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5 Ways To Manage Jealous Guys When You Have A Hot Girlfriend by jameslives: 1:44pm On Mar 10, 2017
For most of us red-blooded guys, making a smoking hot woman our girlfriend would most certainly classify as "success".

And no kidding, for the most part it ROCKS when that happens.

However, with success comes responsibility, even when it comes to dating and relationships.

A very real part of that responsibility includes knowing how to handle the simple fact that the vast majority of other guys on this planet will NOT be as fortunate as you are (at least not yet).

Actually, the hard truth is that most will NEVER find real success with women (let alone the sexual success I talked about above).

As it turns out, some of the very same reasons for that will also present themselves in the form of majorly awkward social situations for you. Go figure.

Most guys aren't really ready for how other, more frustrated guys will react the first time they find a truly amazing girlfriend, so they get blindsided.

But as a man who's already got the upper hand in the form of that beautiful woman by your side who other men desire, you'd do well to know how to handle such scenarios with grace and class.

Here, then, are my five best tips for you when dealing with other guys. And make no mistake about it, you can fully expect any or ALL of the following situations to rear their ugly heads at some point or another:


1) Keep It All On The "Down-Low"

One thing I can assure you of without any reservation is that when you get yourself a truly hot, sexy, amazing girlfriend other dudes WILL notice.

You need not do anything at all to help bring it to their attention.

So don't. You'll only look like a douche if you resort to bragging about her.

Besides, if you keep it cool you're MUCH more likely to portray yourself as a guy who considers himself "in the same league" as she is, which is always a good idea.

Bragging only makes it look like you see "landing her" as some sort of major coup.


2) But On The Other Hand, Don't Make Excuses Or Minimize Her Either

If you make it a point to encourage and validate your girl when other guys are around--especially your friends--you'll make her feel safer and more comfortable around you.

Never mind the fact she'll probably even LIKE you more.

When all of that's the case, other guys will be able to sense the mutual respect between you.

Then, as if by magic, the incidence of silly, immature comments will tend to decrease dramatically.

It's as if other guys sense that if they make some snide remark about either you or her that SHE'LL be the one who chimes in to shut them down.

Knowing how much guys fear rejection and embarrassment at the hands of anyone female, you can see how that social dynamic would work to your advantage.

Yet, for some reason many of us have been taught that beautiful women need to be "knocked off their pedestal", so we make fun of them or neglect them sometimes--even in front of our friends, and even when we're in a relationship with them.

Believe me when I tell you that's a piss-poor strategy. She's HUMAN, and treating her like that will only create resentment on her part.

And if any dude who's jealous of you senses that resentment in her, he's going to play upon that like a cheap fiddle. That will NOT work to your advantage.

Read the full article here: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com/articles/2360-5-ways-to-manage-jealous-guys-when-you-have-a-hot-girlfriend


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