, there is a passion of yours, that can bring happiness to you and the people around you. Usually on that angle almost always, but you alone will know the answer. Cos you alone can tell yourself the answer. |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by tens4real(m): 9:05pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Billyonaire:yes sir several times but I don't seems to get an answer... |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Akalia(m): 9:09pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Billyonaire:ok I will try and join subsequent sessions. Thanks for your time. |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Nobody: 9:10pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
tens4real:Keep asking and pay serious attention after asking. Stay there quiet and give yourself time for response to come through. But try to raise your vibration. The pineal gland in between the left and right hemisphere of your brain transmits consciousness and regulates the frequencies you tuned to. Raise your vibration through any of the known means and ask that question. When you mind, is in resonance with your soul and you tune consciousness to same frequency, then the words will come through, just like fm radio signals. You will perceive the answers loud and clear. This is how you get inspiration direct and clear, from the source field without pollution from thoughts emanating from discordant entities trying to take over the broadcast to your mind. |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Chuknovski(m): 9:11pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Mille: you've hit the nail on the head, wish I could agree more |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by sholay2011(m): 9:14pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
MathsChic:I had to start following you after I read this post. You have said it all. |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by tens4real(m): 9:15pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Billyonaire:wow please how can I.raise my frequency and vibration sir |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Patriots: 9:16pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
I read your post over again and realised that you did not have ego at all, you are just being yourself, and theirs nothing wrong with that. Being egocentric is an intentional feeling of been superior which I believe that is not in your case, you are just an expert in your field,a genius that needs to be nurtured, like a gem that needed to be refined. Your only shortcomings I sense along the line was that you are not expose to office ethics and social diplomacy. Only learn to be humble, humility will cast a shadow of love over you,and prevention of jealousy. 3 Likes |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Nobody: 9:26pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
It seems this OP has some attitudinal issues. 1 Like |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Diplomaticbeing(m): 9:27pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
B2Spirits: According to you "nobody wishes you well in this life apart from your mother, and at times, your father." My brother, you really need to change this kind of mindset. Kindly consider to review your life philosophies and change skewed ones like this particular one I quoted. |
Re: I Outshined My Employers, Now I'm in Trouble by Nobody: 9:32pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
tens4real:You have a lifetime, don't be in a hurry, attend Sunday schools. |
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