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Let me add this too, I know IVF is costly and chances of success is small and you said you have tried 3 times, but if you are okay financially keep trying for some time more please. You still have viable eggs, don't let guilt and depression cost you what you can afford. And hey smile and laugh and joke with your husband, don't let him feel he already lost you to depressin and guilt, have fun with people that love you. Please reply me with smiling emoji atleast I will console myself that you are pretending to smile.

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loveanonymity:
Let me add this too, I know IVF is costly and chances of success is small and you said you have tried 3 times, but if you are okay financially keep trying for some time more please. You still have viable eggs, don't let guilt and depression cost you what you can afford. And hey smile and laugh and joke with your husband, don't let him feel he already lost you to depressin and guilt, have fun with people that love you. Please reply me with smiling emoji atleast I will console myself that you are pretending to smile.

Thank you so much Sis

@Iamcool, try surrogacy. The fact that IVF failed doesn't mean surrogacy will fail. There are several fertility centres in Nigeria that can help you get a surrogate mother. Your hubby loves you, don't hurt him by divorcing him.
You have a good heart.

chinybelle:
What tribe are you?
If you are Igbo(not all part tho)
You can marry him a wife and the lady will produce children for him.
Go to the villages, there are families looking for opportunities like this

Can you please provide me with the names of some of those villages? He's not too into Ivf again. We've been thru a lot for years. Tried all sorts. Since he can impregnate a woman even at first intercourse, getting a wife is the ideal thing to do.

Iamcool82:
Hmmm.
Thank you for adding to my tears. Thank you. I was molested at 9 by my step dad. Many other things happened. Too terrible to write. I knew my hiv status at age 19. After 10 years of constant molestation. It's not your fault. I blame myself. I'm 34 now and I didn't live a reckless life to get hiv.
I only found a man who's like an angel and I hate myself daily for causing him pains. He accepted me even with all my past. Not up to 1% of all living men can do that. He deserves the best even if it's without me

Hmm Causing you more pain wasn't my intention really and I apologise for that and edit ..Correct me if I'm wrong was what I said,didnt say you lived a reckless life.

LuvSwollenPussy:
Yes very true. God bless you

Amen and you too

Iamcool82:
Can you please provide me with the names of some of those villages? He's not too into Ivf again. We've been thru a lot for years. Tried all sorts. Since he can impregnate a woman even at first intercourse, getting a wife is the ideal thing to do.

Anambra I know for sure.