I just found out that my girlfriend who I am thinking of settling down with had sexual affairs with married men. Though they were before we started dating...She never told me about them..She just told me they are her friends..And they get to see sometimes With me not knowing they had something earlier. I am really against having affairs with married people..I am kinda heart broken..Don't know wat to do. Pls mature advice is needed..

It's only a virgin that won't have a past,if we all want to reveal our past sexual escapades nobody will marry each other

...."before y'all started dating", meaning she stopped then.

If she ain't doing that anymore, then it's cool nau, no1 is perfect, we all have our pasts. No need to judge someone cuz of their past deeds.

But hey, if u really not comfortable with the whole idea of dating her, it's ur choice, honestly,

Remember, the past is the past, hopefully she won't do such while y'all are dating.

subtlemee:
It's only a virgin that won't have a past,if we all want to reveal our past sexual escapades nobody will marry each other

Speak for yourself

subtlemee:
It's only a virgin that won't have a past,if we all want to reveal our past sexual escapades nobody will marry each other

That's a really dumb talk

What's done is done.
Now you worry about the present.
Is she faithful? Ask her questions. Investigate well.
But if you believe this is a deal breaker, leave Bro.

Blanc8:



That's a really dumb talk

You could've simply displayed your intelligence and smartness in your own fresh comment not resort to rudeness

Runnnnnn Brother run!

She's still seeing em behind ur back n d luv wudnt let u wake up huh?

Materialistic gurls r worse than cancer. Marry her @ ur own peril

subtlemee:
It's only a virgin that won't have a past,if we all want to reveal our past sexual escapades nobody will marry each other

is dis one advice ,she is in a new beginning(present ) she doesn't want to open up n tell d dude dat has future plans for her ur saying its only a virgin ogbeni read well n give better advice

Blanc8:



That's a really dumb talk

bros tell her ooo

subtlemee:


You could've simply displayed your intelligence and smartness in your own fresh comment not resort to rudeness

Mehn, young lady. . . Really have nothing to say to you
If you claim i was rude, well, fine

subtlemee:
It's only a virgin that won't have a past,if we all want to reveal our past sexual escapades nobody will marry each other

This one don fobojona for past sha

Jacksparr0w127:
This one don fonojona for past sha

Lol... Whatever that means

PrinzCarter:
is dis one advice ,she is in a new beginning(present ) she doesn't want to open up n tell d dude dat has future plans for her ur saying its only a virgin ogbeni read well n give better advice

Intellectuals will get the meaning out of my comment,you guys should stop waiting for spelt out advice like kids in kindergarten reading from story books

Jacksparr0w127:
This one don fobojona for past sha

Hmm...saint of nairaland

subtlemee:


Hmm...saint of nairaland

you can say that again

emeijeh:

Lol... Whatever that means

Leave Her Alone...


But before you do so,, make sure you fullfil your sexual Fantasies with her Pucy, if you get what I mean...

Good luck bro.

subtlemee:
It's only a virgin that won't have a past,if we all want to reveal our past sexual escapades nobody will marry each other

I totally agree with you, except you are a virgin, you ain't pure. There must be something you have done. Those saying otherwise are just dumb hypocrites.


The lady still bleeped up though, she could have told him the truth and not lie that the married men were "just old friends". Maybe if she'd told him the truth, he'd be able to see past her old life and love her for now.

mimachigoz:
I just found out that my girlfriend who I am thinking of settling down with had sexual affairs with married men. Though they were before we started dating...She never told me about them..She just told me they are her friends..And they get to see sometimes With me not knowing they had something earlier. I am really against having affairs with married people..I am kinda heart broken..Don't know wat to do. Pls mature advice is needed..

Op, maybe she kept it from you because she guessed you'd react this way, run and judge her for mingling with married men in her past life. If you truly love her, you'll have to forgive and give her a chance to prove that she's no longer like that.

Either that, or just move on with your life.

Blanc8:


Mehn, young lady. . . Really have nothing to say to you
If you claim i was rude, well, fine

Is this all? You could've done better

PrinzCarter:
is dis one advice ,she is in a new beginning(present ) she doesn't want to open up n tell d dude dat has future plans for her ur saying its only a virgin ogbeni read well n give better advice

Do you bare everything the very instance you meet a new partner? Yes she's done some things in the past and it takes a gradual process to weed everything out so the OP should have patience because he's no saint either...I've spelt out the advice can I be left in peace?

Most of you claiming saints here are all having 3-5 girls already aside your wives and and main chic

Hypocrites

Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future

Jacksparr0w127:
you can say that again

subtlemee:


Do you bare everything the very instance you meet a new partner? Yes she's done some things in the past and it takes a gradual process to weed everything out so the OP should have patience because he's no saint either...I've spelt out the advice can I be left in peace?

Most of you claiming saints here are all having 3-5 girls already aside your wives and and main chic

Hypocrites

d patience Ur talking abt has eaten or is eating his time ,loyalty, and trust towards her wats there to come clean and help out dis dude and see they both have a better future together well of cause money has driven sum gals mad dat dey can't cut d source even if its a frog one more tin nt all guys has two to five gals still your advice is base less and nt accepted swallow pride and give a simple advice

Twaci:



The lady still bleeped up though, she could have told him the truth and not lie that the married men were "just old friends". Maybe if she'd told him the truth, he'd be able to see past her old life and love her for now.

sister ur blessed subtlemee cum see better advice

PrinzCarter:
sister ur blessed subtlemee cum see better advice

Grow beyond spoon fed advice

PrinzCarter:
d patience Ur talking abt has eaten or is eating his time ,loyalty, and trust towards her wats there to come clean and help out dis dude and see they both have a better future together well of cause money has driven sum gals mad dat dey can't cut d source even if its a frog one more tin nt all guys has two to five gals still your advice is base less and nt accepted swallow pride and give a simple advice

One can only come out clean after trust has been established and trust is earned gradually not enforced that's why I said OP needs to be patient there's a perfect timing for everything..is it not yesterday I saw a thread about guys always running from a lady each time she comes out clean to tell them about her past? What do you guys really want?

As for you Prinz sit down and wait for for me to list out the advice..just wondering why some people were given brains