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Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by omosedollar(m): 10:13am On Mar 17, 2017
Dear Dapson, my Wife beats me at the slightest provocation. We've been together for 4years now. When We lived in Texas, I used to make excuses that if I hit her back she will call the police on me. A year ago, I got lucky and got a Job as an Expatriate in Port Harcourt. I give her a good life, she doesn't work or wants nothing that's out of my power to Provide. Last week She attacked me Because I told her to Stay out of my brother and his wife's business. All I could do was defend myself, my forearm was swollen from blocking blows and household appliances. My lips was swollen, eyes black. I had to lie at Work that I made some slight mistakes that led to a fender bender Accident. I'm less than a man for allowing this for so long and not leaving? I'm confused


Full story here
https://www.instagram.com/p/BRu7kzZBcNW/

Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by nepapole(m): 10:17am On Mar 17, 2017
Eeya..sorry ehn.

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Nne5: 10:18am On Mar 17, 2017
Liar
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Pieromania: 10:24am On Mar 17, 2017
Coward,mumu!ur wife rained blow on u and u have a swollen face,OTONDO!she knows u are a coward by trying to be mr nice that is why she messes u up at will.Dem never born that devil of a woman to try that crap with me Piero,emergency care unit will be her home.Anyway sha,that serves u right,whn u go to clubs to pick wives instead of church

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by ikp120(m): 10:34am On Mar 17, 2017
If your wife or girlfriend hit you, please do me a favour by hitting her back with 30% interest. cool cool cool cool


If you're not gonna do that, please do me a favour by kindly submitting yourself to be used for money rituals. sad sad grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Ahmed0336(m): 10:39am On Mar 17, 2017
Hmmmm d matter no concern me but see as my body dey hot.

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Nobody: 11:08am On Mar 17, 2017
If this man had raised a hand in retaliation, all the damned feminists would have been on egde, writing epistles about how no man should touch his wife no matter what she does

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Nobody: 11:12am On Mar 17, 2017
Is he sure she isn't a man who transgendered?.

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Greatbeard(m): 12:04pm On Mar 17, 2017
Just imagine the comments.
These same people that would rain curse alongside fire and brim stone on a man who touches his wife.

But he's a man so that's okay right?

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by dapsonlou(m): 1:19pm On Mar 17, 2017
Nne5:
Liar

See him mouth like liar. You dey there?

Let Yankee boys come and tell you there story, you go fear
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by dapsonlou(m): 1:22pm On Mar 17, 2017
Pieromania:
Coward,mumu!ur wife rained blow on u and u have a swollen face,OTONDO!she knows u are a coward by trying to be mr nice that is why she messes u up at will.Dem never born that devil of a woman to try that crap with me Piero,emergency care unit will be her home.Anyway sha,that serves u right,whn u go to clubs to pick wives instead of church

My guy touch am For Yankee, na then you go know say Immigration under Trump no be Joke
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by dapsonlou(m): 1:34pm On Mar 17, 2017
Greatbeard:
Just imagine the comments.
These same people that would rain curse alongside fire and brim stone on a man who touches his wife.

But he's a man so that's okay right?


God Bless you for that, If the guy beat his Wife they will call him Wife beater, if you don't beat her they will call you mumu. Men can't win

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by dapsonlou(m): 1:36pm On Mar 17, 2017
Fifthcolumnist:
If this man had raised a hand in retaliation, all the damned feminists would have been on egde, writing epistles about how no man should touch his wife no matter what she does

All this Feminist are Quite because the girl is their hero.

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Nobody: 1:48pm On Mar 17, 2017
Fifthcolumnist:
If this man had raised a hand in retaliation, all the damned feminists would have been on egde, writing epistles about how no man should touch his wife no matter what she does

We've got to admire this guy's courage but hey, let's not allow him keep being a punching bag.

Hitting any spouse shows, among other things, a low self-esteem and a deep lack of communication skills.

My guy should get off the punching-bag-who-loves-me act, sit her down and let her know that effective communication will help them better.

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by omosedollar(m): 2:05pm On Mar 17, 2017
alignacademy:


We've got to admire this guy's courage but hey, let's not allow him keep being a punching bag.

Hitting any spouse shows, among other things, a low self-esteem and a deep lack of communication skills.

My guy should get off the punching-bag-who-loves-me act, sit her down and let her know that effective communication will help them better.


Do you actually think this guy hasn't seat her down or call her Parents to report her in the past? Some Women can't change.
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Ovokoo: 2:15pm On Mar 17, 2017
Na wa

Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Nobody: 2:23pm On Mar 17, 2017
omosedollar:



Do you actually think this guy hasn't seat her down or call her Parents to report her in the past? Some Women can't change.

