Have you ever felt timid when talking to someone you like?

Why am I afraid of asking you questions?
Why do I look forward to talking to you and then become speechless when i get the chance to?
Why do I feel intimidated by you?
Why do I feel so comfortable yet nervous around you?

This is not love, is it? I'm quite the out-spoken type. I always speak my mind,what I feel n how I feel it.
That's one of the things my past lovers and my friends like about me. I always put my feelings, any kind, into words.
But now, it's different. I feel like a fool. Stammering and blabbing like an idiot. I feel too vulnarable when am with him. Weak.
After the pleasantries, I hardly have anything to say because these questions, (too personal questions) i want to ask won't let my brain rest.
Yes, I like him. I don't know if I love him but I do like him alot. We are friends. He never indicate the otherwise. Even though our chat is just like that of lovers. Quite personal and sensual, yet he never made mention of anything too close.
I don't want to raise my hope high too. I just want to enjoy the flirtationship that exist between us. Nothing serious attached. No commitment, no nothing. Just the sweet words and cuddles. That's the exact thing I told myself I want. That I need.
Maybe I'm scared of breaking this tight( tight?) bond between us. Scared of saying or asking something that might spoil everything. I don't want to get too personal. I really don't want to. Like i said, he didn't indicate he wants more.

Now that's the issue!
That's what, exactly, I'm trying to avoid. MORE! I think I want more. No I don't. Well, maybe I do. I want it all. Everything that goes with it.
But I have made this mistake once. Asking for more where there was nothing. Am still suffering from the pain it left me. The scars are still fresh.
After all the promises I made to myself, here is history repeating itself. Please don't tell me am in love! Please don't. I don't think so. I don't even think I know what love is anymore. It's just this problem of feeling weak everytime I hear his voice. Thank God for distance! I might just drop dead everytime I see him.

He does urge me to open up but what if I do?
What will happen if he sees am getting too attached to him?
Will he run away just like the other?
Will he stop talking to me?
Will I end up losing in both ways?

I don't like this feeling of immaturity. This feeling of incompetence. This feeling of cowardice. I feel 12 when i talk to him. I wasn't like this before. I want to go back to how it was. Friendship and nothing more.
Maybe I should try avoiding him. No, i won't. I have learnt from experience that 'that' won't work. But I need to find a solution before this get out of hand. Before I hurt myself. Before I lose control. I will need to caution myself. I don't need 'MORE'. I really don't. 'MORE' hurts. I just need to keep reminding myself on that. 'MORE' hurts.

You are in love.


Do you also feel butterflies in your stomach?

**Love** nwantiti



its just obvious, you are in love with this dude.....

Just open up and tell him.

Nowadays I'm just too lazy...

Someone please summarize for me

Just taste the dose of being friendzoned



I like it when guys friendzone ladies

chaii that guy has your mumu remote control with a fully charged battery

Sharrout to da nigga..

Jodha:
Nowadays I'm just too lazy...

Someone please summarize for me

when you keep on drinking garri everyday how you no go lazy ..huh

2dice01:
when you keep on drinking garri everyday how you no go lazy ..huh

Lol how did yhu know that I was adviced to drink garri everyday in other to get fatter

Jodha:




Lol how did yhu know that I was adviced to drink garri everyday in other to get fatter

so you wanna get fatter with diss your size

Make sure you add a pinch of cement

If they ask this one to write school project now, she'll go and steal one from the library.



#Copy and Paste.

Lol.... Jayson1, these words are my thoughts not copy and paste

OlufemiAbisola:
Lol.... Jayson1, these words are my thoughts not copy and paste

Alright, I wish you well.

See love oo,anyways i like ur moniker

OlufemiAbisola:
Lol.... Jayson1, these words are my thoughts not copy and paste

You express yourself well, my dear. Very articulate. Plus you sound like a smart girl. I hope things work out for you.

Jodha:
Nowadays I'm just too lazy...

Someone please summarize for me

She just betrayed us. She's in love, she wants to give her mumu button to a GUY.

You look very young.... You're a good writer though! Keep it up and don't be like that lazy girl up there.

I was busy reading and Halfway I cum dey laugh...I don't know why sha ...but I just hope the Op Is able to replicate this writeup during an examination

oops I feel u coz I have been there,I will advice u don't open up and keep it slow nd steady becoz u may end up hurting urself,I felt same way for a girl and summon courage to tell him but he was not into me lyk I tot and ended up asking a friend out in my own office,I hurt and pain was not easy but I manage to let it go so it won't coz more damage to me. I learnt a great lesson and promise myself not to repeat that mistake again,so pls jux be patient till he makes the moves.I hope u does.

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**Love** nwantiti




its just obvious, you are in love with this dude.....


Just open up and tell him.
What if he runs? What if what I feel is one-sided? I don't want to get hurt again

OlufemiAbisola you're making the chase too easy for him.

If your talks are already sensual and he hasn't asked you out or made his intention known, the possibility of him taking advantage of you is very high.

You love him? Well give him a chase. A jungle cat loves a hunt and not having his dinner handed to him on a plate.

Yet If you make the chase too hard, you'll just realize that you're the only one running

Hey guys, I am new here. Won't you welcome me?

cozyfaithex:
oops I feel u coz I have been there,I will advice u don't open up and keep it slow nd steady becoz u may end up hurting urself,I felt same way for a girl and summon courage to tell him but he was not into me lyk I tot and ended up asking a friend out in my own office,I hurt and pain was not easy but I manage to let it go so it won't coz more damage to me. I learnt a great lesson and promise myself not to repeat that mistake again,so pls jux be patient till he makes the moves.I hope u does.

Aww... a pretty lady like you! Was the guy blind?

Aderola15:

She just betrayed us. She's in love, she wants to give her mumu button to a GUY.

hell no would she fall mugu to one niggur in our watch ..

Bring rope.. Let's tie her..

Before we start seeing a heartbreak thread

Snap outta it sis! Wake up girl and get hold of whatever emotions yhu might be feeling..

Calm yhurself down.. Keep calm... And act cool till he approaches yhu..

(or has he already approach yhu? I don't know cause I was too weak to read yhur story)

Jodha
Lol..... We are close. Very sef..... We are friends so if he wants something else he could just say it

Jodha:


hell no would she fall mugu to one niggur in our watch ..

Bring rope.. Let's tie her..

Before we start seeing a heartbreak thread

Oya oya, lemme call my Paddie to bring the rope.

Lefulefu please bring rope.

Aderola15:


Oya oya, lemme call my Paddie to bring the rope.

Lefulefu please bring rope.

who dem wan tie ?

OlufemiAbisola:
Hey guys, I am new here. Won't you welcome me?

I just came here to read comments and sip Zobo....

I can categorically tell you that the guy already knows you are into him.....

Welcome to Nairaland mam!!!

Aderola15:


Oya oya, lemme call my Paddie to bring the rope.

Lefulefu please bring rope.

As em dey bring rope.. Coman helep me put her.. Beside that mango tree there..

We'll tie and there

She cannot come and be disgracing us ehn