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The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Kilonis(m): 2:15pm On Mar 13, 2017
This article is meant to be controversial, because a lot of disagreements should definitely arise concerning this subject.

I have a friend who recently broke up his 5 year old relationship, and I've never seen him so happy in forever. This is not to say he never enjoyed the relationship, but the air around my friend is so much different, he has more time to think about things and he makes smarter decisions now.


You might say it depends on the kind of spouse you pick, but I tell you, every female, good or bad, makes a man's life difficult to an extent, maybe more or maybe less than a lot. But a woman will make your life difficult, and that is a fact.


1. You stay away from trouble

Women in nature, attract attention. They are constantly out with the crave for attention, with attention comes the need to defend your territory, and sometimes it gets messy. I have a friend who had to leave his house and neighborhood because his girlfriend insulted all these street cultists, her boyfriend went to intervene, and he became the main target. The girl walks free in that area till date, but the guy has a big red X on his head now.


2. You have the time to focus on yourself

As a young man with a lot of life ambitions, who hasn't gotten to where he ought to be, you do not need to have a full time girlfriend or spouse who takes up your time, whose full time job is turning your life into a quagmire. You need to concentrate on your life, and you need time to do that, you need time to organise yourself and build your worth.


3. You become Economically progressive

With the increase in the number of females looking for relationships as a way out of poverty and stress of making money, it is important you stay away from every form of commitment to females until you make a headway financially. It is no news that our country is going through a gruesome recession, it is obviously wise to do what helps you save the little you make.


4. You don't have to worry about being called a cheat

This is as simple as math, with no relationship whatsoever, you can't be called a cheat.


5. Free from the emotional brouhaha women bring

I tell you, beyond any standard measure of truth, women pack and bring the emotional brouhaha and turn the heat up inside your head, they tune you inside out and leave you clueless most of the time, they make everything look like your fault, they require someone much attention and affection, if you give them as much as they require, they'll say you're giving too much, and that becomes a problem. To checkmate such confusion and keep your life free from such craziness, stay single.



I know most of you will ask how to achieve pleasure for the soul and body without their vagina, for verily I say unto you, among the women-kind, there is a cool specie who prefer a no strings attached relationship, although rare, but worthwhile.

Moreso, brothels are available, intimacy gadgets and Vaseline too.


Until they are needed, they are not needed!

Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Nobody: 2:23pm On Mar 13, 2017
I laugh grin grin, all these reasons is just skewed against the women. There men that bring plenty drama in relationships.

At a point in time we will realize the need for companionship in life.
Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Kilonis(m): 2:25pm On Mar 13, 2017
Dextology:
I laugh grin grin.
don't you agree?
Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by WHITEWIZARD(m): 2:28pm On Mar 13, 2017
Team i have four girlfriends, and these ladies have serious boyfriends..
So I'm single...
And free..
op i agree with you..

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Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Kilonis(m): 2:38pm On Mar 13, 2017
WHITEWIZARD:
Team i have four girlfriends, and these ladies have serious boyfriends..
So I'm single...
And free..
op i agree with you..
thank you
Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Nobody: 2:50pm On Mar 13, 2017
Kilonis:
don't you agree?

I disagree with some points. Although, I am single presently but everyday I realize the need of a good woman in my life as a partner.

1. There are some guys that are more troublesome than ladies. I have come across ladies that cherish senerity and peace.

2. There are some single people that don't have time for themselves despite their status. Some married people even have more time for themselves than singles.

3. I wish all singles are economically progressive like you stated. Some don't have anything to show for. If you have a great partner you can achieve greater results than when you are still single.

4. There still people that trust themselves and are faithful in their relationships. Most singles have numerous partners they are not faithful to.

5. Even sone men have plenty emotional brouhaha more than women.


Don't depend on brothel, prostitutes and random women for sexual pleasure. Stay focus in life

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Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Kilonis(m): 2:52pm On Mar 13, 2017
Dextology:


I disagree with some points. Although, I am single presently but everyday I realize the need of a good woman in my life as a partner.

1. There are some guys that are more troublesome than ladies. I have come across ladies that cherish senerity and peace.

2. There are some single people that don't have time for themselves despite their status. Some married people even have more time for themselves than singles.

3. I wish all singles are economically progressive like you stated. Some don't have anything to show for. If you have a great partner you can achieve greater results than when you are still single.

4. There still people that trust themselves and are faithful in their relationships. Most singles have numerous partners they are not faithful to.

5. Even sone men have plenty emotional brouhaha more than women.


Don't depend on brothel, prostitutes and random women for sexual pleasure. Stay focus in life

You are single, so you don't have firsthand experience on this subject.
Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by ArchEnemy(m): 2:52pm On Mar 13, 2017
WHITEWIZARD:
Team i have four girlfriends, and these ladies have serious boyfriends..
So I'm single...
And free..
op i agree with you..

Free?
You are smoking fish with gun powder
Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by ArchEnemy(m): 2:56pm On Mar 13, 2017
Op, I share some of your thoughts in my dream world.

But it can be quite dangerous in reality

Some women can move a man from zero to hero

But making a wrong choice can send a man to his grave early

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Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by QueenSuccubus(f): 3:00pm On Mar 13, 2017
So..





I am having a GAMOPHOBIA ? shocked shocked
Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Nobody: 3:02pm On Mar 13, 2017
Kilonis:


You are single, so you don't have firsthand experience on this subject.

Do you have experience being married? Then you perception and analysis is limited. To have a balance analysis use both gender.

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Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Young03(m): 3:05pm On Mar 13, 2017
I agree with 2,3,4,5
infact na 2 and 3 they important to me now, iam seeing the result

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Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by talk2uwem(m): 3:14pm On Mar 13, 2017
At a point in life, every one needs a companion, a friend and fellowship. marraige is good if you ignore so many things. two rights cannnot make a wrong.
Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Deprince2656(m): 3:36pm On Mar 13, 2017
Dextology:
I laugh grin grin, all these reasons is just skewed against the women. There men that bring plenty drama in relationships.

At a point in time we will realize the need for companionship in life.
There is tym for every thing
Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Deprince2656(m): 3:41pm On Mar 13, 2017
You are right. You can never tell with a woman. We guys should be wise when it comes to woman things.
Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Deprince2656(m): 3:41pm On Mar 13, 2017
You are right. You can never tell with a woman. We guys should be wise when it comes to woman things.
Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Alphamale2017(m): 4:19pm On Mar 13, 2017
Dextology:
I laugh grin grin, all these reasons is just skewed against the women. There men that bring plenty drama in relationships.

At a point in time we will realize the need for companionship in life.
he didnt say u shuld stay single forever na. At a certain poiint in life, u may not really need them. Thats what the op is saying

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Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by Alphamale2017(m): 4:20pm On Mar 13, 2017
Very true,

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Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by babyfaceafrica: 4:24pm On Mar 13, 2017
You have a valid point..one should be single until he is really ready..ladies can be funny

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Re: The Reasons Why You Should Stay Single by mazizitonene(m): 4:26pm On Mar 13, 2017
Someone once said....... "the only reason you should stay single is because you are broke" ....I guess he was high tho....

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