You do have a point. However I'm more concerned about my guy's behaviour. That is within his control to change.

As long he keeps playing this enabler role of being the "hero", this lady will keep abusing him.

Yes, even though such cases don't usually get much press, this man is undergoing severe emotional abuse at the hands of this woman.

He needs to realize he is NOT a doormat and that starts with him communicating his feelings to her, particularly on how this situation will not help their relationship.

Not that he should start beating her too; that'll still be him reacting to her cheap manipulation. He should get out of the victim complex by flipping the script.

Yeah, I know it's easier said than done, but he's already reached out for help so I believe he can follow through

Peace
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by solbinho: 2:41pm On Mar 17, 2017
Idiot
Nne5:
Liar

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Nobody: 2:42pm On Mar 17, 2017
Kuku cut off your peniss

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Nobody: 2:55pm On Mar 17, 2017
grin grin grin

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Nobody: 3:18pm On Mar 17, 2017
Hahahhaha
PH big boy bìťćh

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Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by akp202(m): 3:45pm On Mar 17, 2017
Super stories
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by Nobody: 4:11pm On Mar 17, 2017
This is serious ..
need to see picture of this wife abeg cheesy
Make i no go give wrong advice and she kill d poor guy

Violence is wrong be it hubby or wife .. same thing abuse na abuse .
Some guys are soft and some women just turn them to houseboy but anyway its rare .. the percentage of guys doing this is high undecided
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by chiraqDemon(m): 4:43pm On Mar 17, 2017
ikp120:
If your wife or girlfriend hit you, please do me a favour by hitting her back with 30% interest. cool cool cool cool


If you're not gonna do that, please do me a favour by kindly submitting yourself to be used for money rituals. sad sad grin grin grin grin grin grin
When thread comes that the guy hit his wife
She will not post on insta the story of how she beats him up with pestle and efa
Ppl will not hear when she was brutalising him o
Only when he slaps her once

Him slap him na chicken
Him nor slap na coward

Guys i cut cap
Na una de take crap pass
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by ikp120(m): 4:51pm On Mar 17, 2017
chiraqDemon:

When thread comes that the guy hit his wife
She will not post on insta the story of how she beats him up with pestle and efa
Ppl will not hear when she was brutalising him o
Only when he slaps her once

Him slap him na chicken
Him nor slap na coward

Guys i cut cap
Na una de take crap pass

Lolzzz grin grin grin

The more reason why we need CCTV camera inside every room in our homes, including the bedroom. sad sad sad
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by omosedollar(m): 5:47pm On Mar 17, 2017
alignacademy:


You do have a point. However I'm more concerned about my guy's behaviour. That is within his control to change.

As long he keeps playing this enabler role of being the "hero", this lady will keep abusing him.

Yes, even though such cases don't usually get much press, this man is undergoing severe emotional abuse at the hands of this woman.

He needs to realize he is NOT a doormat and that starts with him communicating his feelings to her, particularly on how this situation will not help their relationship.

Not that he should start beating her too; that'll still be him reacting to her cheap manipulation. He should get out of the victim complex by flipping the script.

Yeah, I know it's easier said than done, but he's already reached out for help so I believe he can follow through

Peace



I think he needs to beat her Once to put her in check or Change the Lock to the house. She needs not know there will be repercussions for her bad behavior
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by omosedollar(m): 5:56pm On Mar 17, 2017
Bumbae1:
This is serious ..
need to see picture of this wife abeg cheesy
Make i no go give wrong advice and she kill d poor guy

Violence is wrong be it hubby or wife .. same thing abuse na abuse .
Some guys are soft and some women just turn them to houseboy but anyway its rare .. the percentage of guys doing this is high undecided


grin angry grin angry angry angry angry
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by omosedollar(m): 6:01pm On Mar 17, 2017
Bumbae1:
This is serious ..
need to see picture of this wife abeg cheesy
Make i no go give wrong advice and she kill d poor guy

Violence is wrong be it hubby or wife .. same thing abuse na abuse .
Some guys are soft and some women just turn them to houseboy but anyway its rare .. the percentage of guys doing this is high undecided


It's usually all them Nerdy Who go's and Marry Tonto Dikeh because they now have money. It happens to quite guys who wants a Trophy wife or a girl that's above their level , they will worship her till the end.
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by dapsonlou(m): 11:13pm On Mar 17, 2017
grin grin
Re: Port Harcourt Big Boy My Wife Beats Me At The Slightest Provocation by SurefireFashion: 11:20pm On Mar 17, 2017
Funny post

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