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He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
I’ve been dating this guy for the past 5 weeks and although we are not officially in a relationship things have moved fairly quickly between us. I had been a dancer/stripper for the past 2 years and when I had met him I had actually left the industry and hadn’t been back for a couple of months. I am working on setting up a new business that is launching next month but I had a couple of financial issues and have been working 2 nights a week just to keep me going until my business is up and running. He has no idea about this and I didn’t tell him when we first met that I used to dance and I just feel terrible! He so far is the most amazing guy I’ve ever met and I feel like I am really betraying him and feel so guilty for lying. A guy I dated previously ended things with me when I told him I was a dancer so I feel there is no way I could ever tell him as I am scared of losing him but at the same time I also feel like a fraud and like he doesn’t really even know who I am. He is a very traditional guy who comes from a good family (as do I) and I just couldn’t see him being ok with it. I’m only planning to dance for the next month or so until I have money coming in from my business then ill never go back but am I wrong for not being 100% honest with him? Source- dearcupid.org |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by slimthugchimee(m): 4:15pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
total gabbage |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by marlvis(f): 4:37pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
Bea just keep it low ...you must not tell all ya dirty secrets to him .even if he loves you .he is gonna use it to haunt you later ...take this advice..new relationship new Guy ,new you ..old things are passed away and should be forgotten ..just focus on ya new relationship and be the best you can be ...besides that was then and this is now. 3 Likes |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by Safiaa(f): 4:40pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
Don't tell him and your stripper days will come back to haunt you. Let him judge you in your truth. |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by amani337(m): 4:43pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
Tell him,if he is fated for u he wil understand and forgive u. Ashawo crew pls stay off this thread. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by sleeknick: 4:44pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
i will tell him 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by pryme(m): 4:49pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
it's better you tell him the truth now, trust me you don't want him to find out from another source cos shit will surely hit the fan. If loves you he will help you stop it. Note: you can't hide the truth from him for long. |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by natnoble(m): 4:55pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
eventually the truth will come out and he will know. why not just tell him now so that he will decide whether or not to go ahead with you. |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by YoungBlackRico(m): 4:56pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
Well... Op you gon' help us deliver our message to her? ©YBR 2 Likes |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by AvsGot007(m): 11:16pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
hun... I love 'em strippers where can I watch you stripping ma'am? |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by ojun50(m): 11:55pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
Do wht ever will make u happy nd be @peace with yr hearth |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by Nobody: 7:49am On Mar 12, 2017 |
Your boyfriend deserves to know the truth. Tell him NOW. It's gossamer but it's either he retains you or he leaves. It's hard but you have to tell him. |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by babyfaceafrica: 9:32am On Mar 12, 2017 |
He will find out later and dump your ass....then you will open another thread and say men are wicked..if you tell him now and he leaves,is it not better?..... |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by firstking01(m): 11:27am On Mar 12, 2017 |
marlvis:Smh, Is this an advice?? |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by Nobody: 11:48am On Mar 12, 2017 |
Don't tell him. Save up the money u av in mind. A stripper is even better than those girls that go out there to do runs codedly and fucvk all sorts because of money and their bf will still marry them. After a month like u said, leave the stripper thing and focus on your new biz. If perchance someone brings up the issue to your man.. He will feel bad but at the end he will forgive u.. After u sincerely apologize and make him realise why u went into it the first place. There's no free lunch anywhere babe! And everyone knows that. If he's matured in thinking and knows u ain't cheating on him. He will eventually forgive u. When one is inlove it's not that easy to break away like that. He will feel hurt no doubt but he will still come back. But for now? Don't say a word. Shhhhhhh! |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by acc001(f): 6:26pm On Mar 12, 2017 |
Maychang:Tell him d truth,if he truelly loves u,he nva leave u. |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by skinnyinc(m): 7:21am On Jul 31, 2017 |
He just might have a thing for strippers. Tell him, you never could tell e fit love you more |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by Martin0(m): 7:40am On Jul 31, 2017 |
If he asked or intrested to know then you tell him,there's no point lying in a relationship.. But if he is not intrested in know my dear keep it to yourself simple |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by LoveDecay(m): 8:15am On Jul 31, 2017 |
marlvis:Women are passing through a lot. Either way she looses. |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by undefeateds: 8:33am On Jul 31, 2017 |
AvsGot007:Dis is wat happen when u bought phone for underage kid,u people don't know how to talk |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by AvsGot007(m): 9:03am On Jul 31, 2017 |
undefeateds:oh my bad! I made that post long time ago... I mean I'm now a changed and grown man! I'm sorry once again brother |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by drnoel: 10:15am On Jul 31, 2017 |
Safiaa: Best answer so far |
Re: He Doesn't Know I'm A Stripper! Should I Tell Him? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jul 31, 2017 |
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