Does engaging a lady prevent her from her sexual conquest? Pls don't get peeved at my tone tho, many ladies dat got bedded during my school and NYSC years claimed to be engaged or even had a ring to show for it. Does this strategy really work or a waste of precious time?

deluxecad:

Does engaging a MAN prevent HIM from HIM sexual conquest? Pls don't get peeved at my tone tho, many GUYS dat got bedded during my school and NYSC years claimed to be engaged or even had a ring to show for it. Does this strategy really work or a waste of precious time?

This forum is really anti-women, if you hate women so much swing the other way and leave us be.

Ebonyeyes:

This forum is really anti-women, if you hate women so much swing the other way and leave us be.

"Guilty Conscience" hhaa hhaaaa

@Ebonyeyes: No anti-woman campaign here, it's just dat those ladies showed off their engagement emblems all the time and still did crazy stuff u can't beliv. You can hardly hear a guy tell u he's engaged or something. Got it now?

What about the Married men with mistresses? Or is it ok for men?

Mistress or none, wat I'm sayin is dat it's senseless 4 some1 2 make promises n engagements u can't live true to. Period.

Tell that to the Millions of Nigerian men using "The Marriage strategy" "pffts"

Sorry, r u engaged n unfaithful? U sound kinda guilty. Lol.

Pathetic stunt. You havnt answered my question.

What the question self?    [size=2pt]am back[/size]

Most married men are cheats
End of story.

mama-gee:

Most married women are cheats
End of story.

why would married women act like that?

If I engage my woman, she should just be 4 me alone n not just flag d very expensive ring n cheat! Superjealous me.

@Ebony eyes,
I guess you are guilty!if you do want us to answer your question then raise a topic on that.

henryhemon:

@Ebony eyes,
I guess you are guilty!if you do want us to answer your question then raise a topic on that.

may be na 1 of dem!

Ebonyeyes:

Tell that to the Millions of Nigerian men using "The Marriage strategy" "pffts"

Ebony is rite why be peeved by it wen both sexes are involved? It's not exclusive to the women however to answer your question the engagement strategy is a filter.

@Lord Reed: what's a filter? Wat does dat mean?

deluxecad:

@Lord Reed: what's a filter? Wat does dat mean?

It means she/he is saying it so that anyone who is not serious will be put off by it. This will reduce the numba of people seeking his/her attention.

Engagement keeps people going!

really, it's nt all abt engagement, i gues it's more of commitment. dere r lots of ladies who claim 2 b engaged(sm dnt even knw d meanin of d word) nd dey stil do things dat one shdnt b heard doin.

deluxecad:

Does engaging a lady prevent her from her sexual conquest? Pls don't get peeved at my tone tho, many ladies dat got bedded during my school and NYSC years claimed to be engaged or even had a ring to show for it. Does this strategy really work or a waste of precious time?

obviously not! even where i am now, i know engaged ppl that are cheating on their mugusfiances. in fact it got to a point i was plain pissed off, why would you be talking about your man up and down the place if u know later at night u'll still be screaming someone else's name!

Ebonyeyes:

This forum is really anti-women, if you hate women so much swing the other way and leave us be.

then y'all women should come out wiv your own issues now. . . guys talk more thats the reason why ppl say this forum is anti-women.

FACT:i'm sick and tired of er'single thing being given sexist connotations, the OP said something he noticed and next thing accusations of sexism are flying left right and centre

netotse:

obviously not! even where i am now, i know engaged ppl that are cheating on their mugusfiances. in fact it got to a point i was plain pissed off, why would you be talking about your man up and down the place if u know later at night u'll still be screaming someone else's name!
then y'all women should come out wiv your own issues now. . . guys talk more thats the reason why ppl say this forum is anti-women.

FACT:i'm sick and tired of er'single thing being given sexist connotations, the OP said something he noticed and next thing accusations of sexism are flying left right and centre

That's just the truth brah.

If even marriage doesn't keep some people from cheating, I doubt an engagement would have much of an effect either, it comes down to the person to be honest, not some little ring thing, you just hope and pray you meet a faithful partner, hope and pray

@ poster

Yours is a strange question to me, let me explain why.  If a woman is engaged and a man is aware of this, why is he choosing to sleep with her?

Is it because:

[list]
[li]He thinks she's fair game because she's not yet married?[/li]
[li]He needs to get his rocks off and her status is irrelevant?[/li]
[li]If it doesn't bother her then he'll too will turn a blind eye?[/li]

[/list]

I ask because it seems from the tone of your post that the onus is on the woman, which I would agree is true.  However, any man who knowingly sleeps with an engaged woman lacks any moral credibility to slander engaged women who sleep with someone outside of their relationship. 

If a (supposed) woman is engaged and sleeping around she is not ready for marriage.

netotse:

obviously not! even where i am now, i know engaged ppl that are cheating on their mugusfiances. in fact it got to a point i was plain pissed off, why would you be talking about your man up and down the place if u know later at night u'll still be screaming someone else's name!
then y'all women should come out wiv your own issues now. . . guys talk more thats the reason why ppl say this forum is anti-women.

FACT:i'm sick and tired of er'single thing being given sexist connotations, the OP said something he noticed and next thing accusations of sexism are flying left right and centre

Its this a battle on who can post the most disrespectful thing about the opposite gender? If its a constructive criticism, I understand but most of the threads on the front page are downright disrespectful and nasty to Nigerian/black women. If we are so terrible, horrible and tragic looking, its ok to swing for the male team or another race, its much better that we women are rid of selfhating disrespectful Negros. That is all.

Does being engaged stop a man from cheating too?

TOPE2000!:

Does being engaged stop a man from cheating too?

Didnt you get the memo hun? its ok if men cheat because they are men but women should be ridiculed and lynched if they cheat. Thats the impression I get from the OP and some of his cronies in this thread. This forum is anti-women and he MODS have to do something about it because its becoming ridiculous now.

Ebonyeyes:

Didnt you get the memo hun? its ok if men cheat because they are men but women should be ridiculed and lynched if they cheat. Thats the impression I get from the OP and some of his cronies in this thread. This forum is anti-women and he MODS have to do something about it because its becoming ridiculous now.

Lol. To be honest that shyte gets me mad
for a man its cool to cheat, infact he is a real man if he does
but for a woman its like a taboo. arrant nonsense

@OP    

Don't waste your hard earned money on that ring.  Why wife a LovePeddler to begin with? Truth be told, neither engagement nor marriage will stop the hooker from getting the cum bleeped out of her nose if her mind is made up.

TOPE2000!:

Lol. To be honest that shyte gets me mad
for a man its cool to cheat, infact he is a real man if he does
but for a woman its like a taboo. arrant nonsense

Tragic Nonsense indeed. Maybe if all the females on NL disappeared these men will be able to do what they have been longing to do for a while now Play for the other team.

Ebonyeyes:

Tragic Nonsense indeed. Maybe if all the females on NL disappeared these men will be able to do what they have been longing to do for a while now Play for the other team.

Rofl . . .we shud go on a strike

Girl thats a good idea, maybe we should go for a strike for 1mth and lets see how these good for nothing negros survive with eachother shebi they said women are not necessary creatures on earth?